Another major reason im suicidal (thanks to those who read this) c

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Im 34 years old im currently unemployed . A few years ago my brother convinced my father to sell his house , my father and i were living there , both very lonely and emotionally vulnerable .

I have very severe mental issues and have had difficulty working with people from a young age due to bullying and many negative experiences in life it lead me to isolating myself.

ive been to pshycologists since childhood and have letters from them, i therefore was living in my fathers house rent free as i couldnt work.My parents were very poor and saved for forty years to be able to buy a house.

i recently attempted suicide and it was because the house was sold i believe my life wouldnt be in such a bad state had my brother and his wife not put their greed and needs first.

A few years after my mother died in the house my brother convinced my father to sell the house as he needed a deposit for his new house, he told us he would have a place for me to stay there if i needed it and that he would take care of my father if my father ever needed financial help.
My father after being manipulated into selling the house had given my brother and his wife a big sum of money from the house sale.

my parents were poor and saved for 40 years to buy a big house.

He also used many psychological techniques and sweet talked my elderly vulnerable father into selling the house, i believe he emotionally abused my father with alot of empty promises and sweet talks just to get him to sell the house.

Now my father is a pensioner and he has to always pay rent , moving costs and deposits... now my brother is refusing help .
He did not live up to his end of the bargain.

my father also agreed to selling the house under extreme duress and is old and vulnerable and i believe my brother had emotionally manipulated him.

i also suffer alot because of the sale of our home i now live in far worse conditions and this has caused me emotional and even physical duress as well as my father is emotionally and financially damaged due to our house being sold on my brother's convincing .

Losing our house has also made me extremely depressed and suicidal as i have been forced to stay in very poor conidtions and keep moving to shabby outbuildings/apartments... As a very introverted person with anti social disorder this has put me through a great deal of trauma by being exposed to these conditions as a direct result of our house being sold.



He also harassed and bothered my father all the time about selling the house and wanting his "Share".

 

[braindead91]

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. It's the worst when your own blood is greedy and ruins your life :(

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. It's the worst when your own blood is greedy and ruins your life :(

yes indeed and thank you .

lessons learned

Number 1. Dont only concern myself with how a certain action can benefit me but also consider how it affects the other persons life.

Number 2. Never let anyone trick me into doing things, say no and dont burn myself to keep others warm.

 

[SpinsterHag]

Im 34 years old im currently unemployed . A few years ago my brother convinced my father to sell his house , my father and i were living there , both very lonely and emotionally vulnerable .

I have very severe mental issues and have had difficulty working with people from a young age due to bullying and many negative experiences in life it lead me to isolating myself.

ive been to pshycologists since childhood and have letters from them, i therefore was living in my fathers house rent free as i couldnt work.My parents were very poor and saved for forty years to be able to buy a house.

i recently attempted suicide and it was because the house was sold i believe my life wouldnt be in such a bad state had my brother and his wife not put their greed and needs first.

A few years after my mother died in the house my brother convinced my father to sell the house as he needed a deposit for his new house, he told us he would have a place for me to stay there if i needed it and that he would take care of my father if my father ever needed financial help.
My father after being manipulated into selling the house had given my brother and his wife a big sum of money from the house sale.

my parents were poor and saved for 40 years to buy a big house.

He also used many psychological techniques and sweet talked my elderly vulnerable father into selling the house, i believe he emotionally abused my father with alot of empty promises and sweet talks just to get him to sell the house.

Now my father is a pensioner and he has to always pay rent , moving costs and deposits... now my brother is refusing help .
He did not live up to his end of the bargain.

my father also agreed to selling the house under extreme duress and is old and vulnerable and i believe my brother had emotionally manipulated him.

i also suffer alot because of the sale of our home i now live in far worse conditions and this has caused me emotional and even physical duress as well as my father is emotionally and financially damaged due to our house being sold on my brother's convincing .

Losing our house has also made me extremely depressed and suicidal as i have been forced to stay in very poor conidtions and keep moving to shabby outbuildings/apartments... As a very introverted person with anti social disorder this has put me through a great deal of trauma by being exposed to these conditions as a direct result of our house being sold.



He also harassed and bothered my father all the time about selling the house and wanting his "Share".

Since you say your dad is a pensioner, I'm guessing you live in England??? Do they have what we call here in America, legal aid. They're lawyers who work for free or at a reduced rate. Maybe you could contact someone who can take your brother to court.

I have a younger sister who's a wicked douchebag like your brother. That's something she'd end up doing to me if she had the opportunity.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Since you say your dad is a pensioner, I'm guessing you live in England??? Do they have what we call here in America, legal aid. They're lawyers who work for free or at a reduced rate. Maybe you could contact someone who can take your brother to court.

