Help What’s wrong with me?

[joegoes100]

Why is it that I only ever feel okay or normal when someone gives me attention. I can't emotionally provide for my self at all. I'll literally be completely ready to kms one second, but if someone even responds to me when I talk i feel better. Idrk how to describe it but if you get what I'm saying is this some kind of mental condition or am I just a loser?

 

[aRose]

Not a loser. Social interactions are kinda a huge part of being a healthy human. That's why we use isolation as a form of torture, ya know?

It may be a MH concern to some degree but I don't have that degree to judge you with

So you ever talk to yourself out loud? Sometimes that helps me. I do lil video diary type things and play them back to myself to check if I even make any damn sense. The validation helps a lot when I can't find anyone to talk with.

 

[joegoes100]

Not a loser. Social interactions are kinda a huge part of being a healthy human. That's why we use isolation as a form of torture, ya know?

It may be a MH concern to some degree but I don't have that degree to judge you with

So you ever talk to yourself out loud? Sometimes that helps me. I do lil video diary type things and play them back to myself to check if I even make any damn sense. The validation helps a lot when I can't find anyone to talk with.

That's true.

I don't talk to my self out loud but I frequently reflect on my self and things I've done but in my head I'll say "you suck" instead of "I suck" for example.
That's a good method but I the way I sound and look so I don't think I could do that.

 

[aRose]

For me it's kind of a replacement for journaling. I often just do voice memos or point that camera at the sky and talk.
I shit talk myself often too.
I'm pretty sure all of us here are having some form or another of MH issues, otherwise we'd never have joined such a forum.

 

[joegoes100]

For me it's kind of a replacement for journaling. I often just do voice memos or point that camera at the sky and talk.
I shit talk myself often too.
I'm pretty sure all of us here are having some form or another of MH issues, otherwise we'd never have joined such a forum.

That's most likely true lol.

 

[kufajoy]

Hey hey we all feel the same way and that's why we are here in this site. Right ?
It you want someone to talk to I'm here. Not very good at English though.

 

[joegoes100]

Hey hey we all feel the same way and that's why we are here in this site. Right ?
It you want someone to talk to I'm here. Not very good at English though.

Haha that's true

 

[chillino]

I do know that feeling
If i feel seen and loved/liked I am not depressed at all