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- Jan 31, 2022
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I plan to travel to Beachy Head in a week. Does anyone know the best spot for jumping?
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If looking from the lighthouse (at the bottom), I think slightly to the left it looks like a fairly verticle drop onto ground. It's hard to tell from Google maps. It's a shame there is no information on where people actually jumped from when reading articles about people who have successfully CTB there.I've never been, but from looking at pictures, I would guess right by the lighthouse. You'll hit ground there instead of water.
Yes that place is full of police and the good Samaritans. Do think we'll your decision. It's ok to rethink , either way I hope you find peace whatever path you choose.I don't but I suggest you don't share your ctb location here. I think one of the members was stopped by cops when they shared ctb location
I'm out of options. I tried hanging, it snapped. Tried drowning myself and failed. I've been sectioned over 6 times. Last 7 years have been hell. Bipolar depression. The ideal way would be SN but that's not possible.. I can't think of anything that will be certain and relatively painless...Yes that place is full of police and the good Samaritans. Do think we'll your decision. It's ok to rethink , either way I hope you find peace whatever path you choose.
I was thinking of going soon as well considering it's only about 2 hours away from me. What do the police do?
This is a little debatable, because many people who jump at the Golden Gate Bridge die by drowning, so it might be better to hit the water, which is supposed to be a much harder surface when jumping from a higher height. The ground might be better, or it might not, I'm just not sure. Both will probably work though.I've never been, but from looking at pictures, I would guess right by the lighthouse. You'll hit ground there instead of water.
Truthfully mosy suicide methods result in a closed casket situation- some may not, but most do. For me if I want to end the pain I can't be concerned about the appearance of the body later.i'm also considering using jumping as my method. i would really like to be somewhere beautiful like beachy head or preikestolen in my last moments, just taking in nature before i go, however the more i think about it the more unlikely this seems to me.
i'll probably have to end up using a bridge if i can't travel far (because of money depending and other things when i decide to ctb) and the only bridge which is somewhat accessible to me, is a height that i'm fairly certain will make it a quick end and is somewhat near nature has suicide barriers up. i get why they do it i guess, i'm just frustrated that if i end up using jumping as a method and have to use that location i'll have to try to parkour my way over some fence and won't be able to just take my time and try to enjoy the view before i go.
the main thing i'm worried about with this method though, is how my body will look. i mean obviously it won't matter to me, but i don't really want to take the option away from my friends if they would want to see me and i wouldn't want them to see my body if it was really badly disfigured.
Can go together if you wantI was thinking of going soon as well considering it's only about 2 hours away from me. What do the police do?
Sadly I've had a few dealings with the fuzz. Though if I see them approaching it may be good as it'll kick me into flight (literally) mode.If you don't have a good excuse for being there or you look suspicious (looking over the edge, stalling in place, are there alone etc) they'll probably stop and have a chat with you.
You might be able to talk yourself out of it but there's a chance they might get you sectioned or taken to hospital.
I think its a beautiful spot if jumping is your method but prepare to potentially be stopped, in going you must accept at least some risk of a hospital trip unfortunately. :/
Maybe there's times when you're less likely to see them, I'm not entirely sure.
Thank you but no thanksCan go together if you want
Bipolar is rough. Know exactly how you feel. Wish you the best and my inbox is open if you ever want to talk to a fellow polar bear.I'm out of options. I tried hanging, it snapped. Tried drowning myself and failed. I've been sectioned over 6 times. Last 7 years have been hell. Bipolar depression. The ideal way would be SN but that's not possible.. I can't think of anything that will be certain and relatively painless...
I dont get this respect of the dead. When we're dead, thats it. Our life is gone and yet the corpse undergoes a serious of rituals.Who cares if we get t thrown in to a mass grave or furnace. Im being cremated in a body bag, that s my advanced directive. We return to the soil as ashes or rot in the ground.Truthfully mosy suicide methods result in a closed casket situation- some may not, but most do. For me if I want to end the pain I can't be concerned about the appearance of the body later.
They do that and I'll call the cops. Be nice to finally inflict their wrath on someone else other than me. Though knowing my luck they'll side with the pro-life folk and sanction me or somethingSome of the Beachy Head folks can get quite physical - even tackling folks who break into a run at their approach.
They are there 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
If you can find another place, that might be a better option.
I've seen other posts that if you are careful you can get a wide open chance to do this here, you just need to not look suspicious and if there is too much traffic come by an another day or at another time.They do that and I'll call the cops. Be nice to finally inflict their wrath on someone else other than me. Though knowing my luck they'll side with the pro-life folk and sanction me or something![]()
Thank you for the tip. I'm still planning and getting my affairs in order but I'll remember when the time comes.I've seen other posts that if you are careful you can get a wide open chance to do this here, you just need to not look suspicious and if there is too much traffic come by an another day or at another time.
Any further thoughts ? It's pretty busy down there now with the good weather...Thank you for the tip. I'm still planning and getting my affairs in order but I'll remember when the time comes.
I actually did drive down there about two weeks ago after my parents had a big argument. I sent a text to my friends before I got lost and by the time I pulled over and checked my phone I had missed calls from them and my mum and Kent police so it was quite morbidly funny in a senseAny further thoughts ? It's pretty busy down there now with the good weather...
That's complete nonsense, i was there last year.Some of the Beachy Head folks can get quite physical - even tackling folks who break into a run at their approach.
They are there 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
If you can find another place, that might be a better option.
They should have people there you can pay to give you a pushI actually did drive down there about two weeks ago after my parents had a big argument. I sent a text to my friends before I got lost and by the time I pulled over and checked my phone I had missed calls from them and my mum and Kent police so it was quite morbidly funny in a sense
I would pay a lot for thatThey should have people there you can pay to give you a push