Being good looking anyway

[No-name]

If you think about it no one is ugly.

Its perception. You might have eyes far apart. Be fat or too small or top weird. Mostly its the voice in your mind attacking us, or a depressed vision.

But in the eyes of love you would still be beautifull. And when you look at the world around you, humans are imperfect. Many men still like the way women look, she is still a woman afterall. And we are men afterall.

What we truly want is to be loved. And to be loved we need to expres love ourselfs to ourselfs and others. To be aknowleged as human and as spirit and as worth it in our contridictions with the world.

And staying alive and being alive is a beautifull contradiction to being dead. And being alive you are beautifull inside and outside. And someone loves you somewhere if you expres it yourself. Maybe if all is terrible there would be like a dog who still thinks your wonderfull. And we are because we are creation.

 

[waqs]

i wish it was that easy to just love yourself but we live in a lookism society that puts looks over most things when it comes to a person. if you're truly ugly then you'll be seen as sub human, while good looking people that did horrible things can be seen in a positive light from the general public due to their looks. it's unfair but it's how the world is. i truly do hope that people can someone as a collective love people for who they are, but that's a long away (if ever) since people won't even want to get to know the true you if you lost the genetic lottery. meaning that they'll never see the person to love, only their looks.

sorry for the rant, i just wish i could love myself when looking into the mirror lmao.

 

[No-name]

i wish it was that easy to just love yourself but we live in a lookism society that puts looks over most things when it comes to a person. if you're truly ugly then you'll be seen as sub human, while good looking people that did horrible things can be seen in a positive light from the general public due to their looks. it's unfair but it's how the world is. i truly do hope that people can someone as a collective love people for who they are, but that's a long away (if ever) since people won't even want to get to know the true you if you lost the genetic lottery. meaning that they'll never see the person to love, only their looks.

sorry for the rant, i just wish i could love myself when looking into the mirror lmao.

But can people react nicely to you? or is it that everyone dispises you the way you look. I know society is shit, but do we really want to follow those rules of being like a puppet. When for most those cards werent dealt.

Maybe the only way to get along with yourself is not playing the game, or contributing in something else. I am sure someone out there will love you and you can love back. Maybe someone with flaws themselfs.

Self bombing wont get us further.

i wish it was that easy to just love yourself but we live in a lookism society that puts looks over most things when it comes to a person. if you're truly ugly then you'll be seen as sub human, while good looking people that did horrible things can be seen in a positive light from the general public due to their looks. it's unfair but it's how the world is. i truly do hope that people can someone as a collective love people for who they are, but that's a long away (if ever) since people won't even want to get to know the true you if you lost the genetic lottery. meaning that they'll never see the person to love, only their looks.

sorry for the rant, i just wish i could love myself when looking into the mirror lmao.

Me too the strange thing is yesterday I dispised myself and today I am alright because I feel a bit better. So its partly my brain. And people are suddenly very nice to me. Do I really want to reproduce, because the world has plenty of people already. It would be nice, and people live with all kinds of conditions and handicaps. Or do I want to be acknowledged and loved the way I am.

Could I live looking like a monster and then like receiving and being cutlled. Could a monster be very friendly, strong wise and unique and therefore be loved.

 

[waqs]

But can people react nicely to you? or is it that everyone dispises you the way you look.

of course people can be nice to me; anyone can be nice to anyone no matter the looks, but its only superficial. they're only nice because they have to due to how society is set up. if you don't hold the door for someone you risk being seen as rude by others, people care about their reputation when around others so of course they wont be rude or despise you openly even if they feel that way in their heart.

I know society is shit, but do we really want to follow those rules of being like a puppet. When for most those cards werent dealt

people often feel pressured to contribute to society due to feeling like they need to give back what they earned. going against the rules and regulations of society is deemed unacceptable, but that's only because they're ingrained into their beliefs. this comes back to the lookism because people from an early age are tough what is right and wrong from a social stand point, this includes looks, they're told not to 'judge a book by its cover' from a young age yet they still do because of how others around them do as well. people see other discriminating against others due to their looks, wither its calling a homeless man raggity, or pointing out a disabled person, its showed from an early age that its okay to treat people if they aren't up to the societies standards.

