Why do people get sad when you say you wanna kys? And offended when you say its selfish that they want you to be alive for yheir own comfort?

[asian.neet]

It's insane how people have this logic that you're selfish if you wanna kys when you're in so much pain.

I fucked up my life royally all in one day and ever since it's been hell and I just wanna end it now. Nothing will ever be the same and I'm probably gonna have some dead ass job or be a neet even when I'm 60 bc I fucked up royally. And no I don't wanna talk about it.

Yet when I tell ppl I wanna die they think I'm selfish for doing so.

Jesus christ what is wrong with people. Why does this illogical thinking exist?

 

[hibikikyuxx]

Society, religion, and their upbringing. That's why. All of that brainwashed them into becoming mindless slaves who all think the same way. "Do this and you're selfish", "think about how this will affect others". They never care about the person who wants to kill themselves, they are just afraid of being associated with a person who died per suicide, so they keep forcing the suicidal person to continue living, not caring that the person suffers and never asked for any of this.

 

[DyingToDie123]

As much as I'm pro-choice I do prefer people to be happy. Wanting to die is hard and causes a lot of suffering, and I'm anti-suffering. But I still think each person should get to choose what they want to do about that suffering. I don't want people to stay alive for my own sake.

People always talked about this sort of thing with me when I was in the psych ward and complained about the people who got me there. "Well if your friend texted you that they were going to kill themselves what would you do?" "Well if I answered that honestly I would never leave here."

 

[SpencerSees]

Basically, yea. People don't care about what the suicidal person wants. I'm not saying they should just accept that their loved one wants to die, but being a dick about it won't help.

People love to make everything about themselves, it's human nature.
How does this affect me? A catastrophic disaster in another country? I was devastated when I heard about it! You're suffering? You're causing ME extra stress. Me me me me.

You have the right to be upset about this, but realize they won't change. It comes to people, most likely even you, as naturally as breathing.

Most you can do is act the way you'd wabt to be treated, if you fing meaning in that.

 

[Lookoutbelow]

I've discussed this before on here. You are selfish for wanting to kill yourself. It is all about relieving your own pain. They are selfish for wanting you to live. It is all about not wanting to experience the pain of loss. We are all selfish. So if you want to kill yourself go for it, but don't expect others to understand. I am selfish because I am going to kill myself. My family is selfish because they don't want me to. So for now we are stuck in a stalemate.

 

[FuneralCry]

The selfish thing is how people so cruelly decide to procreate and want to imprison that individual so that they have to suffer until they die. Those people need to realise that other people's decisions aren't theirs to make and that nobody is obligated to continue existing here. The people who believe that existence should be a prison disgust me, people shouldn't have to suffer against their wishes all because other people lacked the compassion to not procreate in the first place.

 

[fallintotheshadows]

The reason why they get sad is due to yes you guessed it being selfish. But let me get into what I see for a second in that. When a person sees something that helps then through life then they will want to keep it in existence that's why we charge our phones all the time in this age. We don't let it die we save it by giving it the charge it needs. What they want is for us to suffer alongside them for their own benefit of "it helps them keep going as well." But the reason why people also get sad when it happens is due to the fact my belief is that everyone has depression so when you claim these things it hits home with them because I'm sure they have had thoughts before too.

 

[In-between]

It's insane how people have this logic that you're selfish if you wanna kys when you're in so much pain.

I fucked up my life royally all in one day and ever since it's been hell and I just wanna end it now. Nothing will ever be the same and I'm probably gonna have some dead ass job or be a neet even when I'm 60 bc I fucked up royally. And no I don't wanna talk about it.

Yet when I tell ppl I wanna die they think I'm selfish for doing so.

Jesus christ what is wrong with people. Why does this illogical thinking exist?

People who say suicide is selfish are only seeing one part of it and mostly, have either never felt that way themselves, or once did and the pain is still so real of that time that they dismiss out of self-protection. Wanting to escape excruciating pain is understandable. When my suicidal thoughts were at their strongest, I was so disconnected/dissociated that it wasn't that I had objectively weighed up other people and myself and favoured my benefit, it was that I felt nothing. I was totally numb and in agony all at once.

What people don't understand, scares them. We see that everywhere with hateful attitudes towards people who are somehow (deemed) different. In defence of people, I also think that most people love others on some level and it's the pain their suicidal friend, family member, person on the internet is in that alarms them so much. Most people are motivated to protect the life of others, if not their own.

Do what is right by yourself but please not because of other people's standards of success or living.