Bad guy

[Lrdhlpme]

Anyone here think they are the bad guy, the evil under the bed. Personally I didn't think so until 2 months ago something happened that forced me to analyse myself, now I see I am that evil

 

[Deleted member 847]

why, what did you do?

 

[Smilla]

Anyone here think they are the bad guy, the evil under the bed. Personally I didn't think so until 2 months ago something happened that forced me to analyse myself, now I see I am that evil

I don't think I am evil because I feel enormous guilt over a few things I have done.

The fact that you think you are evil probably means you aren't actually evil since being evil requires a lack of conscience.

 

[Tiburcio]

I don't think I am evil because I feel enormous guilt over a few things I have done.

The fact that you think you are evil probably means you aren't actually evil since being evil requires a lack of conscience.

I was about say I was some kind of demon, but your comment saved me of that wicked reality. Thank you.

 

[Lrdhlpme]

I don't think I am evil because I feel enormous guilt over a few things I have done.

The fact that you think you are evil probably means you aren't actually evil since being evil requires a lack of conscience.

Issue is that I think I feel guilty because I was not not because of my actions... seing a theraypist soon and I hope that helps me

 

[Lrdhlpme]

Issue is that I think I feel guilty because I was not not because of my actions... seing a theraypist soon and I hope that helps me

Because I was caught**

 

[Smilla]

Because I was caught**

You are human. I would explore this more with your therapist, exactly as you are talking here.

 

[RealMe]

Anyone here think they are the bad guy, the evil under the bed. Personally I didn't think so until 2 months ago something happened that forced me to analyse myself, now I see I am that evil

It would take a lot of sin and deliberate wrongdoing to truly be evil. And even evil people can change if they really wanted to.

 

[Lrdhlpme]

Issue is that I think I feel guilty because I was not not because of my actions... seing a theraypist soon and I hope that helps me

Caught**

 

[Lrdhlpme]

It would take a lot of sin and deliberate wrongdoing to truly be evil. And even evil people can change if they really wanted to.

I feel like I raped someone.. not physically but their reputation instead

 

[RealMe]

I feel like I raped someone.. not physically but their reputation instead

Care to tell the story?

 

[Lrdhlpme]

Used someone else's picture on grindr instead of my own... too afraid to send mine but had no issue sending his instead. I apologised when drunk and he attempted to kill me and everyone there turned against telling me to kill myself

 

[RealMe]

Used someone else's picture on grindr instead of my own... too afraid to send mine but had no issue sending his instead. I apologised when drunk and he attempted to kill me and everyone there turned against telling me to kill myself

Wait how did you get this guys pic to begin with? Was he a friend of yours or did you just randomly snap a shot of him?

 

[Lrdhlpme]

Wait how did you get this guys pic to begin with? Was he a friend of yours or did you just randomly snap a shot of him?

He was a classmate, used his pic from Facebook

 

[Nzbeelover]

I don't think you raped his reputation? What is grinder

 

[RealMe]

I don't think you raped his reputation? What is grinder

It's basically tindr

 

[RealMe]

He was a classmate, used his pic from Facebook

How long ago was this?

 

[Definitelyworried]

I think what you did is illegal, but it's also illegal for them to tell you to kill yourself if you do end up killing yourself also him trying to kill you is illegal, nonetheless what you did is quite bad, the good thing is you learned from it.

 

[Lrdhlpme]

I don't think you raped his reputation? What is grinder

Tinder for gay/bi people... he is straight that's why I feel that I deserve a noose around my neck

 

[creatureoflight]

Using his picture was pretty shitty of you, I admit. But you don't deserve a death sentence because of this and you feel remorse which makes you a good person. Where I live, we have big problems with people raping girls and not one of these people ever seems to feel remorse for what they did.
So you made an honest mistake. Don't beat yourself up about it!

 

[Lrdhlpme]

How long ago was this?

2 months

 

[RealMe]

2 months

I agree it was a dumb move on your part. But as everyone else has stated it's done now and you cant change what happened and it doesnt sound like you'll do it again. Hopefully in a few more months or possibly years he'll get over it. And if not who cares at least you genuinely apologized and wont do it again.

 

[Lrdhlpme]

I think what you did is illegal, but it's also illegal for them to tell you to kill yourself if you do end up killing yourself also him trying to kill you is illegal, nonetheless what you did is quite bad, the good thing is you learned from it.

Not illegal... he went to the cops and they said they would keep an eye on me but can't do anything in this situation however he can sue for defamation which is huge in ireland people regularly get 100000 plus from it

 

[Definitelyworried]

Not illegal... he went to the cops and they said they would keep an eye on me but can't do anything in this situation however he can sue for defamation which is huge in ireland people regularly get 100000 plus from it

Well if he can sue you for it, in theory it is illegal.

 

[ge0rge]

this is a cheeky question but a thirsty gay must know - what was going on in your mind at that point? did you do it to protect your identity?

 

[Lrdhlpme]

Not illegal... he went to the cops and they said they would keep an eye on me but can't do anything in this situation however he can sue for defamation which is huge in ireland people regularly get 100000 plus from it

I may file for bankruptcy after getting s

Well if he can sue you for it, in theory it is illegal.

Well kinda, just a civil suit... like a devoure.. thinking about giving him my 20 000 in savings, filling for bankruptcy changing my name and moving away

 

[Lrdhlpme]

this is a cheeky question but a thirsty gay must know - what was going on in your mind at that point? did you do it to protect your identity?

Think so yes

 

[typx]

Anyone here think they are the bad guy, the evil under the bed. Personally I didn't think so until 2 months ago something happened that forced me to analyse myself, now I see I am that evil

I'm not evil. But I am definitely not a good person. There's good in all of us I think. But some of us just can't get to it.

 

[ge0rge]

Think so yes

A bit self-defeating, if the end goal was to meet the person you were chatting with...

 

[Definitelyworried]

Well kinda, just a civil suit... like a devoure.. thinking about giving him my 20 000 in savings, filling for bankruptcy changing my name and moving away

Is he suing you?
Is this the only reason you planning on killing yourself.