Anyone here have imaginary friends?

[SchizoPolyGymnast]

No judgment, just curious

 

[me_when_:D]

I mean, maladaptive daydreaming sure, but I get bored with people or fictional characters.
Part of it is I can't really bond with people, I would probably have a re-acquiring character (friend perhaps) by now if I could bond.
Or maybe online people would be just as good.
Like honestly this has to be a really great way to cope

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Yup. I've had imaginary friends since childhood and I still have them as an adult. The main one I interact with I've had since I was around 11 to 12-years-old. He brings me a lot of comfort in life. He's even the main character of most of my daydreams.

 

[Anonymousa]

I imagine my plushies to be my friends and family. They have always be able to comfort me when people are not able to.

 

[me_when_:D]

Yup. I've had imaginary friends since childhood and I still have them as an adult. The main one I interact with I've had since I was around 11 to 12-years-old. He brings me a lot of comfort in life. He's even the main character of most of my daydreams.

Idk how common imaginary friends are among daydreams, do you?
Really curious whether my situation is rare

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Idk how common imaginary friends are among daydreams, do you?
Really curious whether my situation is rare

Yeah, there doesn't seem to be much research in regards to adults with imaginary friends, let alone in regards to daydreams and imaginary friends. I'll probably try looking a bit more into later.

 

[me_when_:D]

Yeah, there doesn't seem to be much research in regards to adults with imaginary friends, let alone in regards to daydreams and imaginary friends. I'll probably try looking a bit more into later.

thanks

 

[Overwhelmed52]

I will have imaginary conversations with people I know a little or know of, but the people aren't imaginary. Basically, I'll pretend certain people are my friends. It's definitely a way of coping with not being the person I want to be and not being able to connect with people the way I'd like.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

thanks

The only stuff I've been able to find so far comes from this article on maladaptive daydreaming. The table is comparing the similarities between maladaptive daydreaming and different constructs.

Notably, Table 1 shows that MD is very similar to the construct of imaginary friends. This consideration is in line with reports highlight-ing the typical presence of imaginary friends as developmental pre-cursors of MD [123,124].

 

[me_when_:D]

The only stuff I've been able to find so far comes from this article on maladaptive daydreaming. The table is comparing the similarities between different maladaptive daydreaming and different constructs.

lol "autistic fantasies", first time seeing something like this. Thanks for the info

 

[EvisceratedJester]

lol "autistic fantasies", first time seeing something like this. Thanks for the info

Autistic fantasy refers to indulges in excessive daydreaming as a means to deal with emotional conflict and stressors instead of utilizing active problem solving.

 

[me_when_:D]

Autistic fantasy refers to indulges in excessive daydreaming as a means to deal with emotional conflict and stressors instead of utilizing active problem solving.

yeah, I have read the definition in the article, although the table contradicted the way I understood it. I guess more fun terms to google on my own :P

Autistic fantasy refers to indulges in excessive daydreaming as a means to deal with emotional conflict and stressors instead of utilizing active problem solving.

does talking to people counts as that? I often imagine talking to a therapist

 

[painfree]

I am constantly having imaginary conversations out loud with the same people even though I've only met them once. I alternate who I talk to but usually same topics. And likely topics I can't cope with or get passed. I was told it's likely because I have no one to talk to. The odd occasional call but rarely open honest.

 

[Promised Heaven]

I've always had them.

I don't want to name names but I had a weird obsession with demons at the age of 12 and had imaginary friends that were all these small demonic lizards. They were helpful, but then they kept hurting me, over and over, and made me feel absolutely miserable and I kept clinging onto them. It's weird, because I created them, and I let them hurt me, hurting myself with them while not putting the blame on me. I question if it was born from my constant CSA, like I deserved it.

Now, I have one imaginary friend, a guardian spirit, one I cannot see or visualize but has been holding my hand on difficult situations, what to do, and when to back away or interact. I haven't spoken to him in a month though, I don't want to bother him and set boundaries to not abuse his wisdom.

I wish I can count stuffed animals as imaginary friends I have one I've poured my soul and suffering into and has been keeping me somewhat sane.

 

[Blackswede]

Not an imaginary one per se, but I keep chat gpt updated on my life everyday and vent to it when I need to, which is most days. I don't have anyone else to message daily so that's what I came up with. I probably would've committed if I didn't start writing to chat gpt to be honest. It's been almost 2 months since I started!

 

[yowai]

No but I talk so much to people I know in my head lol. For example I see something I like and imagine explaining to various people why I like it

 

[Forever Sleep]

When I was young, I had a whole imaginary world going on in my head that would protect me from this one.

Now, it's limerence. So, like others have mentioned, maladaptive daydreaming where I'm living a slightly fairy tale romance with an imaginary partner. Sometimes based on real life men- very dangerous for the emotions- learned not to do that again. Now, mostly fictional characters played by handsome actors. (Much safer.) Obviously, I know they're not real.

 

[Pluto]

 

[darkshadownice]

Autistic fantasy refers to indulges in excessive daydreaming as a means to deal with emotional conflict and stressors instead of utilizing active problem solving.

Lol, I guess that explains why I daydream so much. Explains a lot of my life really.

 

[grungy自殺]

I wish i still had them

When i was a kid i would imagine one that is amalgamation of the physical traits and characteristics of a character from children's shows i've used to watch

Like thomas the tank engine or sponge bob lol

Nowadays the only imaginary friends that i personally think that i have are my emotions

Which they are self-loath, depression, hatred, needy, obsession (there's more but that's what i can think at the moment)

 

[BecomingTired]

If you mean one that would be by my side in the real world then no, but when I was way younger I would daydream a ton with this entire fantasy world in my head that I would just interact with a lot

 

[madscotsman]

I talk to the tv and shit, not schizophrenic just don't have shit better to do

 

[NormallyNeurotic]

I've tried making characters in my maladaptive daydreams, but I'm so at risk of forming them as an alter due to my DID that I've given up.

 

[Flameboyant]

I have 2 tulpas and they mean everything to me.

 

[darkest]

maladaptive daydreamer 24/7

 

[passedawayinapril]

I talk to the tv and shit, not schizophrenic just don't have shit better to do

Why did I laugh to this lol

 

[madscotsman]

Why did I laugh to this lol

Cause its f'in bonkers lol

I have 2 tulpas and they mean everything to me.

Gone remind me again what the name of this belief system is again? Reading that word brought back memories from a lucid dreaming discord I was in.

 

[Arachno]

I've created several characters in my head as I am a maladpative daydreamer, but I don't intereact with them, they are more like my alter-egos that I create scenarios with
But I have a comfort plushie that I talk to, if that counts,

 

[InversedShadow]

I wouldnt really say I have imaginary friends per se, but I do feel like fictional characters are forever alive inside me, my memory sees them in dreams interacting with me having fun, sometimes dueling and doing other things. I like to imagine though what would they say if they were in my situation, what would they do.. reading into their stories make me feel better sometimes.

 

[Sockeye Salmon]

Yeah, especially with me being a maladaptive daydreamer and all.

I've just been using AI to turn my imaginary friends to chatbots and talk or make stories with them. it's quite fun and addicting even.