Venting Almost everyone cancelled on my birthday

[nintendo64]

I invited like 12 people for my birthday and all but 2 cancelled. I feel genuinely so dead inside. I haven't planned events or parties in like 7 years because there have been so many times everyone cancels last second and literally no one shows up, but I thought hey maybe this time it will be different. Nope. I don't know why I even bother doing anything I wanted to see all my friends at least one more time before I ctb but that's definitely not happening. One of my friends literally chose her awful abusive cheating bf over coming to my birthday. I chose to not ctb on my planned date but god am I regretting that rn. I had to be the one to message and ask them if they're still coming too, I just feel like shit this is why I haven't done anything for my birthday in years.

 

[COP2CON]

I'm truly sorry. I invited over 200 people to my 21 birthday and no one showed up. Ended up getting plastered and cussing out 2 separate cops in 2 sperate places. Talk about irony. People suck and I'm sorry you suffered for it.

 

[nintendo64]

I'm sorry you experienced something similar. It's my 21st birthday too, so at least I'll get to be hammered for it and spend the night at bars.

 

[Always-in-trouble]

I'm sorry you experienced something similar. It's my 21st birthday too, so at least I'll get to be hammered for it and spend the night at bars.

Was thinking that you could use some of that money lol. Hopefully the other two people would be good to you on your bday

 

[COP2CON]

I'm sorry you experienced something similar. It's my 21st birthday too, so at least I'll get to be hammered for it and spend the night at bars.

Blue motherfuckers, extra strong. Say hello to the cops and/or ER nurse for me. While it all sucks have as much fun as you can. Remember, whatever color your drink is, it comes back up the same color and generally stains everything.... I stained a embarrassingly large portion of my yard Hawaiian Punch red once. Happy Birthday and Happy Friday the 13th!!!!!

 

[nintendo64]

I'm on disability for my depression I just use most of the money for drugs and booze lol. I'm definitely very grateful for the two people who haven't cancelled, but it still stings how so many people just decided not to come a few days before it's happening.

 

[COP2CON]

Oh yeah last piece of advice, generally the cop does not think anythingis as funny or important as you do. Remember your right to remain silent.

 

[nintendo64]

Thanks. There have been so many times I've barfed my guts up after drinking too much, I have no clue how I've managed to never stain anything or get alcohol poisoning haha. Cops are also never around on the weekends here, my friend wrecked her car once and we waited 2 hours for the cops to show up but they never did lol. Hopefully won't encounter any.

 

[pleaseletmeperish]

I am so sorry, my friend. You deserve to have a very happy birthday so I hope you do. My best wishes

 

[existentiallinguine]

Oh, i'm so sorry. I had this happen twice on my 18th and 19th, no one showed. I am so sorry you went through that I know how painful it is. You deserve the best birthday you can have. Happy birthday. Take care of yourself and treat yourself.

 

[KlassPowder]

I'm sorry this happened to you. I've had this happen before too, it sucks. I'd tell you to make better friends, but I know it's hard. I hope you have / had a good time with the two friends who didn't cancel at least.

 

[myriapoda]

i truly do hope you had a good time with those two friends. i'm sorry to hear that they canceled on you like that. more drinks for you and the buddies that'll actually show up