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I hope this is okay if labelled NSFW. I am always interested in questions about morality and ethics. I once made a thread why most pornography might be immoral. My initial point was a news article I read. The story was the following. A young women learned that there were nude pictures/videos of her on the internet on pornography websites. The way she learned about it was special. One of her best friedns admitted to have seen her on such a website. I try to paraphrase it. (it is a while ago) The friend said something like if he did not tell the truth to her he would have forever a guilty conscience about it/could not be at peace.
Though it was kind of difficult for him to admit that I assume. The video was taken by a spy cam.

The whole point of the article was by the way how evil-minded such websites deny the requests of people of whom videos were upoloaded without consent.

I would probably do the same. Telling the other person the truth. Though it probaby depends on the person. How close do I know these people? It can be a really difficult moral dilemma. I think I would ruminate a lot. If I found videos of my sister I would tell it her as soon as possible. If I saw compromising pictures of someone from college who I barely know this would get really difficult. How close do I have to know these people so that I have a moral commitment? Like the situation could get so extremely awkward. I think I would be extremely worried how embarrassing the situation could become. And imagine you actually only confused two people. I think I would die a thousand inner deaths. I would have to be 99% certain for doing that I assume.

Obivously there was the commitment not to share these pictures. Though there are also questions what if these people are really evil persons and bully other people. It is difficult to be act morally in such a situation. I think most people would not act morally. I am not sure how I would act. I think I would probaby not spread the pictures due to the legal concerns. However I am not sure. Is there even legal trouble just to send a link to such a website?
I cannot really clearly say how I would act. I am glad I am not in this difficult postion. It also depends on the circumstances who uploaded it, when and why. I cannot make a clear statement by generalizing all cases.
 
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Bootleg Astolfo

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I'm used to friends sending me lewd cosplays or straight up porn for constructive criticisism, wouldnt react at all lol.
 
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LunarPyotr

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Jul 4, 2020
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If it's my enemy, I would most likely print it out and " accidentally " leave it in the bus or train..

If it's someone who I know (like friend, family member, coworker or a friend of my friend) then I would just act like I never seen anything.

I know someone who accidentally sent me a picture of him in a latex full body suit and then he deleted it but since I was running a modified Telegram app, the messages can still be seen.
Well, I never knew that this guy is into that stuff and I just send him a "?" as reply. yeah, as if I didn't see anything : P

Well, at least he isn't into some eye ball licking fetish XD
 
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I would probably ask to see if there was consent to put the photos up on the internet in the first place and then figure out what to do from there.
 
Celerity

Celerity

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Jan 24, 2021
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If it looks like they agreed to posting it, I would keep the information to myself. If I knew they didn't want them up, I would tell them. Life's too short to be a coward.
 
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Feb 27, 2021
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questions like these are hard to put myself in because I'm such a shut in and hardly have contact with anyone. But if such a situation ever occurs in the future I would tell that person since I would like someone to do the same for me.
 
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Apr 27, 2019
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Idk, context would matter.
Some people share that stuff willingly or record it themselves (bad idea imo unless you're documenting some sort of medical condition for your own benefit) so unless it was clear it was filmed against someone's will, I would probably have nothing to say or share.
Especially if they weren't an immediate family member.
Also I'm not really in the position to come across sites that host nude images or videos (unless you count the pop ups during illegal streaming) so there's even less likelihood of stumbling on ones of those I am acquainted with (although there have been some people I have suspected participate in that sort of thing, so if I actually search for it who knows what I would find).

If it was a serious matter where consent was questionable I may try to let them know anonymously and/or report it myself.
 
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keitaro

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Jul 10, 2022
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if i was attracted to them, i would download the picture and enjoy it.
if i wasn't attracted to them, i would be embarrassed for them and cringe.
 
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King Mutt Not Tut

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I hope this is okay if labelled NSFW. I am always interested in questions about morality and ethics. I once made a thread why most pornography might be immoral. My initial point was a news article I read. The story was the following. A young women learned that there were nude pictures/videos of her on the internet on pornography websites. The way she learned about it was special. One of her best friedns admitted to have seen her on such a website. I try to paraphrase it. (it is a while ago) The friend said something like if he did not tell the truth to her he would have forever a guilty conscience about it/could not be at peace.
Though it was kind of difficult for him to admit that I assume. The video was taken by a spy cam.

The whole point of the article was by the way how evil-minded such websites deny the requests of people of whom videos were upoloaded without consent.

I would probably do the same. Telling the other person the truth. Though it probaby depends on the person. How close do I know these people? It can be a really difficult moral dilemma. I think I would ruminate a lot. If I found videos of my sister I would tell it her as soon as possible. If I saw compromising pictures of someone from college who I barely know this would get really difficult. How close do I have to know these people so that I have a moral commitment? Like the situation could get so extremely awkward. I think I would be extremely worried how embarrassing the situation could become. And imagine you actually only confused two people. I think I would die a thousand inner deaths. I would have to be 99% certain for doing that I assume.

Obivously there was the commitment not to share these pictures. Though there are also questions what if these people are really evil persons and bully other people. It is difficult to be act morally in such a situation. I think most people would not act morally. I am not sure how I would act. I think I would probaby not spread the pictures due to the legal concerns. However I am not sure. Is there even legal trouble just to send a link to such a website?
I cannot really clearly say how I would act. I am glad I am not in this difficult postion. It also depends on the circumstances who uploaded it, when and why. I cannot make a clear statement by generalizing all cases.
if they were a hot foid im saving that bad boy
 

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