RosebyAnyName
Staring at the ceiling for 6 hours
- Nov 9, 2023
- 176
Any semblance of societal acceptance is over for me. I always knew everyone would distance themselves from me once I hit 30+ years old and I still haven't had kids to show for it, since that's all anyone seems to want of me. I hated being told as a kid that I was loved, just to be told in the next breath that my life will only be complete if I have children, knowing deep down that I would never want that. Knowing everyone is slowly turning on me, knowing that even my own parents only pretended to care about me under the assumption I'd give them grandchildren, is something I wish I could have known from the very beginning so at least I might have had more time to actually develop my own self-worth. All love I received was actually conditional on the promise of having children, a condition I didn't get to consider when I was born into life against my will. My whole life has just been getting strung along like an idiot, only to have all the chords cut when people realize all their efforts wouldn't net them the results (children) they wanted. This logic applies to all sorts of things in life, not just the expectation of having children.
At first I was almost excited to no longer have that attention and pressure to procreate, to just have everyone "give up" on me so they'd leave me alone to my devices. But now it feels like being shunned rather than just ignored. To be actively hated rather than just passively avoided. Life is a game you cannot win: either be authentic and hated, or conform and hate yourself.
At first I was almost excited to no longer have that attention and pressure to procreate, to just have everyone "give up" on me so they'd leave me alone to my devices. But now it feels like being shunned rather than just ignored. To be actively hated rather than just passively avoided. Life is a game you cannot win: either be authentic and hated, or conform and hate yourself.