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esasami
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- Mar 3, 2021
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I was really awkward and embarrassing and socially obtrusive when I was younger and it pretty much still haunts me (I'm 23). I've gotten much, much better socially over the last few years by learning normal behavior through my peers at uni and I'm mostly fine now. But it feels criminal how undersocialized I was. It keeps me up at night. It's a fact beyond any doubt that I was absolutely horribly embarrassing through age 18 or so and I'm just crippled by it emotionally. It feels like a mark that will follow me around forever even though I think I'm more or less past most of the problems I had before. Whenever I remember how embarrassing I was I get extreme somatic pain in my chest and feel awful for hours after. I don't know how to reconcile with this. I'm obsessed with it. It makes me feel like I'm forsaken and it is easily the biggest factor in my suicide ideation.
Does anyone relate to this? It's a problem I've never encountered anyone else having but I also imagine others aren't eager to speak about it openly. Also, sorry if this is the wrong forum, I wasn't sure where to put this. I had posted it to the recovery forum at first but it seems to fit better here,
Does anyone relate to this? It's a problem I've never encountered anyone else having but I also imagine others aren't eager to speak about it openly. Also, sorry if this is the wrong forum, I wasn't sure where to put this. I had posted it to the recovery forum at first but it seems to fit better here,