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noname223
Angelic
- Aug 18, 2020
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This is such a fucking stupid idea. I think this was one of the main reasons why my mom abused me. Who in the world is so stupid to think that this was a healthy way to raise your kid Most people just develop very unhealthy mechanisms how to cope with life and stress. I think many children rather become dysfunctional adults, drug addicts, mentally ill, suicidal etc.
In most cases it does not make your kids stronger. Rather quite the opposite. I assume that there are many people here in this forum with parents with a similar attitude. My mom was also beaten by her grandparents. I am glad I will break that vicious cycle and don't procreate. I don't think I could become a responsible parents. I cannot even handle my own problems. Moreover I think for people like me who never were raised properly it is more difficult to have a healthy notion how one can raise a child. This is something I fear will happen with my sister. She has a lot of problems, mentally etc, horrible genes just like me. I really hope she won't propcreate but she wants to. If this child is 5 % per cent similar to me the child is already FUCKED.
In most cases it does not make your kids stronger. Rather quite the opposite. I assume that there are many people here in this forum with parents with a similar attitude. My mom was also beaten by her grandparents. I am glad I will break that vicious cycle and don't procreate. I don't think I could become a responsible parents. I cannot even handle my own problems. Moreover I think for people like me who never were raised properly it is more difficult to have a healthy notion how one can raise a child. This is something I fear will happen with my sister. She has a lot of problems, mentally etc, horrible genes just like me. I really hope she won't propcreate but she wants to. If this child is 5 % per cent similar to me the child is already FUCKED.
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