Venting Am I the AH?

[d3ad]

Hey guys. I just wanted to ask a quick question. I share a room with someone at our uni's residence. She plays music and videos the whole day, and sometimes at night too. She plays it at normal-level, and sometimes at a very loud level. Is it weird for me to be annoyed by this? I sometimes wish I could nap in the afternoon, but I can't because she is busy playing her stuff. I also cannot study in our room at all, because I require a quiet space in order to study. I only feel better when she is asleep or when she is not here, which rarely happens. I have asked her to turn it down multiple times, and even reported her. She still does it. Am I expecting too much? Mind you, I always have my earpods on when I am listening to something.

 

[Jadeith]

Is it weird for me to be annoyed by this?

Nope. You are not obliged to share your roommate taste in music and vids or be in the same mood for them. I'd say it's rude for your roomie to force you to listen anything and ignore your requests.

 

[humantool]

Hey guys. I just wanted to ask a quick question. I share a room with someone at our uni's residence. She plays music and videos the whole day, and sometimes at night too. She plays it at normal-level, and sometimes at a very loud level. Is it weird for me to be annoyed by this? I sometimes wish I could nap in the afternoon, but I can't because she is busy playing her stuff. I also cannot study in our room at all, because I require a quiet space in order to study. I only feel better when she is asleep or when she is not here, which rarely happens. I have asked her to turn it down multiple times, and even reported her. She still does it. Am I expecting too much? Mind you, I always have my earpods on when I am listening to something.

Well, that's not weird at all. I am in a similar situation, people don't have respect for others at all and it's kinda sad. No, you are not expecting too much

 

[bankai]

This is quite disturbing. She shouldn't be playing music like that.

 

[d3ad]

Thank you, guys! I just wanted to get your opinions on this. I am glad you guys agree that it is not okay for her to do this.