Wojaczek

Wojaczek

Student
Oct 24, 2021
160
i know this is an asshole post but I'm just curious
People told me that I could model, that my nose is pretty, that I look like someone famous but it never did anything for me.
It was just a secret ego boost that resulted into nothing.
Like even if I got a good grade id feel happy for 5 minutes and then go back to feeling neutral about everything
 
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ngmi

ngmi

お前はもう死んでいる。
Dec 1, 2021
21
I only get those comments from my extended family, and I don't take them seriously because it's just flattery from family.
 
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Silenos

Silenos

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Jul 25, 2020
1,057
I get a lot of compliments about my hair.

I mean, it is the best part about me so that's cool I guess.
 
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StarryStarry

StarryStarry

Cat Lady
Oct 25, 2021
750
I've contacted every non-kill shelter and non-kill animal place in the state I live in. They are full of cats and kittens. I just can't have her put to sleep at a shelter with no one holding her or loving her. I know this sounds stupid and selfish but she is older. I even asked my vet (and other vets in the area) if they could take her - answer was no. If you have any ideas I would appreciate any of them.
 
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Wojaczek

Wojaczek

Student
Oct 24, 2021
160
I get a lot of compliments about my hair.

I mean, it is the best part about me so that's cool I guess.
Nice
I've contacted every non-kill shelter and non-kill animal place in the state I live in. They are full of cats and kittens. I just can't have her put to sleep at a shelter with no one holding her or loving her. I know this sounds stupid and selfish but she is older. I even asked my vet (and other vets in the area) if they could take her - answer was no. If you have any ideas I would appreciate any of them.
Put her down yourself, make it intimate, make it a thing
 
StarryStarry

StarryStarry

Cat Lady
Oct 25, 2021
750
Nice

Put her down yourself, make it intimate, make it a thing
Not sure how I got onto this thread. Geez louise ... trying to respond to a different thread - sorry!
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
20,712
I've been getting a lot of comments about how I've seemingly lost weight during the pandemic but it just hurts more than anything because I actively did not try at all and I'd rather not be compelled to try to improve myself in any way shape or form because I don't deserve it and I definitely don't deserve these compliments on my physical appearance which people would take back if they only knew the real me.
 
AnnonyBox

AnnonyBox

Specialist
Apr 11, 2018
334
I hate my appearance, but a few people have said I look like some celebrity. I tend to just shut down the conversation and move on to something else. To be honest, I think they're just flatterers, and complimenting my appearance is the worst way to try to appeal to me. Like, "thanks for reminding me I hate myself, let's talk about something else, shall we?"
 
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MeltedJello

MeltedJello

My brain is a liquid mess.
Aug 18, 2021
2,214
Back in jr.high, a girl told me that my nose looks nice. That's the only compliment I've ever received about my appearance my whole life. I honestly hate how I look, but it is what it is.
 
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Meretlein

Meretlein

Moderator
Feb 15, 2019
1,199
I occasionally get compliments on my appearance. It always makes me feel nice especially when the person complimenting is a random woman I don't know.
 
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maakies

maakies

DOOK
Dec 7, 2021
132
I got this a lot growing up. Contrarian I am, I did everything to destroy that version of myself. And I'm happier, and maybe more psycho for it.
 
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Shadowplay

Shadowplay

Average life non-enjoyer
Sep 11, 2021
853
Nah; I'm average looking.
 
GenesAndEnvironment

GenesAndEnvironment

Autistic loser
Jan 26, 2021
5,739
No, I don't talk to people. Bad skin + bad facial hair, also.
 
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TheAmazingCriswell

TheAmazingCriswell

I predict...
Apr 28, 2021
1,351
I'll just quote myself, because that's what I do:

"This is one of those rare instances where I find myself wishing this was not an online forum. I've never been someone who cared a lot about his appearance, but I would be very interested in finding out how others would describe my looks. I am too paranoid to post any photographs of myself online, so I guess I'll never find out. I have never received any comments, be they good or bad, about my appearance in real life (except once), so I have no idea how to rate myself. Perhaps that means I'm average looking, but this doesn't take into account my personality. I've always been a bit of an eccentric loner, so while I was decently popular in school, I never attracted any romantic interest. One must wonder whether this was due to my looks, my character, or both. My self-esteem is so disastrously low that a few compliments about my looks might do it some good, but my shyness would probably just result in extreme embarrassment on my part, if I were to ever receive such compliments in real life. Ah well."

No, I don't talk to people. Bad skin + bad facial hair, also.
Exactly the same for me. Until a few months ago, my posture was pretty bad as well, which certainly didn't help. Facial hair is so bloody annoying. Mine grows so fast that I would have to shave daily in order to look presentable, but it's too patchy to just grow a beard and call it a day.

I get a lot of compliments about my hair.

I mean, it is the best part about me so that's cool I guess.
Like this?
1200px Geert Wilders
 
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Wojaczek

Wojaczek

Student
Oct 24, 2021
160
Exactly the same for me. Until a few months ago, my posture was pretty bad as well, which certainly didn't help. Facial hair is so bloody annoying. Mine grows so fast that I would have to shave daily in order to look presentable, but it's too patchy to just grow a beard and call it a day.
I just let my "beard" grow at this point, don't care if it makes me look like shit tbh
 
LonelyBrazilian

LonelyBrazilian

Just a boring guy.
Oct 21, 2021
180
I only received compliments for my height. In appearance I'm below average.
 
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Manaaja

Manaaja

euROPE
Sep 10, 2018
1,382
You know the joke? A man wanted to be an actor but he was told his looks were better suited for radio. Then the man wanted to be a radio host but he was told his voice was better suited for television.

