Your parents health

[rs929]

Is anyone worried not only about their parents' grief if they CTB but possible health problems like a heart attack when they find out?

 

[lofticries]

The big reason why I'm waiting for them both to die.

Mom for her mental health (I know she'd take it hard).
Dad for his physical health and possibly mental health(Suicide is a big sin in Catholicism) .

 

[Fragile]

Yes, my mother's mental and physical health are my main concerns after I CTB.

 

[Tkmiz_Tsukumizu]

I don't really care how my father takes it, he was never in my life and only cares when it is convenient.
My mother, I knew would take it very hard, though that isn't an issue as she has passed from this world.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Not worried about it, hard determinism and all that.

 

[Breakout92]

I would worry that my dad might ctb himself. My mom and siblings have friends and a good support network, but my dad is often alone. They're also highly religious and since suicide is a sin it may hit them harder. That might be what keeps my dad from following me, however.

None of this is going to stop me, though.

 

[Beachedwhale]

Not worried about it, hard determinism and all that.

What do you mean?

 

[WornOutLife]

Yes, I certainly am.
That's why next time I try to ctb, I'm gonna send a scheduled e-mail to the police so that they are the first ones to find me. My dad could still have a heart attack when they tell him I died but still, it wouldn't be as traumatic as finding me first.

 

[Bedrock48]

Yes definitely. It's more the fact I know she's starting to struggle to do things independently. I'm worried if I go she'll just sit in the house all day and never go on days out or holidays again.

When her next door neighbours son ctb, his mum barely left the house for 2 years and banned celebrating Christmas in her house. I don't want my mum to go through anything even remotely similar.

 

[Symbiote]

Can't worry about parent's health anymore if they're already dead.....

 

[Pen>Sword]

Yeah. In my suicide letter, I wrote something like "before you read the entire letter, please go for vacation, exercise frequently and live a happy, healthy and guiltless lifestyle to prevent heart attack, early-onset dementia, stroke, depression and all other stress-relevant diseases". I don't want them to experience those. I'll feel bad.

 

[yeahwellso]

Is anyone worried not only about their parents' grief if they CTB but possible health problems like a heart attack when they find out?

No. I simply do not care. Their problem, not mine.

 

[Mentalmick]

I hope my "father" catches fire and fucking explodes when I die. Mums waiting for me at the other side.

 

[loopylou]

My parents are dead.

 

[killedbypsychiatry]

Yes, I am worried my dad may have a heart attack, and I'm also very worried about his mental health. Also my twin sister, she's taking psych drugs and I am worried my death will make doctors put her on more :( psych drugs are what killed me. This is so hard.
About my mom and brother I'm not that worried because I don't think my death will affect them much.

 

[Celerity]

Yep. What I'm doing is very, very cruel. I wish there were any other way. With luck, my dad will die before me but then that leaves my mom.