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cottonball
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- Oct 24, 2020
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I'm currently at a hotel and have everything ready to ctb. I had this date set since January. I've been thinking about ending my own life for more than 10 years and felt relieved when I found this forum and realised it would be possible to do so peacefully.
But I just finished writing my goodbye letter to my dad and its too painful. I know many people have bad realationships with their fathers, but this was never my case, my dad is such a loving and caring person and I'm so lucky to be his daughter. He's very lonely and shy and not one to talk about his feelings, the little he does share is always with me. I just wrote an email that I'd program to send to him the day after tomorrow where I told him all of this and how much I love him and it made me want to give it all up just so he never has to read it.
Three years ago we lost our family cat and it was the first and only time I ever saw him cry. How will he deal with losing a daughter? I know that all the pain I'm currently feeling will transfer to him and I wish there was other way to do this. I wish I could just disappear and he could forget me.
I'm in my early 20s, so I wonder: can I really continue on living my life just to avoid causing my dad pain? There's no one else in my life that makes me reconsider it. But I'm afraid that if give up now, when I'm so close, I'll never get another chance. Part of me says I shouldn't do it and the other tells me I'm delaying the inevitable.
I don't want to wake up tomorrow but I can't stop thinking how things will be after I die, and how I won't have any control of anything. Does anyone else feel this way?
Sorry if this sounds pointless. I'm looking at my supplies right now and I don't know if I'll have the courage to do this. I just wish there was a way I could be at peace.
But I just finished writing my goodbye letter to my dad and its too painful. I know many people have bad realationships with their fathers, but this was never my case, my dad is such a loving and caring person and I'm so lucky to be his daughter. He's very lonely and shy and not one to talk about his feelings, the little he does share is always with me. I just wrote an email that I'd program to send to him the day after tomorrow where I told him all of this and how much I love him and it made me want to give it all up just so he never has to read it.
Three years ago we lost our family cat and it was the first and only time I ever saw him cry. How will he deal with losing a daughter? I know that all the pain I'm currently feeling will transfer to him and I wish there was other way to do this. I wish I could just disappear and he could forget me.
I'm in my early 20s, so I wonder: can I really continue on living my life just to avoid causing my dad pain? There's no one else in my life that makes me reconsider it. But I'm afraid that if give up now, when I'm so close, I'll never get another chance. Part of me says I shouldn't do it and the other tells me I'm delaying the inevitable.
I don't want to wake up tomorrow but I can't stop thinking how things will be after I die, and how I won't have any control of anything. Does anyone else feel this way?
Sorry if this sounds pointless. I'm looking at my supplies right now and I don't know if I'll have the courage to do this. I just wish there was a way I could be at peace.