KuriGohan&Kamehameha
想死不能 - 想活不能
- Nov 23, 2020
- 1,682
I know ctb is my choice, and my choice alone, but would you throw the towel in if you were in my situation? I know deep down there is no hope, yet people keep lying to me and instilling false motivations when they know a hopeful reality is blatantly untrue.
My health is about as stable as a derelict tin shack trying to withstand a hurricane. I've suffered from chronic fatigue, chronic neuropathic pain, ptsd, and IBS for many years. Since I am now 21 and this has been going on for 4 years, I don't see it getting better.
I had lots of blood and urine tests done, even a CT scan to see if I had a bad gallbladder or slow digestion that might be causing the pain I experience with eating. Nothing. The only thing I have is some autoimmune antibodies that are likely inherited from a family member, I don't have any of the symptoms of that autoimmune disease except fatigue, as everything else came back fine.
No inflammation in my blood, no rheumatoid arthritis, no thyroid problems, no celiacs disease, no vitamin deficiencies, no pre diabetes, nothing. My joints are not inflamed, the pain is muscular and neuropathic in nature. However it is likely I will inherit some autoimmune diseases and arthritis in the future because my dumb family chose to have kids when they KNEW that they carried so many diseases. If I ended up with the autoimmune disease my family carries I'd rather kill myself in the spot.
So yeah, health wise I am fucked with this chronic fatigue syndrome that has no cause. I have tried over 16 different pharmaceutical treatments, and nothing, even the most potent of stimulants, has worked. I cannot take pain medicine for the aches and pins in all my extremities because it will make the fatigue worse and not even really help anything.
PTSD complicates this further. I am serious when I say this condition has ruined my life more than anything else. Years of therapy, which is a scam for such severe ptsd anyways, did nothing to help me. My sexuality and my brain seem to be permanently altered by trauma. I have so many horrific memories of medical workers abusing me, including sexual abuse, pinning me down for an injection while I was screaming, and severe neglect and malpractice that left me with permanent TMJ. The oral surgeon said it is incurable.
I cannot even see images of medical settings without my mind going into fight or flight mode. I have been unable to even step into a clinic in over a year because the traumatization was so severe. If my partner has to go to one I panic all day and almost vomit from my own flashbacks. There is a serious nervous system problem caused by PTSD that psychiatry neglects because people want to frame it as a malady of one's psychology rather than a physical disorder. To them, you're just malingering if you talk about how ptsd destroys your body.
My entire childhood was spent being abused. This has caused me even more trauma. Being groomed and molested by older guys ruined me as a young teenage girl. My family didn't care about me despite the fact that I have a developmental disability that requires intervention. I grew up with no parents. All I want is for someone to care about me but that is physically impossible once you turn 18 as everyone assumes, you're an adult now, function on your own even though it's against your basal human nature that desires faimilial bonds and companionship! The mental health care system does nothing but blame individuals and ignore systematic issues in their treatment methodology.
After failing so many treatments and accepting i am going to suffer forever with this bone crushing, agonising fatigue that makes my entire perception blurry and unfocused, my limbs heavy, and my life, intolerable, the only reason I hung on was for my partner. Yet my partner holds it over my head daily that I am hard to deal with. I am genuinely so fucked with my health that I cannot have a job, and I will likely fail my university exams because I fall asleep or doze off when I have to try to read and concentrate on revision, because of the neurological hell that comes with chronic fatigue.
I cannot get disability benefits because of my immigration status and I could not get them in my birth country either. My existence relies on the charity of others, and nobody cares. The friends I've made at university tell me to just stay positive and hang in there. That helps nothing. I am in my own personal hell everyday.
So tell me, in my position, would you want to live anymore? Am I really irrational for wanting to ctb like they say?
My health is about as stable as a derelict tin shack trying to withstand a hurricane. I've suffered from chronic fatigue, chronic neuropathic pain, ptsd, and IBS for many years. Since I am now 21 and this has been going on for 4 years, I don't see it getting better.
I had lots of blood and urine tests done, even a CT scan to see if I had a bad gallbladder or slow digestion that might be causing the pain I experience with eating. Nothing. The only thing I have is some autoimmune antibodies that are likely inherited from a family member, I don't have any of the symptoms of that autoimmune disease except fatigue, as everything else came back fine.
No inflammation in my blood, no rheumatoid arthritis, no thyroid problems, no celiacs disease, no vitamin deficiencies, no pre diabetes, nothing. My joints are not inflamed, the pain is muscular and neuropathic in nature. However it is likely I will inherit some autoimmune diseases and arthritis in the future because my dumb family chose to have kids when they KNEW that they carried so many diseases. If I ended up with the autoimmune disease my family carries I'd rather kill myself in the spot.
So yeah, health wise I am fucked with this chronic fatigue syndrome that has no cause. I have tried over 16 different pharmaceutical treatments, and nothing, even the most potent of stimulants, has worked. I cannot take pain medicine for the aches and pins in all my extremities because it will make the fatigue worse and not even really help anything.
PTSD complicates this further. I am serious when I say this condition has ruined my life more than anything else. Years of therapy, which is a scam for such severe ptsd anyways, did nothing to help me. My sexuality and my brain seem to be permanently altered by trauma. I have so many horrific memories of medical workers abusing me, including sexual abuse, pinning me down for an injection while I was screaming, and severe neglect and malpractice that left me with permanent TMJ. The oral surgeon said it is incurable.
I cannot even see images of medical settings without my mind going into fight or flight mode. I have been unable to even step into a clinic in over a year because the traumatization was so severe. If my partner has to go to one I panic all day and almost vomit from my own flashbacks. There is a serious nervous system problem caused by PTSD that psychiatry neglects because people want to frame it as a malady of one's psychology rather than a physical disorder. To them, you're just malingering if you talk about how ptsd destroys your body.
My entire childhood was spent being abused. This has caused me even more trauma. Being groomed and molested by older guys ruined me as a young teenage girl. My family didn't care about me despite the fact that I have a developmental disability that requires intervention. I grew up with no parents. All I want is for someone to care about me but that is physically impossible once you turn 18 as everyone assumes, you're an adult now, function on your own even though it's against your basal human nature that desires faimilial bonds and companionship! The mental health care system does nothing but blame individuals and ignore systematic issues in their treatment methodology.
After failing so many treatments and accepting i am going to suffer forever with this bone crushing, agonising fatigue that makes my entire perception blurry and unfocused, my limbs heavy, and my life, intolerable, the only reason I hung on was for my partner. Yet my partner holds it over my head daily that I am hard to deal with. I am genuinely so fucked with my health that I cannot have a job, and I will likely fail my university exams because I fall asleep or doze off when I have to try to read and concentrate on revision, because of the neurological hell that comes with chronic fatigue.
I cannot get disability benefits because of my immigration status and I could not get them in my birth country either. My existence relies on the charity of others, and nobody cares. The friends I've made at university tell me to just stay positive and hang in there. That helps nothing. I am in my own personal hell everyday.
So tell me, in my position, would you want to live anymore? Am I really irrational for wanting to ctb like they say?