What about you makes you feel like an outcast

[Jodes]

It can be real or imagined. I'll start with something rame about me:

On here I can't help editing each of my posts 1000 times. I don't know how that ffects people exactly, but it's probably really, really annoying. Really sorry!!

 

[Xerxes]

I suck at chat.

 

[Ben]

I push people away when they get too close and then I wonder why I'm alone

 

[Threads]

Being a moderator, tbh

 

[Ben]

Being a moderator, tbh

Hey man, I moderate some large communities. I know you can get shit on, and it can be a thankless job, but don't feel like an outcast. You're a new mod to me, and you are extremely active and clearly have a invested interest in this community.

You have a hard job, one that will undoubtedly upset a person here and there no matter what you do. Just know, most of us appreciate you and what you do. This has got to be one of the most difficult places to moderate out there, so thank you for choosing to take on the task.

 

[Xerxes]

Threads is the most active mod and a great one. I haven't had much interaction with the other mods or admins.

 

[Jodes]

Being a moderator, tbh

You're highly valued for doing the priceless for the rest of us: empathy with your leaderdhip to give fairness.

Sorry if I was a-hole to you the other day, wasn't you you were absolutely great. I also treated you like a professional customer assistant/manager so seemed cold!!! Just my style :( Really sorry if it was me

 

[Miss clefable]

Being trans

 

[ugly_loser2008]

I'm socially awkward, a total dumbass i mean i say that stupidest things and get people angry at me. thing is i don't even realize i said something stupid till its way too late. i get more people hatign on me cuz of my dumbass mouth. dosn't help im ass ugly either.

 

[Minudah]

I'm the worst lab rat. The experimenters and even other lab rats all know who I am, it's impossible to miss the worst lab rat and they hate me and do everything they can to hurt me. I wish they would be nice to me like they are to each other. No one has ever been nice to me because I was created to be tortured for their experiment.

 

[GreenLantern]

That I have no friends and everyone else around me does.

Everyone else around me likes, promotes, and does indirect and non verbal communication. I don't. I just like people to be straight up and talk to each other.

 

[Aesthler]

I'm sure it's all in my head, but I can't interact with people very well either in chat, in PMs or in real life.

 

[Kyrok]

Public displays of anger.

 

[Vegrau]

Of the things I know. I know when theyre lying. Saying things they cannot take responsibility for. Words that slip out in heat of moment. I cannot take any of them seriously.

 

[EndofMyRope]

Being a moderator, tbh

How so?

 

[Morbid Cam]

I often feel lonely even when others are around, knowing what I know about life while everyone around me lives in a delusion is another, I also have a really hard time feeling comfort anywhere even at "home".

 

[NoOneKnows]

brainwashed by my "family" from the moment i was born that I am unworthy and unlovable, they suceeded. I can not relate to a single person, and no one can relate to me. It hurts me so much. Feeling of discomfort and uneasiness when interacting with people, since life is all bout human relationships, itis not sustainable for living

 

[Susannah]

I tend to feel smarter (what ever that means) than people I meet. I'm afraid others find me arrogant. Might just be me overthinking, lol.

 

[Louise]

I'm socially anxious and only comfortable alone but when I see others interacting it makes me so sad for what I'm missing out on. If I wasn't forced to see this it might not bother me, idk.

 

[Jodes]

I'm socially anxious and only comfortable alone but when I see others interacting it makes me so sad for what I'm missing out on. If I wasn't forced to see this it might not bother me, idk.

Even seeing interaction causes anxiety,.I'm at a similarly extreme point than this, but I've found still bother me at times, so isolation from people, social media, even videos and music, (even my fav songs), opening the door, is all that helps

 

[silentinbetween]

Being a dumb bitch. Not a smart bitch- that might earn me some respect. Not a dumb nice person, which people love. A dumb bitch that can't help being a bitch and can't help not caring anymore because even when you think you have people who love and care about you they never really give a shit in the end.

 

[Norest4thewicked]

Nihilistic nature. My drinking. Having no filter on what comes out of my mouth. Tendency to push people away.

 

[weedoge]

Hey man, I moderate some large communities. I know you can get shit on, and it can be a thankless job, but don't feel like an outcast. You're a new mod to me, and you are extremely active and clearly have a invested interest in this community.

You have a hard job, one that will undoubtedly upset a person here and there no matter what you do. Just know, most of us appreciate you and what you do. This has got to be one of the most difficult places to moderate out there, so thank you for choosing to take on the task.

Can we have a policy to make bans visible to members please? It's not fair that a user was silenced and people can't even know he is gone. I'm not debating the reasons or anything, but ppl should know maybe?

 

[MsM3talGamer]

Being unable to form any relationships. I feel like an alien who landed here by accident.

 

[Throwawaysoul]

I don't have those prefect blindingly white chiclet teeth that almost everyone has. I never see a crooked tooth anywhere on social media or on TV. Mouths agape all over IG. Obviously I don't fit in today's American society .

 

[Tyuiop]

Being a boring person. I can rant and vent a lot on here, but all that is boring to any normal person. I can only keep a conversation going by asking boring questions.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Many of the usual things - physical/mental illness, no job, no friends, feeling like I'm very different on the inside. I'm super avoidant and my life in general has a weird backstory which makes me unfamiliar and unrelatable to many people. Living like an isolated man-child is just the cherry on top right now, I suppose.

Even on here, all my contact with others fizzles out because I'm not good with that, and not very likable. I often think people are making fun of me because I can be kind of a clown. I'm also not highbrow enough. It's tough because I want to like others but have major problems connecting.

 

[funnyvalentine]

Unable to go along with the falseness and the general BS one has to endure to be part of a group, a circle and society in general.
Yikes.

 

[TAW122]

I am lonely, have no friends except acquaintances, failed social life, a NEET, and many people IRL don't relate to me nor understand me. I've come to accept that I won't be (truly) understood (and IRL people who say they understand are clueless and ignorant), and I pretty much stopped talking or arguing with the people who don't get it. Fuck them, I don't have the time nor energy to deal with them and the bullshit.

Many of the usual things - physical/mental illness, no job, no friends, feeling like I'm very different on the inside. I'm super avoidant and my life in general has a weird backstory which makes me unfamiliar and unrelatable to many people. Living like an isolated man-child is just the cherry on top right now, I suppose.

Even on here, all my contact with others fizzles out because I'm not good with that, and not very likable. I often think people are making fun of me because I can be kind of a clown. I'm also not highbrow enough. It's tough because I want to like others but have major problems connecting.

My life is pretty similar to yours, and the only difference is that I don't take any medications nor see a therapist/mental health professional.

 

[Meeseeks]

Being so quiet and sticking to myself so much. It's lonely, even with the friends I have, the connection is minimal.