Are you closer more to your mother or father?

[Daystavro]

For me it used to be more or less the same but in recent years i'm much closer to my mother.
She is more understanding of my social anxiety.
And my parents are divorce, I live closer to her and see her much more often.
I am also very close to my one of my older sisters.

 

[Xerxes]

Neither.

 

[Dani Paradox]

Definitely my father. My mother was a total whack job.

 

[Eren]

My mother.

 

[Sundayafternoon]

Farther by default. Mom is dead.

 

[OnlyMercy]

Younger sister.

 

[TAW122]

During my childhood up until adolescence, it would be my mother, but then later, my father since my mother didn't really get involved in my life during my teenage years, it was more oftenly my father. Though as of now, I'm not as close to family as I was before, but still closer to my father than my mother.

 

[Schopenhauer]

My mother. But I'm not particularly close to either.

 

[Aesthler]

I have a mother and I try to stay in touch but I was raised entirely by my father. I am closer to him because of that but we also had a strange relationship where we almost never really talked, he just kind of tolerated me and made sure I was doing what I was supposed to so I don't speak with him much. As time goes on I regret not being closer and putting in more effort.

 

[Lra888]

Mom

 

[Voldmort]

absolutely neither. I'm not close to anyone at home.

 

[Trashcan]

Both. I can tell both of them just anything (though I choose not to tell them I want to ctb or my reasons for wanting to ctb).

 

[worldexploder]

I hate my sociopathic biomom. I haven't talked to my dad in 3 years but he was fun to drink with.

The only blood relative Im close to is my aunt. Everyone else is "just sorta there" If that makes sense.

 

[wiIIow]

Definitely my father. My mother was a total whack job.

this basically.

my dad is the reason I'm still alive tbh, growing up with my mom fucked me up and he was my only source of comfort and outside perspective. I'd feel very guilty to hurt him after everything he's done for my sake

 

[Deafsn0w]

when i was younger i was close to mommy.

 

[TheNorthernSilence]

Definitely my mom. I don't really know my father and I see him so rarely (has always been this way). I guess I was some kind of 'accident'.

 

[Mr2005]

Haven't seen either for over a month. My dad I'd rather see just for someone to talk to. The sight of my mum makes me want to kill myself

 

[Help_Me]

My father is an alcoholic and he was rude with me, my brother and my mother when I was a kid. I hate him and to be honest I always wanted to poison him and get rid of that sh*tbag garbage person. As for my mother, I love her. She did everything possible to make my life better. I feel uneasy cause I will have to die by my own hands sooner or later.

 

[RogueJuliet]

I seem to be missing whatever it is in a person's psyche that allows them to feel familial closeness.

Part of that might be a matter of abuse/trauma. Neither parent was a stellar example of the role. My sibling isn't doing much better than I am, and after the events of the last 10 years, I have no reason or desire to ever speak to him again.

Even for the ones that didn't actively hurt me, though, I don't really *feel* anything. I never have. I guess it makes catching the bus a bit easier, but I do wonder what is wrong with me sometimes.