TAW122
Emissary of the right to die.
- Aug 30, 2018
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I want to preface this by saying that I don't condone my bullies or ANY bullies in general and my empathy goes to other people who were bullied in their lives (childhood, adolescence, adulthood). Also, no I don't have Stockholm Syndrome either because I don't bear any affection or care to my tormentors or ANY tormentors in general. This is just a discussion about bullies in general and offering my alternative angle/perspective on them especially after looking at things on a more realistic way. I want to also make it clear that I don't condone nor excuse their actions and what they (the bullies) do is despicable indeed. They are still assholes and jerks at the end of the day.
With that said, here is my topic of discussion, which is What if the (or your) bullies are correct (and honest), but they are still assholes, would you hate or resent them less than dishonest, idealistic pro-lifers and other NPCs (vast majority of society out there in the real world)?
Personally, I have more disdain and disgust towards pro-lifers and the majority of NPCs who lie, dismiss, and even make excuses to de-escalate and invalidate our suffering. While these people aren't bullies in the overt way, they are covert bullies and I don't respect those who are dishonest about things. While it's true that these NPC's want to not hurt others' feelings by being polite, it is certainly a disservice to others by feeding them 'feel good' platitudes, dismissing their claims and grievances and taking the moral high ground, and of course by making false-promises that lead to nowhere. Then turn around and blame the victim (victim of bullying) for not recovering or getting better. Sure, let's put the onus on the victim to "get over it" and use guilt & shame tactics. Because they'll thank me (us) later! /s
So in conclusion, I don't condone nor like the bullies, but if there was a lesser evil, it would be the "honest" asshole and bully than the dishonest NPC's that roam about in this shitty world. Mind you, neither of them are good nor preferable, but if left with two choices, I'd choose the asshole honest bully over the nice dishonest NPC the vast majority of the time because at least the person is honest, and also I believe in self-defense and vengeance in situations that warrant it, but that's a different topic for another thread.
Feel free to discuss this and/or throw in your thoughts on this topic.
With that said, here is my topic of discussion, which is What if the (or your) bullies are correct (and honest), but they are still assholes, would you hate or resent them less than dishonest, idealistic pro-lifers and other NPCs (vast majority of society out there in the real world)?
Personally, I have more disdain and disgust towards pro-lifers and the majority of NPCs who lie, dismiss, and even make excuses to de-escalate and invalidate our suffering. While these people aren't bullies in the overt way, they are covert bullies and I don't respect those who are dishonest about things. While it's true that these NPC's want to not hurt others' feelings by being polite, it is certainly a disservice to others by feeding them 'feel good' platitudes, dismissing their claims and grievances and taking the moral high ground, and of course by making false-promises that lead to nowhere. Then turn around and blame the victim (victim of bullying) for not recovering or getting better. Sure, let's put the onus on the victim to "get over it" and use guilt & shame tactics. Because they'll thank me (us) later! /s
So in conclusion, I don't condone nor like the bullies, but if there was a lesser evil, it would be the "honest" asshole and bully than the dishonest NPC's that roam about in this shitty world. Mind you, neither of them are good nor preferable, but if left with two choices, I'd choose the asshole honest bully over the nice dishonest NPC the vast majority of the time because at least the person is honest, and also I believe in self-defense and vengeance in situations that warrant it, but that's a different topic for another thread.
Feel free to discuss this and/or throw in your thoughts on this topic.
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