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LonelyLight
Warlock
- May 31, 2019
- 779
Has any of you on here had an affair that your willing to share the story of? How did it start/end? Is it still happening? Did you end up together? Have you felt you needed more than your partner was offering but you see no way out? Is that one of the reasons your here considering ctb?
Or even the reverse side, has your partner had one on you? Did you forgive them?
I do have reasons for asking, and no I'm not having an affair. But I'm curious what leads people to thinking they need to?
I'm in a 10 year relationship myself, with no children, no home together, no ring, nothing. If I speak about any of the above topics its immediately shut down. I am 25, we are together since we are 15 and 16 years of age. I see my friends go for dates and get married, go on holidays together and of course I'm jealous.
I'm not saying I'm considering an affair but I can sometimes see why people would feel desperate enough to have them. I think I'd rather leave the relationship first, and thankfully I have no children caught in the middle so it wouldnt be so messy if I was to leave. But I do understand people who would potentially lose their kids or their home, who are in a loveless situation would reach out for someones company. Or am I just an absolute asshole for even sympathising with people who do??? I dont know.
So are you willing to share your story? I've never seen a thread about the subject since I've been on the forum, and it interests me. If you don't want to comment you can PM me either, I don't mind. If this is a pointless post, then I apologise too. Sometimes I feel stupid making a thread here.
Or even the reverse side, has your partner had one on you? Did you forgive them?
I do have reasons for asking, and no I'm not having an affair. But I'm curious what leads people to thinking they need to?
I'm in a 10 year relationship myself, with no children, no home together, no ring, nothing. If I speak about any of the above topics its immediately shut down. I am 25, we are together since we are 15 and 16 years of age. I see my friends go for dates and get married, go on holidays together and of course I'm jealous.
I'm not saying I'm considering an affair but I can sometimes see why people would feel desperate enough to have them. I think I'd rather leave the relationship first, and thankfully I have no children caught in the middle so it wouldnt be so messy if I was to leave. But I do understand people who would potentially lose their kids or their home, who are in a loveless situation would reach out for someones company. Or am I just an absolute asshole for even sympathising with people who do??? I dont know.
So are you willing to share your story? I've never seen a thread about the subject since I've been on the forum, and it interests me. If you don't want to comment you can PM me either, I don't mind. If this is a pointless post, then I apologise too. Sometimes I feel stupid making a thread here.