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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
6,013
Here is a quote of a suicide forum study.
Three user types were identified ("constructively seeking help," "ambivalently seeking help," "unspecifically motivated"), which differ with a high effect strength to a great extent regarding their motivation for visiting such a message board, as well as in clinically relevant effects of their usage of the message board.

But I want a more precise answer for SS. Obviously you could divide the people between recovery and suicide discussion. You could put them on a spectrum of pro-life, pro-choice and pro-death. Maybe we even have to add the lurkers to make a judgment.

I have the feeling as some other member mentioned some people are not here for conversations. Some people only want method information. But I think this is a minority. Some peope are long-time members like me. I cannot really recover but I am currently not acute suicidal either.

There are the people who like discussions about philosophy other people love playing games in off-topic. Some are hidden pro-lifers or other people with bad intentions like trolls. But do they really count as true members of this forum?

There was also a study that researched how long the average member is online before he/she (tries to) commit suicide. But I cannot remember the results. Don't want to spread misinformation. I think over a year but really don't quote me on that.

I think the majority needs to vent about suicidal thoughts and the unbelievable pain they have to endure. Some can recover some can't.
Not sure about a gender difference. More men commit suicide but more women attempt. I think there are slightly (?) more men in this forum.

Have you any idea?
What is your main incentive to be in this forum?

For me it is talking and venting about my horrible life and treatment resistant severe suicidal thoughts. But I also need the reassurance that in case the pain becomes unbearable there is a peaceful exit to leave this torture. This forum gives me communion and empathy.
 
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Interloper

Interloper

Jul 23, 2021
689
Do you have a link to this forum study where they identified the 3 user types?
 
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Treeline589

Experienced
Dec 14, 2021
234
I'm on here to find support and also to find a method that will work
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,769
I actually think that most people join for method information. For me personally, it is just a way to pass the time. There is not much point to me actually being on here but my days are really long. On days like today time passes extra slowly. My life is empty and sad, there really is nothing here for me in this world.
 
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lostautist

lostautist

wandering
Jan 12, 2022
225
I'm not acute. I came here to find last resort. I'm still here because it calms my anxiety. I can share things I've never had the courage to share. I wouldn't mind interacting with someone who could understand me but I'm so atypical I know that's not realistic. I'm high empathy spectrum and would wish to make some difference, but know that's not realistic.
 
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sninturkey

sninturkey

Member
Jan 28, 2022
7
Ive found sn method thanks to this beautiful community and m going to share my last moments here to contribute knowledge
 
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Nightmare Painting

Student
Dec 16, 2021
121
It's a distraction for me until I get run over by the bus.
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
2,913
I'm here to talk about things such as suicidal thoughts with people that can understand them. And it's interesting to be in a suicide forum anyway, some of the things discussed you won't find anywhere else.

I'm not looking for methods at the moment, far from that. It's just something that lingers in some corner of my mind.
 
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_Seeking

_Seeking

I'm only here for this moment
Dec 16, 2021
205
This is my last remaining option, as I can't get help for pain control.
 
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gottago222

gottago222

paranoia bae
Dec 21, 2021
275
kill some time before ctb. connect with others on the same boat.
 
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dreadpirateroberts69

dreadpirateroberts69

RRREEEEEEE (she/her)
Nov 4, 2021
278
Joined for the method talk, stayed to feel not quite as crazy
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,387
I already have my method, SS is mostly now just a place for me to pass boredom or vent my frustrations for my last few months alive.
 
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LastFlowers

LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
Reasons I spend time here:
Desperation for a place to speak about what I already knew I needed to do/the right to die, to gather information and anecdotal experiences to make certain that my method would be viable and with low risk/high level of success, convenience of distraction in a "safe" space where I can vent and find comfort in the words of like-minded people/those who will not admonish me for the ultimate decision.
Most of all..I can be "me" here, at least in far more ways than I can be in the outside world, and it's nice (vital) to have a little bit of that before I end my consciousness of this torture.
It's a distraction for me until I get run over by the bus.
I'm so sorry but this gave me a very humorous mental image of a person running their own self over with a bus..a near impossible feat.
 
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LilBird

LilBird

Member
Mar 16, 2020
94
I don't know why I'm here anymore I've ran out of time about to lose my home and run out of money and am pretending like everything is ok until I truly am out of time then I'll have no other choice. This world is cruel and I failed at it. I hate myself immensely.
 
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DeadMemes

DeadMemes

seeking help is like walking on a mobius strip
Jan 25, 2022
24
Joined for method information, stayed because of the people
 
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Of The Universe

Of The Universe

Specialist
Dec 31, 2021
382
To build up the courage to ctb! And learn methods,hmm can I say that?😥
 
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Angi

Specialist
Jan 4, 2022
305
Joined for the methods. (Which I can currently not use, I hate myself way to much for being so gentle on myself, so I will do something worse than the options shown here.) Stayed for the people. Here, I can share things that would be absolutely taboo and unbearable for people irl. Thanks everone!
 
