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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
6,963
We have all heard from lawyers and even in certain crime shows or mystery novels (to a lesser extent) that never talk to the police, never answer questions without consultation of a lawyer, legal counsel, or just to remain silent during interrogations. This is pretty much commonplace advice that lawyers (even the ones on the Internet say to prospective and current clients) give to people.

Also, in a similar thread, I have stated that seeking mental health professionals (counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, etc.) is similar to that of an interrogation, meaning that what you said can (and will likely) be used against you. While it is not like an actual interrogation where a suspected criminal is sat in an small room, with uncomfortable chairs, and an detective questioning the suspect, the interaction and encounter is very similar to that.

Anyways, so my main point in this thread I want to make is that when someone openly admits their suicidality on social media, IRL, or anywhere else on the Internet (outside of here), it is almost like self-incrimination. This is like having a brand, scarlet letter (metaphorically speaking) on your being that people can see and read off. The fact that there are (potential) civil consequences (ranging from involuntary treatment, forced lock up, and/or other invasive checks such as a welfare check into your day to day life and more) from admitting to suicidality makes it very similar to that of a suspected criminal incriminating him/herself in an interrogation by law enforcement. Therefore, it is not wise, or safe to even talk about suicide outside of this forum for the very reasons and risks that I've mentioned. By admission of suicidality to people IRL or outside of this safe haven is like admitting to a crime (that you either committed or didn't). No one should be willing to do that especially if they know the potential risks and consequences that can result from admission of suicidality to people IRL, especially mandated reporters (teachers, law enforcement, doctors, mental health professionals, clergy, etc.).

In my case, years ago when I enter a session with an MHP, I always assume that it's similar to that of an interrogation and be extremely careful of my wording. The same applies when I'm talking to anyone who is a mandated reporter and/or has power/authority over me. I see them more as a potential threat to my civil liberties as one misunderstanding can lead to a world of problems. Therefore, I parse every statement I make and am even more cautious and have my guard up when I interact with people like these. You just can't be too open or talk freely (without tension or relaxed) with them. They are also not your friends or on your side, they first and foremost, on the state's (government) and society's side and has those parties interest before they have theirs, let alone the patient's interests. Even with other people (not mandated reporters or people in a position of power/authority), I still exercise caution (albeit slightly less) when talking about taboo and sensitive topics. I also refrain from topics of death, suicide, and right to die for fear of a mishap causing an overly zealous concerned individual to sound the alarm and create unnecessary trouble. All in all, what I mean is that it isn't simply unsafe to admit to suicidality or even touch on said taboo subjects IRL and even much more dangerous with mandated reporters (who are required by law to report any findings or knowledge of danger, including to oneself).

Does anyone else see it this way?
 
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Broken Chimera

Broken Chimera

The abyss also gazes into you
May 27, 2019
972
You're dead on. After dealing with the mental health system I learned not to talk. It's a catch 22, if you don't talk, they can't "help" you. But if you do talk you risk being deprived of your basic human rights and be experimented on until they decide you can be released. Unlike jail you don't have a set date to leave. You're put back into a child's place, treated like and studied like you're less than human.

After experiencing that, you learn to either lie or experience a forced stay. Talking about my mental health feels like an interrogation, like it's something I'm guilty of rather than suffering from a condition regardless of who I'm talking to. Besides this site I won't even bring it up. Thanks to virtue signalers, mandated reporters and new Orwellian policies on certain sites, it's not safe to mention it anywhere.
 
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UnluckyFew

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Apr 1, 2020
49
I agree with you. I don't broach the topic of suicide when talking with MHPs. In my case I don't even think it would accomplish much anyway, even if they wouldn't lock me up for speaking my mind. But it would be nice to at least have the option even if I'd never choose to utilize it.

Imagine being treated like this for other perceived illnesses/disorders. "Oh, at this place we only treat those with benign cancer. If you admit to having malignant cancer you risk being locked up and we won't actually provide you with any further help/treatment." Perhaps not the best of analogies. I'm tired and grumpy and I wanted to put something out there. It's messed up, anyhow.
 
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Ardesevent

Ardesevent

It’s the end of the line, cowboy
Feb 2, 2020
358
That's a pretty good comparison.
Wards should either be voluntary or remove the whole 'danger to yourself' reasoning. Locking someone up because they want someone dead is reasonable, but preventing someone from dying or getting help because they admit they need it is a load of crap.
The system has been outdated for who knows how long, but no one has the guts to actually make it any better.
 
