Discussion What was the story behind your first heartbreak?

[landslide12]

Here's mine: I met her on my way to class, she was a rose among the thorns, I saw her after school one day sitting by herself, I introduced myself, it was love at first sight, we exchanged snapchat and Instagram, we talk everyday for a few months, I was there for her when she got her heart broken, she was there for me during my depression episodes, we finally dated, I LOVED her but she doesn't feel the same way, 2 months later we broke up, the world turned gray that day, 1 month later she got a new boyfriend, it sucks knowing that the girl that meant everything to you left for someone better.

How was your first heartbreak?

 

[tomz323]

My story is this. I've never had a Girl friend. I say, it is better to have a love lost then to never loved at all. This is a heart break in a way isn't it?

 

[LonelyLight]

I've had two or three... but my first was a boy I met when I was 16 at a dance, he was absoutly lovely in every sense of the word. We started texting pretty much constantly from the night we met. He soon asked me to be his girlfriend. We met up as often as we could (we lived in towns 30 mins apart). He always told me he loved me, and I loved him, and even now at 25 I can say for sure I did. But he text me one night after about 6 months dating, that he never truely meant any of it. A week or so later he had a new girlfriend. I was devestated. But he is still with the girl he left me for today, and I'm not bitter about it anymore. I'm happy he found what was meant for him. Sounds like silly teen stuff reading it back but I sure did feel it at the time.

 

[landslide12]

I've had two or three... but my first was a boy I met when I was 16 at a dance, he was absoutly lovely in every sense of the word. We started texting pretty much constantly from the night we met. He soon asked me to be his girlfriend. We met up as often as we could (we lived in towns 30 mins apart). He always told me he loved me, and I loved him, and even now at 25 I can say for sure I did. But he text me one night after about 6 months dating, that he never truely meant any of it. A week or so later he had a new girlfriend. I was devestated. But he is still with the girl he left me for today, and I'm not bitter about it anymore. I'm happy he found what was meant for him. Sounds like silly teen stuff reading it back but I sure did feel it at the time.

Holy... I'm so sorry

 

[ExitTheDay]

I got a call on Facebook messenger from my girlfriend one day and I noticed she was with one of my friends best friend, from the get go I thought this was really strange because from as far as I was aware they never hung out ever and she would always tell me how she didn't really trust or like the dude. Later that day I got a call from my friend and he told me that he saw her with him and I told him that she called me and I saw him with her too, this is when my suspicion grew further because when my friend called I could hear other voices in the background and one of them sounded exactly like my girlfriend, come to find out it was my best friend who was cheating on me with her before he called me, pretty much implying to me yeah bro I'm with your girl, fuck are you gonna do about it... these people are no longer in my life

 

[not_a_robot]

I was born and met my father.

I got a call on Facebook messenger from my girlfriend one day and I noticed she was with one of my friends best friend, from the get go I thought this was really strange because from as far as I was aware they never hung out ever and she would always tell me how she didn't really trust or like the dude. Later that day I got a call from my friend and he told me that he saw her with him and I told him that she called me and I saw him with her too, this is when my suspicion grew further because when my friend called I could hear other voices in the background and one of them sounded exactly like my girlfriend, come to find out it was my best friend who was cheating on me with her before he called me, pretty much implying to me yeah bro I'm with your girl, fuck are you gonna do about it... these people are no longer in my life

people are disgusting.

I've had two or three... but my first was a boy I met when I was 16 at a dance, he was absoutly lovely in every sense of the word. We started texting pretty much constantly from the night we met. He soon asked me to be his girlfriend. We met up as often as we could (we lived in towns 30 mins apart). He always told me he loved me, and I loved him, and even now at 25 I can say for sure I did. But he text me one night after about 6 months dating, that he never truely meant any of it. A week or so later he had a new girlfriend. I was devestated. But he is still with the girl he left me for today, and I'm not bitter about it anymore. I'm happy he found what was meant for him. Sounds like silly teen stuff reading it back but I sure did feel it at the time.

Happened to me at 16 too. Was crazy about boy, had all the kinky sex with him, yadda yadda yadda.
Prom night comes and I'm left at home. He goes to prom with some girl from a few towns away, they had been engaged since before I met him. He had planned it all along, to date me all year then show up at prom in front of our friends with this other dummy. At school on Monday a freshman skater boy told me that he had been videotaping the sex and showing it all over school all year. Other guys were yelling at him not to tell me, his brother was like "don't, it will just hurt her worse to know!"
And skaterboy was all "It's not right!"

I wish I could say that was the worst thing that ever happened to me.
Not even close.

I don't like people very much.

My story is this. I've never had a Girl friend. I say, it is better to have a love lost then to never loved at all. This is a heart break in a way isn't it?

lol. Read mine above and see if you think that would be better than just being left alone.

 

[landslide12]

Happened to me at 16 too. Was crazy about boy, had all the kinky sex with him, yadda yadda yadda.
Prom night comes and I'm left at home. He goes to prom with some girl from a few towns away, they had been engaged since before I met him. He had planned it all along, to date me all year then show up at prom in front of our friends with this other dummy. At school on Monday a freshman skater boy told me that he had been videotaping the sex and showing it all over school all year. Other guys were yelling at him not to tell me, his brother was like "don't, it will just hurt her worse to know!"
And skaterboy was all "It's not right!"

damn that sucks

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

I had a close IRL friend. After college graduation, he moved back to Canada. He confessed he always loved me on graduation day (we were best friends since the first year of college but we were both too shy to make a move).We decided a relationship wouldn't work out because we would no longer be in the same country after college graduation.

 

[Done182]

First person to ask me out, raped me who even cares, my destiny was to kill myself anyway, I was never meant To be happy

 

[landslide12]

I had a close IRL friend. After college graduation, he moved back to Canada. He confessed he always loved me on graduation day (we were best friends since the first year of college but we were both too shy to make a move).We decided a relationship wouldn't work out because we would no longer be in the same country after college graduation.

Yikes long distant relationship sucks

First person to ask me out, raped me who even cares, my destiny was to kill myself anyway, I was never meant To be happy

Hey that's a reason to kys

 

[jake3d]

I was 15, she was 16, both virgins, talked about having sex together, she ended up losing her virginity to another guy then complained to me that he was kinda harsh on her and it hurt her, and expected me to understand her. That was probably the meanest thing that a girl ever put me thru.

I ended up losing my virginity quite late but made up for that. Relationships are not the reason for my desire to ctb, that's certain.

 

[Toxic Person]

I was maybe 14-16 (i really dont know) and he was 18-19. He was a friend of my friend and i instantly fall in love with him (first of all. I was a huuuge 90's Leonardo Dicaprio Fan and he has the same face like leo) we date each other. After 2 weeks he called me his gf. I was the happiest person in the world.
But thwn the fu.k up sh.t happens. He f.ck with 3 other girls behinde my back, called me fat and ugly. Don't acctept my feelings and so much more things.

And after 5 months he broke up with me bc "i loved him to much"