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Foresight

Foresight

Enlightened
Jun 14, 2019
1,393
I found SS because of method discussion and I hang around because of the people.

I'm right with you noname. I won't reach full recovery but I'm not ctb soon. I want to secure my option soon though.
 
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myopybyproxy

flickerbeat \\ gibberish-noise
Dec 18, 2021
864
i ran out of places elsewhere online to embarrass myself and expose the pathetic piece of shit i really am. people get tired of me. understandable. i get tired of myself. soon it will be time to leave here. i need to go.
 
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UpandDownPrincess

UpandDownPrincess

Elementalist
Dec 31, 2019
833
I honestly can't remember why I first cam here. That means I was likely in a suicidal trance brought on by my MI.

I stay for several reasons: reading about suicide seems to satisfy some part of my brain and therefore a pressure is lifted, I am impressed by the candor of the people here and also, for my own ego, I like to think I can help someone else. Not by talking them out of ctb, but just help somehow.
 
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LastFlowers

LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
Joined for method information, stayed because of the people
Adorable avatar you've got there.

(For the record, it's a cat, so if it ever changes to anything else…don't come for me lol)
 
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Pen>Sword

Pen>Sword

Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam
Jan 13, 2021
465
Mostly to find CTB method. Now I found it. I'm staying to SS because I want to see how people here are doing. I want a community that I can relate with without strict censorship like the /r/SuicideWatch from Reddit.
 
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DeadMemes

DeadMemes

seeking help is like walking on a mobius strip
Jan 25, 2022
24
Adorable avatar you've got there.

(For the record, it's a cat, so if it ever changes to anything else…don't come for me lol)
Hehe thanks. I like how its head stays completely still.

Also don't worry I doubt I'll be changing it any time soon
 
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lyles

lyles

Student
Oct 13, 2021
142
Here is a quote of a suicide forum study.
Three user types were identified ("constructively seeking help," "ambivalently seeking help," "unspecifically motivated"), which differ with a high effect strength to a great extent regarding their motivation for visiting such a message board, as well as in clinically relevant effects of their usage of the message board.

But I want a more precise answer for SS. Obviously you could divide the people between recovery and suicide discussion. You could put them on a spectrum of pro-life, pro-choice and pro-death. Maybe we even have to add the lurkers to make a judgment.
I would say I am ambivalent. I came for the methods but have stayed because of the philosophical insights and some comfort in seeing people who understand what it is like to be suicidal without the constant context of having to negate those thoughts. The conversations feel more free, honest, and give me the sort of comfort I need. I also like that if I decide to ctb I will be informed on all the options I could take and have that level of control.
I have the feeling as some other member mentioned some people are not here for conversations. Some people only want method information. But I think this is a minority. Some peope are long-time members like me. I cannot really recover but I am currently not acute suicidal either.
I don't post often or participate in chats really, only occasionally dropping comments or threads like this, but I think that the comradery that can be found, even if it isn't friendship, is meaningful. It is a mutual understanding that I appreciate. But first and foremost the methods have been what I came for.
For me it is talking and venting about my horrible life and treatment resistant severe suicidal thoughts. But I also need the reassurance that in case the pain becomes unbearable there is a peaceful exit to leave this torture. This forum gives me communion and empathy.
I definitely relate to your reasoning. Thank you for your thoughtful posts, also. I am sending my best hopes and wishes your way.
 
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Live Free or Die

Live Free or Die

A wise man can always be found alone.
Jan 12, 2022
117
Reasons I spend time here:
Desperation for a place to speak about what I already knew I needed to do/the right to die, to gather information and anecdotal experiences to make certain that my method would be viable and with low risk/high level of success, convenience of distraction in a "safe" space where I can vent and find comfort in the words of like-minded people/those who will not admonish me for the ultimate decision.
Most of all..I can be "me" here, at least in far more ways than I can be in the outside world, and it's nice (vital) to have a little bit of that before I end my consciousness of this torture.

I was thinking about replying to the thread, but LastFlowers has summed up reasoning almost identical to mine as well 🥰
 
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Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
3,621
I don't know anymore. Perhaps the inability to accept it's over
 
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Thankyoufortoday

Thankyoufortoday

Member
Dec 13, 2021
45
I joined for info about methods. Sticking around just to lurk and hear from people in similar situations. Not acutely suicidal currently but that could change at any moment
 
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Darkover

Darkover

Archangel
Jul 29, 2021
5,653
i've been suicidal everyday for the last 5 years nearly 6 years in july, because of a brain injury, the only resaon i'm still alive is because i don't have access to a easy method to kill myself as of yet, this forum is a great place to express yourself openly without any censorship.
 
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GentleJerk

GentleJerk

Carrot juice pimp.
Dec 14, 2021
1,372
What study is this?
 
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PreussenBlueJay

PreussenBlueJay

Too short for Frederick William I’s Guards
Jan 18, 2022
211
Can't remember why I came here, it was a long time ago. I think I felt bad back in those days but not so much at the moment.
 

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