I said something vague like this when he first asked it something alongs the lines of "the site just interests me" but i don't think he bought it I've know him for years and he knows I've struggled in the past.
That's okay just make up your mind don't be anxious don't lie too much so he doesn't trust anything u say anymore try drawing more boundaries and Don't give up this could potentially make you the center of attention and direct some really unwanted attention for you that could ruin any future plan
I am doing my best to not be anxious but my heart is pounding i feel like im gonna throw up this is the first time someone near me has gotten close to finding out i didnt think it would affect me as much as it is
If ur making a good lie i think you should believe it yourself it makes you say it as confident as the truth some people detect lies by asking you about something they know about you and then something they think you will lie about to see the change in behaviour so i think it would sound alot more honest if you actually believe what ur saying
Ghost your friend, say don't come near me or my family I will get a restraining order against you if your friend trouble you too much!
Hopefully he will leave it alone if you don't make it seem like a big deal or show anxiety. It might even help keep you calm if you have a plan b. However, if he escalates this situation beyond what you can control, turn your fear into anger and protect yourself. You should know your friend best though... I wouldn't want you to lose a friend over this, but put yourself and your freedom before everything else.
Yea thats my main issue i made up a dumb excuse and left call and made this post idk how imma talk my way out of this
He hasn't brought it up since but im still worried hes gonna ask something about it
Make something up now, but wait until he asks you. Then casually and confidently tell him that. It will calm your nerves now and will come naturally so that it isn't suspicious.
