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Toptock
Experienced
- Jun 6, 2020
- 292
I ask coming from a religious background and a very tumultuous upbringing. We very much live in a society that prides itself on our ability to "Pull ourselves up" from just about any situation.
Take the story of Leo Grand, the homeless man who went on to develop an app. A fantastic story filled with hope and an inspiration to anyone and everyone who sees his story. But the problem is we also live in a society that's been so active in our study of each other that we seem to generally believe anyone can do these things if they put in a certain amount of effort. The problem with this thinking is it's along the same lines as "You can do whatever you set your mind to," which is, at least from my perspective, generally contradictory to reality. We are told "Why don't you apply yourself..." to any kind of interest with the specific focus of getting ourselves out of what is generally perceived as a 'slump.'
My question is this, we all have our stories, our breaking points, but we can almost all in some form or another find a solution of some kind, at what point can we say "I did what I could, and I don't want to do any more" and not feel guilty that we didn't try something else? I don't think a new job would help, I don't believe my friends care, so why should I try?
Take the story of Leo Grand, the homeless man who went on to develop an app. A fantastic story filled with hope and an inspiration to anyone and everyone who sees his story. But the problem is we also live in a society that's been so active in our study of each other that we seem to generally believe anyone can do these things if they put in a certain amount of effort. The problem with this thinking is it's along the same lines as "You can do whatever you set your mind to," which is, at least from my perspective, generally contradictory to reality. We are told "Why don't you apply yourself..." to any kind of interest with the specific focus of getting ourselves out of what is generally perceived as a 'slump.'
My question is this, we all have our stories, our breaking points, but we can almost all in some form or another find a solution of some kind, at what point can we say "I did what I could, and I don't want to do any more" and not feel guilty that we didn't try something else? I don't think a new job would help, I don't believe my friends care, so why should I try?