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TAW122

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Aug 30, 2018
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Imagine being treated like this for other perceived illnesses/disorders. "Oh, at this place we only treat those with benign cancer. If you admit to having malignant cancer you risk being locked up and we won't actually provide you with any further help/treatment." Perhaps not the best of analogies. I'm tired and grumpy and I wanted to put something out there. It's messed up, anyhow.
Yeah while not the best analogy, I can make sense of it. It's sort of like being sick enough to receive help, but not too sick (past a certain threshold, determined by the said MHP' discretion of course) that one would be put away or suffer other consequences.

That's a pretty good comparison.
Wards should either be voluntary or remove the whole 'danger to yourself' reasoning. Locking someone up because they want someone dead is reasonable, but preventing someone from dying or getting help because they admit they need it is a load of crap.
The system has been outdated for who knows how long, but no one has the guts to actually make it any better.
Exactly, especially of people who are only a 'danger to themselves' AND NOT others. Indeed, the system is really messed up and disgusting. As for no one having the guts, yes that is partly true, but also, I believe that the people in charge don't want the system to change either. This is because the current system is beneficial to them (people in power, elites, and what not) as tithing and milking the money out of the vulnerable is lucrative for them plus they must get off to people's miseries, like a power trip. Until it is no long as profitable, or popular for their sadistic treatments, then sadly the system continues to be shitty even in fucking 2020.
 
SleeplessSoul

SleeplessSoul

Student
Apr 10, 2020
131
Your posts are actually so helpful. I really like my psychologist and sometimes I'm tempted to be a bit too open because part of me trusts her. I need to be more aware of what telling her about this could actually mean for me.
 
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GoneGoneGone

Enlightened
Apr 1, 2020
1,141
I often fantasize about how this "getting you some help" should work without the "we-will-lock-you-up-and-load-you-on-Valium-for-who-knows-how-long" type of situation. Part of me has naively believed in the 'system' for a while and I have so far disclosed to about 7 MHPs about my thoughts. To which I was told "so are you a danger to yourself? Because you know, if you are a danger to yourself, we need to..." lock me up. So I meekly reply no no no just vague thoughts, nothing to worry, I am a responsible adult.

One situation in particular was a very nasty encounter, they knew they wanted to refer me to someone else, and I avoided them for a while, until I told them "okay I know what this is all about, you want to finish the assessment so that you can bill my insurer." "No no, we are genuinely worried about you etc." Then I had the assessment, and two days later "sorry we cannot help, so we are billing your insurer, best of luck, here are some other resources." Sorry that I am a bit going on a rant here.

I want to maybe toy with this illusion or idea of help, and not just being a mouse in a locked maze because if I say something they will lock me up. Isn't there a situation in between, where they don't lock you up but they offer some support beyond meditation or deep breathing or other BS?
 
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TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
6,963
@SleeplessSoul Thank you, I'm glad my threads are helpful for you. I also hope that with this new knowledge that you are able to protect yourself from being misunderstood or misinterpreted and then ending up in a worse situation.

@GoneGoneGone I'm sorry to hear about your ordeals with the previous MHPs as you described, especially the one very nasty encounter. That is another reason I avoided them like the gestapo because essentially that's what they are, informants and plainclothes law enforcers who have an aura of authority over you and can whisk you away on a whim. As for your question of whether there is a situation in between, well I don't know of any. Perhaps a pro-choice MHP might be the closest one can get, but even then said MHP is still bounded by regulations and legal requirements so there is still a risk there.
 
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disabledandhopeless

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Mar 1, 2020
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Your posts are really helpful. I should learn not be too honest with them. I never felt that these MHPs were on my side from the start even though they said that they were trying to "help" me. It's very confusing.
 
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ElizabethsFault

Had an abusive therapist
Jun 9, 2021
63
Coming from someone who was involuntarily hospitalized on a crisis unit twice within the past year, for having a "significant threat to life function," I have to agree. Both times there was no significant life threat to myself or to others. I was told by hospital staff I didn't belong there. The billing to my insurance company read differently, both times. This was all due to talking to mental health "professionals," and having my words twisted to suit their sadistic agenda.
 
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