Google assistance however has said that I'm good-looking, so at least that's something. But to be serious... Bodies come and go, so I'd rather people praised my intelligence, humor, kindness, helpfulness, sense of justice and personality than some random body I'm only in for a moment.
 
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stellabelle

stellabelle

ethereal
Dec 14, 2018
3,919
i know this is an asshole post but I'm just curious
People told me that I could model, that my nose is pretty, that I look like someone famous but it never did anything for me.
It was just a secret ego boost that resulted into nothing.
Like even if I got a good grade id feel happy for 5 minutes and then go back to feeling neutral about everything
Sometimes, but those are difficult to accept.

I enjoy giving compliments.

Some people think there's an ulterior motive for doing so. There isn't. I can find appreciation for even the smallest unique features.
 
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4eyebiped

4eyebiped

Mage
Dec 28, 2019
567
Sometimes, but those are difficult to accept.

I enjoy giving compliments.

Some people think there's an ulterior motive for doing so. There isn't. I can find appreciation for even the smallest unique features.
I am the same when it comes to women. They are such remarkable and lovely creatures. I appreciate the near countless list of unique and delightful things about them. One cannot help but to be compelled to compliment them or say and do things to make them feel good.

As far as me, I am repulsive to most it seems. Actions and comments make it obvious, along with a dreadful length of singlehood. But, I do not try to hide my looks nor do I spend hours trying to find the perfect camera angle or anything similar. It is what it is. You like it or you don't. We all have our disadvantages, one of mine is easy to see. I will probably add a picture to my profile as I never liked the idea of someone potentially getting an inaccurate image of me in their head to later be disappointed. I also like the idea of adding a more human element to the site but I see the argument both ways here. I have no fears of people in the real seeing it and knowing my business.
 
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stellabelle

stellabelle

ethereal
Dec 14, 2018
3,919
I am the same when it comes to women. They are such remarkable and lovely creatures. I appreciate the near countless list of unique and delightful things about them. One cannot help but to be compelled to compliment them or say and do things to make them feel good.

As far as me, I am repulsive to most it seems. Actions and comments make it obvious, along with a dreadful length of singlehood. But, I do not try to hide my looks nor do I spend hours trying to find the perfect camera angle or anything similar. It is what it is. You like it or you don't. We all have our disadvantages, one of mine is easy to see. I will probably add a picture to my profile as I never liked the idea of someone potentially getting an inaccurate image of me in their head to later be disappointed. I also like the idea of adding a more human element to the site but I see the argument both ways here. I have no fears of people in the real seeing it and knowing my business.
I could find something to like about anyone, but the unfortunate part is the opposite side of the coin; there's seemingly lots to dislike about many people. Most of that being their cruel, callous behaviors.

I might appear visually appealing this way, or that way. Or the opposite. Visually unappealing, repulsive. Not all people are photogenic. They appear differently at different angles, in different lighting, different clothing.

I've posted my photo before. People have doxxed me in general.

I had no fear of people seeing or knowing this either. For the same reason that I have proven it repeatedly. That what I have said is true. That what has occurred is a fact and not in fiction.

It's more ANNOYING than anything that they think it's going to cause more harm than what's already been done.

Start going after the shit disturbers who created these problems, not the people like me who are sick of it.

They know what they did. They know they're fucked up. They know.
 

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Kennish

Specialist
Aug 17, 2021
379
People say I look good but I don't believe them mostly. I try to say to myself I'm good as I am.
 
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forgotten15

forgotten15

Specialist
Aug 24, 2021
332
Sometimes. But they mean absolutely nothing and to be honest I think most people are simply horrible so I don't really take into consideration what others think about me anymore.
 
NumbItAll

NumbItAll

expendable
May 20, 2018
1,090
I will probably add a picture to my profile as I never liked the idea of someone potentially getting an inaccurate image of me in their head to later be disappointed.
I would be very disappointed if you didn't actually look like this...

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/data/avatars/l/13/13446.jpg?1636651486
 
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Geturdone

Geturdone

Getting old ain't for sissies
Dec 9, 2021
85
I consider myself a SENIOR citizen at 71. I still wear the same size pants as when I discharged from the military 50 years ago. I'm considered tall and slim, still have most of my hair and only grey hair is around the chin of my full beard. I'm often told I look much younger than my true age. Things to brag about? No. Things to be thankful for? Not necessarily. I have a multitude of problems related to my military service in Vietnam. One condition is ultimately fatal and I'm on a ventilator since I lost half my left lung due to breathing the fine mist of Agent Orange. I'm tired of the struggle I have to endure every day so the compliments are meaningless to me as they don't match how I feel personally. My looks are my least concern and I get no joy from then. But, if you do then by all means celebrate the event. Take joy where you can. Peace be with you.
 
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Callie Arcale

Callie Arcale

It’s a tale told by an idiot signifying nothing
Feb 10, 2021
854
I would be very disappointed if you didn't actually look like this...

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/data/avatars/l/13/13446.jpg?1636651486
I agree… just look at those sexy legs… 😂
 
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motel rooms

motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,086
Yes. People into tall, dark, hairy, bearded guys still find me attractive. I'm well built & in shape. I'm probably still alive because of my looks. I've always taken advantage of the fact that I'm considered handsome & I'm not ashamed of it. I deserve some form of compensation for being forced to endure a decade of sexual abuse as a child & developing C-PTSD. It's quite disturbing that I get complimented on looking & sounding (my voice is very deep) like my father/abuser, though. I even fucking sneeze like him; it's always four or five sneezes in very quick succession. Disgusting. :meh: At least he never smiled or laughed, so I have something that's all mine.
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Visionary
Sep 9, 2018
2,924
I used to, not anymore. I was quite an attractive young man but then that gross mid thirties male blah-ness started setting in. I don't care though, I've got a good personality. Just kidding, I don't.
 
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