Maybe the only way to get along with yourself is not playing the game, or contributing in something else. I am sure someone out there will love you and you can love back. Maybe someone with flaws themself.

i agree on this, this doesn't mean we don't live in a lookism society. because we live in that type of society then you're constantly seen as sub human by society in their hearts, it's hard not to see yourself as sub human as well if that's what the collective sees ugly people as. online you're constantly showed what could be, and what you're "supposed" to look like, people online get harassed just because they don't look like what society deems acceptable. this is why we must form our own path and exist with true freedom away from society itself, however this world is built on society. if you leave it then you're essentially rejecting the world; this is the best outcome to me. more people should free themselves from earth and become their true selves, it's not easy at all but i truly wish more people would do what i'm afraid to ^^

 

[No-name]

of course people can be nice to me; anyone can be nice to anyone no matter the looks, but its only superficial. they're only nice because they have to due to how society is set up. if you don't hold the door for someone you risk being seen as rude by others, people care about their reputation when around others so of course they wont be rude or despise you openly even if they feel that way in their heart.


people often feel pressured to contribute to society due to feeling like they need to give back what they earned. going against the rules and regulations of society is deemed unacceptable, but that's only because they're ingrained into their beliefs. this comes back to the lookism because people from an early age are tough what is right and wrong from a social stand point, this includes looks, they're told not to 'judge a book by its cover' from a young age yet they still do because of how others around them do as well. people see other discriminating against others due to their looks, wither its calling a homeless man raggity, or pointing out a disabled person, its showed from an early age that its okay to treat people if they aren't up to the societies standards.


i agree on this, this doesn't mean we don't live in a lookism society. because we live in that type of society then you're constantly seen as sub human by society in their hearts, it's hard not to see yourself as sub human as well if that's what the collective sees ugly people as. online you're constantly showed what could be, and what you're "supposed" to look like, people online get harassed just because they don't look like what society deems acceptable. this is why we must form our own path and exist with true freedom away from society itself, however this world is built on society. if you leave it then you're essentially rejecting the world; this is the best outcome to me. more people should free themselves from earth and become their true selves, it's not easy at all but i truly wish more people would do what i'm afraid to ^^

Yes and thats why we can be that contradiction. The homeless man can say hé doesnt care what other think and chat along happily with the other homeless people.
Being a contridiction is something that can make the world see there is more then a puppit society. Its shredding millions of people Who now believe they are ugly. And mostly fed by evolution and also insane demands on beauty.

I myself dont want to belong to society I want to connect with a few people I like. I also agree that we should free ourselves from society. Humanity is almost morally dead at the moment so not getting along with society is a plus in my book
Besides there are other percs then being good looking. And there are other terrible things that could have happend.

of course people can be nice to me; anyone can be nice to anyone no matter the looks, but its only superficial. they're only nice because they have to due to how society is set up. if you don't hold the door for someone you risk being seen as rude by others, people care about their reputation when around others so of course they wont be rude or despise you openly even if they feel that way in their heart.


people often feel pressured to contribute to society due to feeling like they need to give back what they earned. going against the rules and regulations of society is deemed unacceptable, but that's only because they're ingrained into their beliefs. this comes back to the lookism because people from an early age are tough what is right and wrong from a social stand point, this includes looks, they're told not to 'judge a book by its cover' from a young age yet they still do because of how others around them do as well. people see other discriminating against others due to their looks, wither its calling a homeless man raggity, or pointing out a disabled person, its showed from an early age that its okay to treat people if they aren't up to the societies standards.


i agree on this, this doesn't mean we don't live in a lookism society. because we live in that type of society then you're constantly seen as sub human by society in their hearts, it's hard not to see yourself as sub human as well if that's what the collective sees ugly people as. online you're constantly showed what could be, and what you're "supposed" to look like, people online get harassed just because they don't look like what society deems acceptable. this is why we must form our own path and exist with true freedom away from society itself, however this world is built on society. if you leave it then you're essentially rejecting the world; this is the best outcome to me. more people should free themselves from earth and become their true selves, it's not easy at all but i truly wish more people would do what i'm afraid to ^^

I dont believe people only act nice out of deciency. I think lots of people like you even thou you might not be chatting along as you would like. Just like we like the sight of animals other people would like you just the way you are.

 

[rest2love]

No, some people are deformed / dysgenic / ugly such that they will TEND to be invisible or treated in a hostile manner