I fucking hate seeing and hearing my apeshit crazy wife screaming at the top of her lungs at the kids. I lost a big sale I was working on via a phone call the other day when she started screaming for a small bullshit reason at the kids. I had to mute the call to scream at her to shut the fuck up. The potential sales lead hung up on me. She costed me a significant amount of money just so she could satisfy her stupid urge to scream. All day long today she was screaming. The kids don't care. They are so numb to her screaming. They laugh at her, which makes her scream more. The louder she screams, the more I can see kids the kids mock her. I would not be surprised if they were on SaSu members already. I feel bad that their mother has to constantly yell at them for trivial reasons. I want to ctb so bad, but I cant. I think she might die early due to her uncontrollable rage problems, and I can't leave my kids as orphans. I wish she would fucking stop screaming!
Why is you screaming at her to shut the fuck up any different?
Did you ever try to get the attention of a screaming lunatic without screaming? Screamers don't respond to non-screaming ppl!
Sounds like a two-way relationship dynamic to me. Since you're here I'll assume that you want to CTB.
hungry_ghost
جهاد
- Feb 21, 2022
- 516
Three sides to every story.
I think it sounds like a toxic situation all around.
Perhaps she has a valid reason to be stressed, just as you do.
I think it sounds like a toxic situation all around.
Perhaps she has a valid reason to be stressed, just as you do.
locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 9,205
I doubt the OP came here looking for some shit-ass comment devoid of any empathy or sympathy from you. You have no idea what it's like in his house. It may well be that he is just as bad as his wife. She's not the one who is here, though. And that comment you made about how his dying would be a good thing for his wife is WAY over the top. You know nothing of either of these people, so even suggesting anything like that is cruel, callous, and mean spirited. So, just after one posting from someone you think their death would be better for their spouse? Are you that way with your friends, too, assuming you have any? It does sound like a house full of stress. I highly doubt the OP doesn't already know that. I think that fact oozes out of his post quite clearly. Maybe it would be beneficial to come up with some reply a little more supportive and less attacking.
Lungz
Member
- Mar 7, 2022
- 46
save the kids and gt a divorce
FuneralCry
Just wanting some peace
- Sep 24, 2020
- 45,501
That sounds like such an awful situation to be in, I can imagine that it must be unbearable having to deal with someone like that. I hope that in whatever happens, you find relief from what you are going through.
whatevs
Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
- 2,911
Oh shit, the user edited that awful, heartless comment she or he wrote! Definitely felt identified with the wife IMO.
Foresight
Enlightened
- Jun 14, 2019
- 1,393
That was my first thought. Everyone is miserable here. The kids, the wife, the husband. I know divorce can be hard but when the whole family is at jeopardy of ctb it's time for a serious overhaul.
Sittichmutter
Student
- Sep 16, 2021
- 164
Hi Leftoxy.
I am sorry for tour family situation.
Have you tried couple or family therapy?
It could help with communication within the family.
Maybe she screams because that is the way she knows from her family as she was a kid.
I hope you and your wife find a nice way to work things over.
I am sorry for tour family situation.
Have you tried couple or family therapy?
It could help with communication within the family.
Maybe she screams because that is the way she knows from her family as she was a kid.
I hope you and your wife find a nice way to work things over.
locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 9,205
I did assume that's what it most likely was, but still..................................
There's nothing in the world like a bad marriage. I am dying to get out of mine. Easier said than done
Worndown
Illuminated
- Mar 21, 2019
- 3,962
Is she bipolar? Sounds like my ex. She would sabotage things at any expense just to let you know she could. Yelling was her normal volume.
Ex is the key word here. Hint...hint...
hellispink
poisonous
- May 26, 2022
- 1,231
Just get a divorce. Complaining and wishing she would be quiet will not change anything. You all need to move in different houses first. The kids also need to be teach better (doesn't matter if someone screams they not supposed to mock other people for any reason). Just separate and each work in different things apart. Nothing will change unless you do it yourself.
Gaga786
The Odds Are Never In My favour
- May 3, 2020
- 470
I'm sorry that you and your children have to deal with that. It's totally not normal to scream like that. My mother used to do this all the time ever since I was a child and it induced a lot of trauma. It also disrupted the tranquility of the house. Have you brought this up to her calmly that screaming causes you pain and that it's not healthy for anyone. I hope she understands, and if she needs extra help like meditation or some relaxation techniques which might calm her down, then she can try that. Going straight for a divorce would be an option, but I wouldn't recommend that because children need 2 parents so it might traumatise them and I think its best that you have exhausted all other options before resorting to that. Hope your suffering eases, and I wish you the best.
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