Discussion What was the most unfair thing to happen to you?

[nigelhernandez]

In your opinion? For me it was being bullied. I was bullied so long that I retaliated by hitting my bullies and then my parents grounded me and called me a spoiled brat along with my therapists.

 

[pete_x]

Being brown i was suspended and subsequently expelled from school based on the assumption that i may have been smoking in any bathroom at some point during the day.
The assistant principal tried to go white on me so i promised him if he finished the sentence his intestines would be on his desk and i would gladly return his head to his family in person.

I'm not a lunatic, i just believe in responding to bullying with violence.

 

[a.n.kirillov]

I don't believe in fairness ... sure, in a football match or in legislation we strive towards fairness; but people who treated me badly don't have to adhere to my moral standards.

 

[Deleted member 18655]

(Pardon the pity party):

• Bullied all through primary and secondary school
• Sexually abused as a child
• Sexually abused as an adult - two different men
• Cheated on by (now ex-) husband

Fun times

 

[Flump]

Loosing my beautiful son

 

[Deleted member 17331]

Having found a forum as fascinating as this, but having come across posts from users who seem to have some kind of sense of superiority. Not to mention the death threat I received on this forum's chat, where I thought I would be safe.

 

[Aonewayticketplease]

In your opinion? For me it was being bullied. I was bullied so long that I retaliated by hitting my bullies and then my parents grounded me and called me a spoiled brat along with my therapists.

Did the same thing. Was kicked in the back at until I stabbed my bully and beat him around.

in all fairness though nothing came of it and he did apologize.

 

[shipwreck]

Having found a forum as fascinating as this, but having come across posts from users who seem to have some kind of sense of superiority. Not to mention the death threat I received on this forum's chat, where I thought I would be safe.

That's terrible about the death threat! I hope you reported it?

 

[Deleted member 17331]

That's terrible about the death threat! I hope you reported it?

What would change? I was an idiot for sharing so much personal information with an internet user, he tried to find my location and almost found it. I realized this was weird too late, after he started saying cruel things to me. I already ignored it and prefer it that way. I'm sure that if I report him he will create another profile to bother me. I'm tired, it rocked me a little bit, but as strange as that sounds, I'm used to this kind of threat, it's common in my country. I was just too naive to think that I wouldn't find people like that on this forum. Anyway, it's my fault.

 

[Skathon]

Being born.

 

[shipwreck]

What would change? I was an idiot for sharing so much personal information with an internet user, he tried to find my location and almost found it. I realized this was weird too late, after he started saying cruel things to me. I already ignored it and prefer it that way. I'm sure that if I report him he will create another profile to bother me. I'm tired, it rocked me a little bit, but as strange as that sounds, I'm used to this kind of threat, it's common in my country. I was just too naive to think that I wouldn't find people like that on this forum. Anyway, it's my fault.

You should report it so that he doesn't do the same thing to others. Help keep everyone safe!

 

[Sensei]

When I started working as a teacher, I worked so hard and exposed myself to so much stress that it triggered my bipolar disorder. In other words, I worked hard for the common good and was rewarded with a chronic and harrowing illness. But then again, I no longer believe that life is fair. If God exists, he certainly moves in mysterious ways.

 

[ghostgirl1995]

I ruined my own platform and life and shitty people took advantage of me. A lot of abuse. I reacted wrong to a lot of things too though. Now everyone thinks I'm a monster.

 

[verminoid]

i was raped from 15 to 19 by my auntie's boyfriend/husband. when i told my grandmother, she insisted that it was consensual and that i had a crush on the man.

he looks like bob the fucking tomato. gross.

 

[mathieu]

Being bullied in high school.

 

[Emily_Numb]

Mine was thinking my whole life I was infertile, being married for 14 years and then having an affair with a married man and getting pregnant and having to abort.

 

[SuiSqueeze92]

Probably the day before my dad OD'd... he came to visit a few states away, which was big for him because he was broke all the time... we did a few things together for a day before he was going to leave the next day, but my mom wanted to be a bitch and bring up shit to start a fight with him. She sent me to my room and I literally cried watching him punch his car from my window until he drove off. He called me to say goodnight the next night... and then called my mom apparently later on, but died on the phone.

