Great question - let me tell you the idiot story of my life.
In a nutshell my life is a tragic wreck. I'll have to write a separate post with all tbe details but suffice it to say there's almost nothing good - with one exception. Six years ago, I married my second wife, the love of my life. She was everything I wanted and felt truly like my soul mate. Went through a horrible divorce to get her and it was worth it - or or so I thought.
Fast forward - in those six years, I had a heart attack, 3 stents, full open abdominal surgery with horrible consequences but through it all, I had her. She was amazing, my rock. Then this past September I discovered I had heart failure, which led to a quadruple bypass. It's been rough recovering but I'm making progress.
This month on our anniversary, she tells me she's not in love with me anymore. The medical issues have been too tough on her. She's sorry but she doesn't know what to do or how to proceed. Evidently, she's felt this way for several years.
She is literally the only reason I'm here, but if I knew she was going to do this, I'd have skipped a quadruple bypass and let the 95% blockage in 4 arteries run its natural course.