Help Am I doing something wrong?

[culturalphilistinee]

I'd like to think of myself of a social butterfly. I am good at talking to others and public speaking in general. I am extroverted and friendly (shocking, seeing the forum im on rn lol) but I have consistently, through the course of my life; struggled to make friends. Ever since I was 6, I've invited every person I know to my birthday party. Ever since I was 6, nobody has shown up. When I ask people or plan hangouts, they either flake last minute or have some other inconvenience. I am a first choice to none and a second resort to few. Am I doing something wrong? I've never been told that I do things what would typically repel people from befriending me, it seems to naturally just…not be in my cards. I hope this doesn't come off as an incel "nobody likes me and it's not my fault!1!!!" Kind of rant, but I am curious to why I struggle so much with this.

it makes me think that nobody will truly miss me when I CTB