Lilmeowssi
I just want peace
- Sep 6, 2019
- 77
Hello,
as the title already says, I keep getting rejected and/or avoided by people.
I am not talking about people online but about people in real life.
I don't get why at all. I am always really nice, even to people who I don't know or to people who are not being nice to me.
I am a people pleaser and I get taken advantage of a lot.
I invited all these "friends" to my birthday parties (when I used to still celebrate them) but nobody ever invited me back and they are not even trying to hide it from me.
They make plans right in front of me but never ask if I wanna come too.
I am never their first choice neither their second.
They only ever ask me if I wanna go out when nobody else can and I always say yes because it's not that often.
When I ask them to go out with me, they never have time or at least that's what they always say.
My friends are the second dearest people in my life after my family. I don't get any love back from either of them.
I feel like maybe it's because I get too attached to people and it's annoying them? I am just afraid of loosing people.
I don't get what I am doing wrong. It's been like that ever since kindergarten.
Sorry for crying to you guys about it but I really don't have anyone to talk to.
as the title already says, I keep getting rejected and/or avoided by people.
I am not talking about people online but about people in real life.
I don't get why at all. I am always really nice, even to people who I don't know or to people who are not being nice to me.
I am a people pleaser and I get taken advantage of a lot.
I invited all these "friends" to my birthday parties (when I used to still celebrate them) but nobody ever invited me back and they are not even trying to hide it from me.
They make plans right in front of me but never ask if I wanna come too.
I am never their first choice neither their second.
They only ever ask me if I wanna go out when nobody else can and I always say yes because it's not that often.
When I ask them to go out with me, they never have time or at least that's what they always say.
My friends are the second dearest people in my life after my family. I don't get any love back from either of them.
I feel like maybe it's because I get too attached to people and it's annoying them? I am just afraid of loosing people.
I don't get what I am doing wrong. It's been like that ever since kindergarten.
Sorry for crying to you guys about it but I really don't have anyone to talk to.