Will never fall in love because I’m ugly

[uglyzuko]

I think I have major body dysmoprhic disorder and one of the many reasons why I'm so suicidal is because I'm ugly. I think it's just the feeling of being trapped and imprisoned. My life circumstances w my family and finances. Homelessness. Being ugly. Especially on Valentine's Day, seeing all the beautiful girls get adored by their partner and I am stuck with an eternity of lovelessness and loneliness because I'm hideous. And it's even worse because I don't think it's necessarily in my genes. My father and mother are attractive and my oldest sister is absolutely drop dead gorgeous to the point where people are incredulous when they find out we're related.

it just sucks so bad being ugly. It's really affecting me terribly right now.

 

[Indieblue]

Are you a woman?

 

[uglyzuko]

Are you a woman?

Yes.

 

[Emily123]

I am ugly too

 

[waterbottleman]

I think I have major body dysmoprhic disorder and one of the many reasons why I'm so suicidal is because I'm ugly. I think it's just the feeling of being trapped and imprisoned. My life circumstances w my family and finances. Homelessness. Being ugly. Especially on Valentine's Day, seeing all the beautiful girls get adored by their partner and I am stuck with an eternity of lovelessness and loneliness because I'm hideous. And it's even worse because I don't think it's necessarily in my genes. My father and mother are attractive and my oldest sister is absolutely drop dead gorgeous to the point where people are incredulous when they find out we're related.

it just sucks so bad being ugly. It's really affecting me terribly right now.

Happy valentines, here's a flower from me to you =)

 

[xBrialesana]

Maybe if your ugliness and my ugliness combine and join forces we'll become unstoppable

okaybriannalayofftheweed

 

[issyishere]

This is an issue that can be overcome in some cases. I'm a male and i also believed i was hideous before I really put effort into my appearance and trying out different styles of clothes. I realized I wasn't after a while and people did express interest with me. That's no longer one of the reasons I'm suicidal. Not to try and make your problems seem smaller than they are. I sincerely believe you are not ugly and it's just your body dysmorphia convincing you that you are. I don't think I've ever seen anyone in the world I actually believed i thought was ugly. Valentines day is hard for most of us who are single so don't believe everyone is out celebrating. We're just the silent majority. You're not alone. You have us

 

[max6802]

Love really isn't about looks, it's all about what's in another person.

 

[Ham Commander]

The ugliest people I've ever met has nothing to do with what they look like

 

[zeroambition]

Relatable.. I gave up getting help for Body Dysmorphia because I'm absolutely NOT repeatedly exposing my flaws to the public and that's what I'd need to do to for Exposure and Response Prevention.

 

[BeGone]

I'm a male and I'm also ugly. That's the main reason I've never been in a relationship. I don't think it's getting much better for me as time goes by, but at least I've accepted this fact already so that's still some kind of relief.

 

[Epsilon0]

Ok, so this is gonna sound cheesier than a pot of fondue but, trust me, looks are nothing without a nice personality.

 

[Mr2005]

Don't be me and deprive yourself of what you could have. I can barely live with myself anymore.

 

[uglyzuko]

Happy valentines, here's a flower from me to you =)

thank you, this is so kind :')

Love really isn't about looks, it's all about what's in another person.

I will never be approached for a chance at love because I'm ugly.I won't be even given a chance to show "what's on the inside" or whatever.

 

[Ghost2211]

Ugly and attractive people both find partners.

 

[hatelife]

Ugly and attractive people both find partners.

its a different thing with this illness, I have it, even ugly ppl can have it, its being scared kinda of social phobia mixed in it too, and I havent taken pictures since age 18, and never do it, I feel depressed to the point of wanting to die when I see myself on photo but have started to accept it for what it is lately as I have other bigger issues in my mind and it kinda got put to the side lately because its part of my ocd and the theme for my ocd always keeps changing, but its affected not only love life to me but also I have not seen my relatives for soon 14 years time because of this.

Ok, so this is gonna sound cheesier than a pot of fondue but, trust me, looks are nothing without a nice personality.

I dont have either one, ugly on inside too :(

 

[Cevapcici]

Well, it's a recurring topic here. I'm not going to shower you with toxic positivity on this matter,and neither am I going to say to you that looksmaxing works all the time - because quite frankly I don't have the awnsers as to why nature is a bitch, and why do people discriminate each other based on looks. I relate to your suffering, and I don't think there is a way to turn "uglyness" into a positive.

Humans, male and female , are disgusting meatsacks competing with each other to reproduce with the top 20% best formed meatsacks and pass on their genetic material , so yeah, life and relationships can be pretty hard for "the rest of us". Good news are, people who aren't "top-tier" looks-wise are the majority, and we're allowed to exist, look for happiness and companionship as well.

Not all males are unrealistic and resentful about what type of woman they can hope to bond with. I remember, when I was in middle school, everyone, no matter which " group"(conventionally attractive / average / under average looking ) they belonged to dated each other within their group without complexes. Our society has grown very narcissistic, primitive and eugenistic since.


I'm just gonna leave this screenshot here and wish you a good day.

 

[ugly_loser2008]

im ugly myself and i did find love but i suck so bad i let it all go - that hurts more than just bein ugly.