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Remisands

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Jul 27, 2025
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Long time lurker on here and just registered recently. Hopefully I won't get banned by my first post but now that it's closer to when I need to do what I need to do, I can't help but thinkyy that half of the "attempts" on here are fake.
I don't mean to offend the community on my first post, but for someone looking for real information, specifically for CO, it's been the most frustrating six months of my life trying to get answers when I keep reading all this crazy stuff about testing and it didn't work and it didn't work and it didn't work. No one mentions smoke detectors going off. No one mentions where they're doing this chimney lighting with plumes of smoke that would be filling up the house, etc. If I used a chimney starter even in my basement, my neighbors would be over in less than 15 minute asking me what I'm cooking and why in the house. I'm in a single-family home with some decent space between me and my neighbors and I can even tell when my neighbor lights up a cigar on his deck.

This is just one example and I'm not gonna' go into the other areas of the site because, like most folks, I just want "to go to sleep" so, for me, it's CO.

I put myself into a corner and it has become something that I have to do rather than wanna do but it doesn't matter…it's gotta get done. Have a gun and I know how to tie knots but I gotta tell you, after reading this site, I'm scared to death and I just want accurate information. I know that sounds ridiculous because the folks with 100% accurate info wouldn't be here to respond.

I'm just really frustrated because I'm running out of time and between this site and watching charcoal burning videos, I have way more questions than before I found the site.

My hope with this post is to maybe find some folks that can sympathize and answer some detailed questions I have about that process.

Again, I'm sorry if I offended anybody.
 
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itsgone2

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I can sympathize. Read about Brad Delp. He had two charcoal grills in his master bedroom and passed away, not a car or a tent, whole bedroom. But on here, you can read all these failures in smaller places with what seems like more charcoal than that, then what's true? I used to think my small bathroom would make it easy but now seems impossible.
 
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If it's any comfort, many many people in the history of humanity have managed to kill themselves by whatever haphazard method they have to hand. I'm sure the vast majority of people to this day don't do that much research and just go for it.

My personal theory is that the information and discussion on this site is skewed because there's a fixation on finding the "perfect" method which won't be painful. Sorry, dying probably will be painful.

Without being so concerned about finding a painless method, the people who really actually want to die asap are hanging, shooting, and drowning themselves.

Most failures seem to be because people allow themselves to be found within a certain time frame, or choose methods where the lethality is uncertain, such as jumping or even SN and CO.
 
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itsgone2

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If it's any comfort, many many people in the history of humanity have managed to kill themselves by whatever haphazard method they have to hand. I'm sure the vast majority of people to this day don't do that much research and just go for it.

My personal theory is that the information and discussion on this site is skewed because there's a fixation on finding the "perfect" method which won't be painful. Sorry, dying probably will be painful.

Without being so concerned about finding a painless method, the people who really actually want to die asap are hanging, shooting, and drowning themselves.

Most failures seem to be because people allow themselves to be found within a certain time frame, or choose methods where the lethality is uncertain, such as jumping or even SN and CO.
Wow. Great post. Yes, I'll admit I would like something painless, thus CO.
This is a little frightening. Are we not really able to do this? The thought of having to do this for decades more is terrifying.
 
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Remisands

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Jul 27, 2025
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If it's any comfort, many many people in the history of humanity have managed to kill themselves by whatever haphazard method they have to hand. I'm sure the vast majority of people to this day don't do that much research and just go for it.

My personal theory is that the information and discussion on this site is skewed because there's a fixation on finding the "perfect" method which won't be painful. Sorry, dying probably will be painful.

Without being so concerned about finding a painless method, the people who really actually want to die asap are hanging, shooting, and drowning themselves.

Most failures seem to be because people allow themselves to be found within a certain time frame, or choose methods where the lethality is uncertain, such as jumping or even SN and CO.
Yes, when it's time, you just do it. I think that's what's happening. It's the reality hitting me and I always thought I'd have this carbon monoxide "thing" in my back pocket. All the Korean stories are insane. They just park anywhere light up grills and sit in their car and nobody notices?Thats nuts, right? It's easy to see what's in their pictures to duplicate but then this site makes it seem like a difficult science project.
So I guess my question would be… Should I just start posting CO questions on that page? I've read the entire thread and it goes back years and, as you read it, there's so much contradictory information. I know no one's gonna hold my hand, but is that the best bet to just start asking questions at the end of the mega thread?
 
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58Alice85

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Aug 31, 2025
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Wouldn't you notice if someone would keep posting about attempts but never stops posting?
or are they continiously making new accounts?
i think every website is up to an extent full of fake and ai content, part and parcel of using the internet in 2025
 
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