BandAddict

BandAddict

Specialist
Apr 3, 2019
338
What are some things that still bring you a sense of joy? Even if they're small, or fleeting.

For me, I feel really fuzzy inside when my cat sits in my lap or uses me as a back/armrest. He's a shit most of a the time so it feels really special when he's affectionate and keeps me company. There are also some songs that make me feel positive emotions sometimes. And I like to waste time watching shit on "conspiracy theories", unclassified stuff (because when it's not scary it's exciting in a weird way), and videos/docs about ancient civilizations.

Those are a couple of random things that still spark some kind of joy in me. I got the idea for this post because my cat is currently sleeping in my lap, haha.
 
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neren

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Jan 17, 2021
38
Not much any more. Random Youtube videos that make me laugh like Smosh Pit. Teaching my son new things. I still have an awesome sense of humor and like to make people laugh but it's fading fast. Mainly because there aren't that many people and the few that are left I have self sabotaged my relationships with.
 
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kolski

kolski

ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ᴍᴏɴsᴛᴇʀs
May 27, 2019
115
I know I this post is supposed to be positive, but it's past 4am n I'm on the verge of another mental breakdown. So the only thing keeping me positive rn is thought of the rope around my neck when I finally ct

Ahaha I'm a fucking mess :pfff::pfff:
 
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Kat!

Elementalist
Sep 30, 2020
838
I love talking to my friends.
Honestly not much else makes me that happy.
 
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Wrennie

Wrennie

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Dec 18, 2019
1,546
For me it's my cat as well, ha-ha. Animals can really take you out of your head and keep you grounded in the present moment.
 
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ohhgeeitsme

ohhgeeitsme

Wizard
Feb 5, 2020
694
My dog and funny/cute animal videos online, and other random funny or heartwarming videos. It doesn't always work though.
 
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the_final_countdown

Specialist
Dec 29, 2020
337
Food, family, and pets.

Coffee too when I have the energy to make it.

Most mornings I spend in bed, trying to fall back asleep.
 
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hendry

Member
Jan 4, 2021
32
Watch anime, masturbate, watch youtube videos and play with my cats
 
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newave3

newave3

I want out
Nov 21, 2020
2,776
A sense of joy ??? What's that like ? I have no clue.
 
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JustHeckinKillMe

JustHeckinKillMe

Cool I'm dead
Sep 26, 2019
122
Nothing.
 
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MindFrog

MindFrog

:Professional Hypocrite:
Nov 19, 2020
723
Playing with my cats gives me joy, especially when I watch them grow from small shy kittens to fat confident cats.. There's also some youtubers that I follow cause it gives me that feeling of friendship.. Kinda sad now that I think about it.
 
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Bazzinga

Bazzinga

Lost
Dec 25, 2020
742
I don't remember the last time my cheek muscles managed to pull a smile, I wish something did make me happy, I feed some street dogs everyday and I pet them I feel somethings besides being depressed so Ig I can classify that as a spark of some sort:), I wish I had a pet:(
 
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muffin222

muffin222

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2020
1,188
I love music. It energizes, uplifts, and soothes my soul
 
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Squiddy

Squiddy

Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
Sep 4, 2019
5,903
Music, friends, family, anime, manga, food sometimes, sleep, exercise sometimes, regular tv shows, weed
 
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Pen>Sword

Pen>Sword

Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam
Jan 13, 2021
465
My family loves me unconditionally.
 
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sourpink

sourpink

Student
Aug 27, 2020
148
moon phases, which probably sounds odd, but I find comfort in the cycles.
(edit - also plants.)
everything else- my aesthetic preoccupations, it all holds meaning but ultimately only serves to distract rather than to do as much as provoke positive/above neutral feelings.
 
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Arvinneedstodie

Arvinneedstodie

Existing is not living
Sep 17, 2018
197
I watch walking videos on youtube of cities and sights around the world. I listen to good music and let my imagination and emotions go wild. I read up many cool news and stuff going on in the world. I learn about history, culture, and a bit of art. Sometimes I go outside to walk around the city and just observe, maybe observe people to get a sense of their lives.

I try to immerse myself in something better, like really immerse myself, and when I'm successful it's so blissful. In those moments I forget all about myself.
 
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WhatDoesTheFoxSay?

WhatDoesTheFoxSay?

Hold your head high, and your middle finger higher
Dec 25, 2020
1,113
Video games, good food, Mom, the beach... and giving life and humanity the finger by ending it on my own terms.
 
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Adamsnolife

Adamsnolife

Specialist
May 5, 2020
394
Playing video games
Watching TV
Eating junk - just because you can't have it when dead.
 
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aneurysm

Mage
Jan 27, 2019
584
Horses (they seem so resilient and full of dignity despite centuries of mistreatment by humans).

The sea. But not just any sea, seas in West Africa (with kids playing around, the smell of fish, women laughing, the animals, old men reflecting and the chaos of it all, ).

Sanctioned suicide. The idea that there other people like me is comforting to the point of joy. It's very selfish, but I don't know what I would do without this forum. Also, thinking of suicide gives me hope.

The Sahara desert. Specially the fresh breeze at night.
 
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L951788

L951788

Student
Dec 28, 2020
102
There's basically nothing. I'm completely dysphoric and anhedonic. I live under constant threat of me being kicked out or going to prison if I want to do anything about what's been done to me. So my only option is to end myself. Good riddance to this stupid world. I am just an evolved primate and nothing more. There will be nothing after my death and I'm very glad about that. Fuck people who use religion as an excuse to do bad things, as well.
 
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Amumu

Amumu

Ctb - temporary solution for a permanent problem
Aug 29, 2020
2,624
Drugs
 
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BluesRunTheGame

BluesRunTheGame

Blackpilled
Dec 15, 2020
1,715
Running with music. At most I can only do it for an hour every other day so it's not really enough to keep me sane. Also drinking (but only till around midnight and then it goes to shit so really I should quit. One of the two things that brings me joy :aw:).
 
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Deformationalplagio

Born deformed
Dec 28, 2019
376
Knowing that we all die no matter what
 
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Makko

Makko

Iä!
Jan 17, 2021
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Horses (they seem so resilient and full of dignity despite centuries of mistreatment by humans).

The sea. But not just any sea, seas in West Africa (with kids playing around, the smell of fish, women laughing, the animals, old men reflecting and the chaos of it all, ).

Sanctioned suicide. The idea that there other people like me is comforting to the point of joy. It's very selfish, but I don't know what I would do without this forum. Also, thinking of suicide gives me hope.

The Sahara desert. Specially the fresh breeze at night.
Where you live sounds really comfy.
 
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fred farkle

fred farkle

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Dec 17, 2020
346
I love music. It energizes, uplifts, and soothes my soul
recommend "fall on me" by rem!! just rediscovered those good old boys.also "whatever" by oasis!
 
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Bigpink

Warlock
Oct 12, 2020
705
Music, NFL, podcasts, wine, being free more or less, reading, meditation
 
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WornOutLife

マット
Mar 22, 2020
7,164
Eating, sleeping, listening to a new song, gaming, learning japanese...
 
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Bigpink

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Oct 12, 2020
705
I also get comfort from contemplating non-being
 
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BluesRunTheGame

BluesRunTheGame

Blackpilled
Dec 15, 2020
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recommend "fall on me" by rem!! just rediscovered those good old boys.also "whatever" by oasis!
You heard this? A kind of joy in sadness...

 
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