What the actual fuck is happening?

[Magi129]

Why do so many men harass women? Like, is it really so difficult to notice when someone is not liking something that youre doing physically? And why lie about going out with a ton of friends just to actually be alone (all others had miraculosly not make it in time) with someone and make all of it unconfortable? And why on earth would someone spend days sending marriage videos to someone who has said in all possible ways not to view things where they do not exist?

I really wonder, do these people simply don't have a life? Just get one, it is not anyone else's problem. If you have erotomania or limerency, it also is not, so get some other way to put it out that does not affect the others (and there is always another way)

Please, have some sensibility.

(Obviously women can harass too, but fuck, numerically it is not the same proportion)

 

[EvisceratedJester]

To be fair, when women do harassment or act inappropriately towards others it's usually played off as a joke, so might amount of women doing similar shit like this might actually be larger than it seems. For example, my ex-stepmother has, on three separate occasions, grabbed my boobs/attempted to grab my boobs back when I was around 13-14. One of those times she did so in public with her cousin there to witness it and nobody gave a shit. Her cousin even laughed while she was doing it.

I've seen a lot of cases of women not respecting the boundaries of others and people very rarely take it seriously. This sometimes even includes the person having their boundaries violated. Everybody just treats it as a joke.

 

[iloveunotbutmaybe]

bizzare how youre preaching for "just get a life" when youre posting here, how ignorant and out of place can you be lol

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm not sure really. It rarely happens to me (thankfully.) One of the benefits of being unattractive. When it has happened though, it's been a weird experience. I've wondered if a polite 'I'm not interested' simply wasn't forceful enough. I've also wondered if perseverance had worked for them in the past, so they continued to use the same tactic. Maybe they truly believe that some women do enjoy playing hard to get or whatever.

 

[SVEN]

"Numerically it's not the same proportion" ... you've obviously never been in a public place when a guy wearing a kilt appears ! No too likely he'd get away with sticking his hand up their skirt or trying to sneak up behind them to flip it up. Yet, it's all a big joke to check up on what he's wearing under the kilt.