Basically is there is any conflict in a group that I'm in it's my fault. Whatever the real cause. My autism isn't actually that bad. I understand more social norms that a regular autistic person and I'm way less rigid. If I make a very slight mistake it's always exaggerated but when somebody doesn't give a fuck at all about my boundaries I should just forgive them.
Example - I'm studying at a uni with low entry requirements. Last year I ended in a new group. Some people are fine but some just want to stir chaos for fun. You know, narcissists. They aren't even good students. So they started kinda bullying me and it escalated. They weren't allowing me to be able to study. I'm not a saint but I wasn't a bitch to them. It escalated. Obviously it was all their fault. So the uni workers reacted and made them stop bullying me. Problem solved? No. Because I'm autistic they sent me to a uni counsellor. Just because I'm autistic. From what I know the bullies weren't forced to go. Yes because my behaviour is problematic. Well at least they didn't control what I talked about with that guy. We didn't talk about uni much. He was allegedly a psychologist and he made fun of my eating problems.
People say autism isn't the end of the world but it is.
Example - I'm studying at a uni with low entry requirements. Last year I ended in a new group. Some people are fine but some just want to stir chaos for fun. You know, narcissists. They aren't even good students. So they started kinda bullying me and it escalated. They weren't allowing me to be able to study. I'm not a saint but I wasn't a bitch to them. It escalated. Obviously it was all their fault. So the uni workers reacted and made them stop bullying me. Problem solved? No. Because I'm autistic they sent me to a uni counsellor. Just because I'm autistic. From what I know the bullies weren't forced to go. Yes because my behaviour is problematic. Well at least they didn't control what I talked about with that guy. We didn't talk about uni much. He was allegedly a psychologist and he made fun of my eating problems.
People say autism isn't the end of the world but it is.