Basically it's unfair my opinions and thoughts didn't matter at that age. (11)

 

[TheSoulless]

Being born.

Was about to say this.

 

[RileyTanaka]

Bullied for being only person of my race/ethnicity growing up
Bullied at home by my sister
Verbally and physically abused by parents
Passed over for jobs despite working hard
Asked not to be gay when I am
Thrown away by friends
Becoming chronically ill
Being on the streets at one point
Being blamed for problems I didn't cause or ask for

 

[nigelhernandez]

Bullied for being only person of my race/ethnicity growing up
Bullied at home by my sister
Verbally and physically abused by parents
Passed over for jobs despite working hard
Asked not to be gay when I am
Thrown away by friends
Becoming chronically ill
Being on the streets at one point
Being blamed for problems I didn't cause or ask for

Can I ask about being on the streets? How did you become homeless? I might face a similar situation if my parents kick me out.

 

[pete_x]

Can I ask about being on the streets? How did you become homeless? I might face a similar situation if my parents kick me out.

Get a backpack/rucksack on a frame with a waist belt.
always have a hammer, a sharpened screwdriver, and a serviceable blade.
don't sleep on watefront benches
don't talk to pigs for anything
if a pig tells you to move along, shut up and do it.
scout out good stash spots for whatever, don't be obvious
if your fencing shit on the overnight learn how to spot the cops and be ready to
drop your shit and split
hit a shelter as fast as possible more for the meet and greet than the actual stay
get used to wearing double layers and keep dry detergent in your ruck
don't be a dick at soup kitchens, when the ppl running the joint need help, help.
and if they wanna feed you jesus, eat it.
if you have access to a free clinic get familiar with it.
at some monestaries, the priests will let it slide sometimes if you stay "minimal" and don't wreck shit.
if more than one person you don't know confuses you for someone else jump to a new town.
don't run across highways
organized services are your friends <---- legitimate ones like day treatment/counseling centers
creepy and too nice are equally dangerous
get wool blankets from army surplus/ standard issue boots too, not jumpboots
carry a cane
one of those grabby reach things as well, don't know what they're called =P
don't go getting "romantic" that shit's for the movies.
don't be too silent don't be loud.
learn to step quiet on every surface you can <---- takes practice
never talk money <--- unless you owe, then you'd better fucking pay or you will pay.
when someone walks up to a group you may be hanging with and says hey i just shot some motherfucker
keep your mouth shut and your eyes on your own business
if you have blunt that's the dude you pass to.
whores tend to be alright when they know you're cool but don't give them anything
that's what stuck with me.

oh and eating from trash is totally survivable just excersise a little common sense.

 

[terry_a_davis]

Not much from memory i've been lucky (my misfortunes are my own fault mainly lol).
I have been 'fired' for literally no reason other than i must assume the person taking a personal dislike to me. Did the job well, no complaints, enjoyed helped out, brought in new custom, then out the blue gone with no warning or reason given. I would fully admit if i messed up but honestly i did nothing so it has to be personal dislike.

 

[Sad_Autistic_boy_101]

After years of fighting, finally gain the support that I need for my autism - Just for my carer to kill himself and then the funding people want to take that support away again.

 

[lostangel]

I suppose not being good looking.
Being born into parents who are emotionally abusive.
Being a reject, never fitting in.
Having a crooked nose/lip. It destroys the proportions of my face.
Being born.
Nobody ever took me seriously. I was never listened to growing up.

 

[KibblesNBits]

Being autistic and having premature ovarian failure since the age of 13. Both were diagnosed too late. The former meant that I was too awkward to advocate for myself in getting treatment for the latter, resulting in serious damage to my body, self esteem and health. And of course, I was lucky enough to be born into a dysfunctional family where everyone was too self absorbed to even notice I was there so I had no chance.

 

[lotus11]

Being born into a poor and dysfunctional family in an isolated location with bad weather. Although technically I could 'just get out of this' as an adult, the mental health repercussions of this have been so bad that I struggle to survive by myself. Also given the world we live in, even if I am working hard its always just enough to survive, saving for a house and a life of my own is impossible