I was encouraged into creating this thread by an another user, because of my username, so i did.
Women, on average, like average sized penises. After spending a little time around women and their vaginas, that will be made quite clear to you. It also makes sense, if you think about it. Imagine having a vagina, and a cervix. You wouldn't want someone passionately poking around that area with something that doesn't want to go in according to the laws of physics. If you don't believe me, try putting a can of dr.pepper in your ass.
If you look at mainstream straight porn (and believe me, i have), and at what sort of penises the male performers tend to possess, it becomes quite clear that those penises mostly aren't chosen by the standards of the average female. Whose standards then? Well, there are a pretty few alternatives after this. After all, it's men who consume most of the said porn.
This got me thinking. Thinking about all those lonely men, jerking off alone in their darkened rooms, intently watching those huge penises at their work, a mix of conflicting emotions going through their heads, inferiority, admiration, envy, bliss..
...Is it just me or is this sort of gay? Not me, or this thread, but the relationship between the mainstream straight porn and it's consumers. I'm not using the word gay derogatorily here, i'm just wondering. It's basically a fantasy made (mostly) for men, who wish their dicks were bigger, because ??? Because they secretly love big dicks? Or is some f'd up form of sadism, the idea that your penis would be big enough to hurt the women you have sex with turns some men on? Or is it all based on misconceptions about how the female sexuality works? What is going on here?
I mean sure, porn is mostly visual, the bigger the penis, the better you can see it. And some women do like big penises, sure. But wouldn't it make more sense to pick performers who have something beyond that, some kind of rare talent when it comes to pleasing women in general, perhaps? Something more than just any fugly dude with a huge dick and the ability to stay hard over the shoot and shoot huge loads all over the place? (yeah that's what every woman loves during sex, lots and lots of bad tasting cum, preferably all over their faces)
I think it's all about the competition aspect of it, it's wanting what you can't have, that is a huge penis and lots of attractive women. It's men, the consumers, getting off feeling bad about themselves, some kind of milder version of cuckoldry. It all makes very little sense, but so do many things concerning porn. Like for example many female performers getting fake and generally unpleasant looking breast, lip and even buttock surgeries. I think it's a freak show, really. The more unusual you look, and the more unusual the sexual act you are doing is, the more popular you will get and the more money you will make, because there are so many other people looking normal, doing "the basic stuff" already. That goes for the female performers, as i understand the males on average make much less money and are often in it for the free sex and "fame".
"Money is the greatest aphrodisiac". There is a ring of truth in this, we can all intuitively understand some "basic" laws of economics. What turns us on, regardless of sex, is the idea of being sought after, being somehow positively different and recognizable from the rest. In my opinion, this explains some of the general wackiness of mainstream porn.
Women, on average, like average sized penises. After spending a little time around women and their vaginas, that will be made quite clear to you. It also makes sense, if you think about it. Imagine having a vagina, and a cervix. You wouldn't want someone passionately poking around that area with something that doesn't want to go in according to the laws of physics. If you don't believe me, try putting a can of dr.pepper in your ass.
If you look at mainstream straight porn (and believe me, i have), and at what sort of penises the male performers tend to possess, it becomes quite clear that those penises mostly aren't chosen by the standards of the average female. Whose standards then? Well, there are a pretty few alternatives after this. After all, it's men who consume most of the said porn.
This got me thinking. Thinking about all those lonely men, jerking off alone in their darkened rooms, intently watching those huge penises at their work, a mix of conflicting emotions going through their heads, inferiority, admiration, envy, bliss..
...Is it just me or is this sort of gay? Not me, or this thread, but the relationship between the mainstream straight porn and it's consumers. I'm not using the word gay derogatorily here, i'm just wondering. It's basically a fantasy made (mostly) for men, who wish their dicks were bigger, because ??? Because they secretly love big dicks? Or is some f'd up form of sadism, the idea that your penis would be big enough to hurt the women you have sex with turns some men on? Or is it all based on misconceptions about how the female sexuality works? What is going on here?
I mean sure, porn is mostly visual, the bigger the penis, the better you can see it. And some women do like big penises, sure. But wouldn't it make more sense to pick performers who have something beyond that, some kind of rare talent when it comes to pleasing women in general, perhaps? Something more than just any fugly dude with a huge dick and the ability to stay hard over the shoot and shoot huge loads all over the place? (yeah that's what every woman loves during sex, lots and lots of bad tasting cum, preferably all over their faces)
I think it's all about the competition aspect of it, it's wanting what you can't have, that is a huge penis and lots of attractive women. It's men, the consumers, getting off feeling bad about themselves, some kind of milder version of cuckoldry. It all makes very little sense, but so do many things concerning porn. Like for example many female performers getting fake and generally unpleasant looking breast, lip and even buttock surgeries. I think it's a freak show, really. The more unusual you look, and the more unusual the sexual act you are doing is, the more popular you will get and the more money you will make, because there are so many other people looking normal, doing "the basic stuff" already. That goes for the female performers, as i understand the males on average make much less money and are often in it for the free sex and "fame".
"Money is the greatest aphrodisiac". There is a ring of truth in this, we can all intuitively understand some "basic" laws of economics. What turns us on, regardless of sex, is the idea of being sought after, being somehow positively different and recognizable from the rest. In my opinion, this explains some of the general wackiness of mainstream porn.
