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- Nov 2, 2020
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Hello, my sister came to visit today.
We were talking about mental health related stuff for some reason and I said that people with permanent mental health issues are 'probably better off dead', as they will be suffering for life. She asked if my view applies to her too, if she committed suicide, and I said 'I would understand'. She left. Did I say something really bad? Why was she offended?
She's never had 'severe' issues. I was a little under the influence and my pro-choice side came out a bit more than usual. I wouldn't stop her from committing suicide if it was the right choice. You understand, right? Did it just come off the wrong way? Even if the person was my sister, I wouldn't suddenly become a pro-lifer/anti-choice just because it was my sister. I like my views to stay consistent. Is there a better way to word things? Should I just pretend to be an anti-choicer when around others?
Should I lie and say I didn't mean it? Sorry I'm confused. If she's better off dead, I'd support her decision. What would you do?
We were talking about mental health related stuff for some reason and I said that people with permanent mental health issues are 'probably better off dead', as they will be suffering for life. She asked if my view applies to her too, if she committed suicide, and I said 'I would understand'. She left. Did I say something really bad? Why was she offended?
She's never had 'severe' issues. I was a little under the influence and my pro-choice side came out a bit more than usual. I wouldn't stop her from committing suicide if it was the right choice. You understand, right? Did it just come off the wrong way? Even if the person was my sister, I wouldn't suddenly become a pro-lifer/anti-choice just because it was my sister. I like my views to stay consistent. Is there a better way to word things? Should I just pretend to be an anti-choicer when around others?
Should I lie and say I didn't mean it? Sorry I'm confused. If she's better off dead, I'd support her decision. What would you do?