I have a younger sister who's a wicked douchebag like your brother. That's something she'd end up doing to me if she had the opportunity.

yes but we dont have anything in writing so we cant proof all what my brother said and my dads old school indian he would feel too ashamed to take this to court and he is too good and has alot of empathy even for people that hurts him( one of the reasons my brother took advantage of him)

 

[SpinsterHag]

yes but we dont have anything in writing so we cant proof all what my brother said and my dads old school indian he would feel too ashamed to take this to court and he is too good and has alot of empathy even for people that hurts him( one of the reasons my brother took advantage of him)

That's what your douchebag brother was banking on. Your dad being too ashamed to fight back. Your brother is a real piece of shit. But, I truly believe in Karma, and eventually this will come back at your brother and his spouse. Hopefully, you get to see Karma bite them in the ass hard!!!!

I'm so sorry you have a douchebag brother. I truly do understand, I've got a sister like your brother. I haven't spoken to or seen my mother or sister since July 2014 because they "tag team" me. I fear my mother and sister more than anything or anyone in the world.

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

I truly believe in Karma, and eventually this will come back at your brother and his spouse. Hopefully, you get to see Karma bite them in the ass hard!!!!

This is what i told my father yesterday and do you know what my father said? he doesnt even wish any harm on them.

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

Im 34 years old im currently unemployed . A few years ago my brother convinced my father to sell his house , my father and i were living there , both very lonely and emotionally vulnerable .

I have very severe mental issues and have had difficulty working with people from a young age due to bullying and many negative experiences in life it lead me to isolating myself.

ive been to pshycologists since childhood and have letters from them, i therefore was living in my fathers house rent free as i couldnt work.My parents were very poor and saved for forty years to be able to buy a house.

i recently attempted suicide and it was because the house was sold i believe my life wouldnt be in such a bad state had my brother and his wife not put their greed and needs first.

A few years after my mother died in the house my brother convinced my father to sell the house as he needed a deposit for his new house, he told us he would have a place for me to stay there if i needed it and that he would take care of my father if my father ever needed financial help.
My father after being manipulated into selling the house had given my brother and his wife a big sum of money from the house sale.

my parents were poor and saved for 40 years to buy a big house.

He also used many psychological techniques and sweet talked my elderly vulnerable father into selling the house, i believe he emotionally abused my father with alot of empty promises and sweet talks just to get him to sell the house.

Now my father is a pensioner and he has to always pay rent , moving costs and deposits... now my brother is refusing help .
He did not live up to his end of the bargain.

my father also agreed to selling the house under extreme duress and is old and vulnerable and i believe my brother had emotionally manipulated him.

i also suffer alot because of the sale of our home i now live in far worse conditions and this has caused me emotional and even physical duress as well as my father is emotionally and financially damaged due to our house being sold on my brother's convincing .

Losing our house has also made me extremely depressed and suicidal as i have been forced to stay in very poor conidtions and keep moving to shabby outbuildings/apartments... As a very introverted person with anti social disorder this has put me through a great deal of trauma by being exposed to these conditions as a direct result of our house being sold.



He also harassed and bothered my father all the time about selling the house and wanting his "Share".

Let this be a lesson To all who trust family . You are in this life alone

 

[MicropBaldCurrycel]

Let this be a lesson To all who trust family . You are in this life alone

Exactly and Thank You.

 

[SpinsterHag]

This is what i told my father yesterday and do you know what my father said? he doesnt even wish any harm on them.

Your dad's soul is crushed by your brother's actions. He can't admit it out loud. He's probably still holding onto hope that his son will stand by his word.

 

[Superdeterminist]

Being at the mercy of family sucks so bad. I'm in this type of position. So tired of being powerless.

 

[freedompass]

Oh man I really feel for you OP and what an ungrateful duplicitous **** your brother is!! I would be feeling 'fratricidal' in your shoes, I mean it's one thing he's fucked you over but to do that to your vulnerable elderly father is just despicable. I'm glad that I'm a leech on the state rather than dependent on family for anything. In that respect I've been fortunate. If you're British do you get PIP (disability)? Can you pull any strings with a psychiatrist if you have one to get rehoused somewhere decent, council or housing association? Play the mental health card at any chance you get, also see what your dad is entitled to. You could get Carers Allowance for him or he can claim Attendance Allowance. Best of luck to both of you.

 

[FuneralCry]

I'm sorry that you are in this situation, it sounds so awful what you are going through, some people really are so cruel. I hope you find relief from your suffering in whatever happens, I wish you the best.