Who else is in love with someone they cant be with?

[lotus11]

Either a failed relationship, unrequited love, someone who refuses to admit they love you, life circumstances are in the way....even watching this person marry or have kids with someone else that is not you etc

Personally I am suffering something like this and its a type of pain unbearable, I just can't seem to stop loving this person. we were together for 3 years and we have been broken up for a year and a half, but we still speak quite regularly.

Do any of you have any stories like this you can share with me?

 

[AnxietyAttack44]

It might not belong here, but im in love with my husband, and he loves me as well. Its just that he died, and i can't be with him anymore..

 

[Acerakis]

someone who refuses to admit they love you

This isn't a thing. If someone refuses to say they love you, it means they don't love you. Trying to hold onto some vain hope you will end up together will just hurt you both.

 

[Pallf]

I've had what I felt to be unrequited love, but it was transference during therapy. I still think about them every day, which concerns me greatly. I should've gotten over them by now, but I haven't and I don't know what to do.

It might not belong here, but im in love with my husband, and he loves me as well. Its just that he died, and i can't be with him anymore..

I'm very sorry for your loss. That's heart wrenching to go through.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

That's just all love for me since nobody will ever love me ngl

 

[Final Escape]

This is one of the reasons I want to ctb. I'm over him mostly but I can't get over how it ended. It was devastating and humiliating. My advice to you if u want to get over this person is to stop contact. You are causing yourself a lot of pain by remaining friends with a person who is not invested in you. No wonder you can't move on. You might be able to get this person back if u do go no contact because they will be able to experience life without u in it at all. Do not say to them that u are going no contact. Just stop communications and see what happens. They might freak out and start chasing u. Start watching coach lee, and the love chat on YouTube to learn what to do in this situation. It may be possible to get this person back if you play your cards right. But u have to learn how and not make mistakes in the process. There's other good coaches on YouTube as well u might bump on when u look up the suggestions I put here. Good luck :)

 

[KLUF]

I used to feel love for some people I could not be with, but I realized it's a waste of my mental and my body's resources so I quit loving if I find out I can't be with them. I understand nobody is obliged to like/love me.

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

I was twice. The thing is if they don't reciprocate you should avoid them entirely and scrub them from your brain as thinking about that person is really detrimental to your health.

The damage that those types can do is huge.

 

[mx5nb3]

I wish I could feel love again, but my depression has ruined any hope. As a teen, I had two girlfriends. Both of which lasted about 1.5 years(I know its not that long, but it sure felt like it at 13-16). They both ended because I started showing my depressive side.. my facade was decaying and my strength plummeting, and eventually I was just a sad sack weighing them down. I've since spiral so deep into depression, that every girl I see and talk to just seems exactly the same. They are all happy, vibrant, excited about life, and would want nothing to do with a depressed and hopeless person like me. So, in conclusion I love that these women that are so positive and happy, but i know i will never be like them and thus cant be 'with' them.

 

[ERASED]

No I'm not in love with anyone from my past.....but I am in love with someone that doesn't like me.
And it hurts.

 

[mutedgoldensunshine]

Im in love with someone whos heartbroken.He said he wishes he could love me but at the same time also says he'll never heal.
This person has completely changed my life and im madly in love and the hope that we'll one day be together is the only thing keeping from ctb.

 

[Meena]

I was madly in love with a person who kept rejecting me. I loved him more then myself.
Maybe it was some form of obsession
Now i am not able anymore to love. I feel empty and a loser.

 

[sadgirl2002]

I'm in love with someone very deeply. I don't know if I can say that it's unrequited love because I don't know how he feels but I think it is. I know he needs time to heal and the possibility of us reuniting one day is the only thing that's stopping me to CTB. I have hope that we will be together, I always did and I always will.

This person has completely changed my life and im madly in love and the hope that we'll one day be together is the only thing keeping from ctb.

I'm in exactly the same situation, sending you hugs. I hope things get better for the two of you.

 

[Soul]

My heart was broken by a man I'd been with for 12 years. Lots of people encouraged me to hate him for it. But I didn't want to hate him; even if his love was shoddy and lame, mine wasn't. My love is the high-quality stuff that keeps on going, and I value it. It can be tricky to let go of the person but not let go of your love for them, but that's what's worked for me.

 

[JigsawFeelin]

the love of my life left me because of my mental health, and how it affected our relationship. they're with someone else now.

 

[ERASED]

the love of my life left me because of my mental health, and how it affected our relationship. they're with someone else now.

I'm so sorry for that. I know it hurts and trust me you may never heal. I just hope your decision for the out come of life is one you are at peace with. What ever you choose.

 

[WitheringAway]

Either a failed relationship, unrequited love, someone who refuses to admit they love you, life circumstances are in the way....even watching this person marry or have kids with someone else that is not you etc

Personally I am suffering something like this and its a type of pain unbearable, I just can't seem to stop loving this person. we were together for 3 years and we have been broken up for a year and a half, but we still speak quite regularly.

Do any of you have any stories like this you can share with me?

I fell in love with a person I met online. He's from the US and I'm from a shitty country in the Middle East. He says he loves me but I know we could never be together lol

 

[Claudia]

Does being in love with someone who died count? If so then yes.

 

[Misery99]

Fell in love with someone I met from an online dating site.He contacted me first.He was a good looking, wealthy,well educated and a successful doctor.He had everything I didn't have. I thought maybe I was going to get saved by a prince like in a fairy tale. But I'm not a princess and this isn't a fairy tale. We live in two different countries so it's very difficult for us to meet as he only visit our country once a year. And even if he visited he could not meet me as he wished because of my mom's over controling behavior. Our online relationship only lasted like for a year until he started to change suddenly. He started to refer to me as a friend instead of a lover. I know he got tired of our relationship and probably got a girlfriend from where he lives as it's easier for him to meet her and behave like lovers. It became another sad lost opportunity in my life.

 

[lotus11]

the love of my life left me because of my mental health, and how it affected our relationship. they're with someone else now.

me too, i know how that feels, a special type of hell