Discussion Valentines Day 🙃

[LucifersIntrovert]

What are y'all's thoughts on Valentine's Day? Is anyone doing something? Going to ask someone or already have someone? What about the single people this year what are yall doing? Personally I've been single my 18 years of life and the only time I got close to a relationship I found out she was just using me even saying she "loved"me so I believed her we talked for months on end until she decided to have an orgy in the school bathroom . Ik it sounds like a insane story and it's hard to believe unless you were my friend 3 years ago going through that with me but yeah… ever since then just never desired a relationship or a valentine all this love bullshit hurts my head and it's just another thing to worry about at the end of the day. But for all of you longing for a relationship I wish you the best of luck on your journeys I know you can do it :)

 

[Tokugawa_Yoshinobu]

I won't be doing anything special today as I'm single and disinterested in relationships. I can't even form friendships. My social skills suck. Well I'll watch some films and eat some chocolate I guess.

 

[sserafim]

Nothing except being sad about the fact that my crush (the one guy I'm interested in, apart from him I'm aroace) has a girlfriend. Ugh, unrequited love…

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Roses suck
Violets stink
Fuck you with your flowers
I'm going for a drink

 

[Dliena]

Honestly nothing much relationships just kill the heart and crush the soul. But happy Vals day to you OP and others.

 

[hikikomorizombie]

i'm w you. valentine's day has never been significant to me. i didn't even realize it was tmrw, lol. i've never been in a relationship & it never bothered me more on V day than any other day.

 

[restless.dreams]

Spending another Valentine's Day alone just like every year (:

Well I'll watch some films and eat some chocolate I guess.

Same.

 

[chocosyrup]

What are y'all's thoughts on Valentine's Day? Is anyone doing something? Going to ask someone or already have someone? What about the single people this year what are yall doing? Personally I've been single my 18 years of life and the only time I got close to a relationship I found out she was just using me even saying she "loved"me so I believed her we talked for months on end until she decided to have an orgy in the school bathroom . Ik it sounds like a insane story and it's hard to believe unless you were my friend 3 years ago going through that with me but yeah… ever since then just never desired a relationship or a valentine all this love bullshit hurts my head and it's just another thing to worry about at the end of the day. But for all of you longing for a relationship I wish you the best of luck on your journeys I know you can do it :)

I have someone I'll be doing something with, will probably be getting drunk the in the evening. Currently 2:52 AM.

 

[Aim]

Sick and singel, and definitely not looking to mingle.

 

[sad_panda]

Valentine's day, nobody is happy, not even people in relationships. It's just to sell cards and chocolate and expensive dinner reservations.

 

[casual_existence]

I'm under the impression that if you love someone you would just show this to them every day and Valentine's day is just a day to show your love for consumerism.

 

[divinemistress36]

I plan on dinner, movie , and cuddles with my dog .

 

[naomewki]

Valentine's Day always just seemed like another day to me because ive always been single and too much of a shut in to form a relationship, but this year i have thought about it/learned about it more and just find it interesting seeing what others will do instead !! to me it's become a nice reminder that the world will continue to work as normal whether im gone or not. i think ill feel peaceful tomorrow at least for a little bit with that thought in mind. maybe ill listen to some love themed songs to experience something?

 

[Captive_Mind515]

Roses suck
Violets stink
Fuck you with your flowers
I'm going for a drink

Wait, aren't you from the land of tulips!? Isn't that like some kind of sacrilege to your tulip god or something?

 

[ijustwishtodie]

To me this day is just a normal day where I rot in my room all day waiting for the time to pass like I have been for the rest of the year

 

[Uhh]

DON'T get me started on valentine's day..... Wtf do we need a day to show the ppl we love that we love them. I'm done loving someone with everything I have just for it to be kicked to shit. I m Done I hate valentine's day... Yes coz I'm jealous of the ppl in love that feel loved. That's all I've ever wanted is to feel loved but I'm not, I'm an unlovable freak. Anyway.... Friday I'm planning Friday. I hope I don't go like a weak wetty bitch n bottle it. So hopefully my good bye thread will be here Friday. I have it planned. I'll be alone so no one can say I'm attention seeking I just want it all over. Anyway..... Happy valentine's Day bitches
DON'T get me started on valentine's day..... Wtf do we need a day to show the ppl we love that we love them. I'm done loving someone with everything I have just for it to be kicked to shit. I m Done I hate valentine's day... Yes coz I'm jealous of the ppl in love that feel loved. That's all I've ever wanted is to feel loved but I'm not, I'm an unlovable freak. Anyway.... Friday I'm planning Friday. I hope I don't go like a weak wetty bitch n bottle it. So hopefully my good bye thread will be here Friday. I have it planned. I'll be alone so no one can say I'm attention seeking I just want it all over. Anyway..... Happy valentine's Day bitches
DON'T get me started on valentine's day..... Wtf do we need a day to show the ppl we love that we love them. I'm done loving someone with everything I have just for it to be kicked to shit. I m Done I hate valentine's day... Yes coz I'm jealous of the ppl in love that feel loved. That's all I've ever wanted is to feel loved but I'm not, I'm an unlovable freak. Anyway.... Friday I'm planning Friday. I hope I don't go like a weak wetty bitch n bottle it. So hopefully my good bye thread will be here Friday. I have it planned. I'll be alone so no one can say I'm attention seeking I just want it all over. Anyway..... Happy valentine's Day bitches

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

The woman I have a crush on said she might be free for Valentines Day but she has to do some labs for her class first. We both actually have that day off so that's neat too. This was also a subtle confirmation that she probably doesn't have a boyfriend because more likely than not if she had one she should have plans with him also otherwise she would have just told me so there's that.

If she's not free on Valentines Day I guess that's not as big a deal as I thought. I think I will spend the day with myself. Not for self love though, I'm going to practice self hate by taking myself to see the new godawful Madame Web movie.

But yeah I usually hate this wretched holiday because it's ten days before my birthday and always reminds me of how alone I am and always will be. Hopefully this year might be a bit different though.

 

[to fall to winter]

I got broken up with a few days ago. Don't have any plans anymore.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Never liked it and I never will.

 

[NekiLik]

Valentine's Day sucks, just reminds me how single and lonely I am.

 

[the old man]

How you act, care, talk and behave with someone tells them you love them more than cards, flowers and chocolates ever can
How you act, care, talk and behave with someone tells them you love them more than cards, flowers and chocolates ever can .

 

[ReadyOrNot?]

Just a day like any other for me. I rarely feel alone. I feel let down all the time, but thankfully not lonely.
I do miss someone to share my thoughts with, to cuddle and being with someone though.

 

[onbekend]

Just another boring day. I don't really care much for relationships, I've had girls (and on one occasion a guy) flirt with me but I never really felt any better about it aside from the first time it happened. I feel as if relationships will only put stress on me.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

I feel as if relationships will only put stress on me.

100% agree with you on that.

 

[mortuarymary]

All dogs got cards ( we are a bit loon)
we sent each other the most sarcastic cards we could find. I brought him some beer and he got me bird feed and a bird table. I've found watching birds over the last few months fascinating.
we are off for a fry up then watch a few episodes of Reacher.

The woman I have a crush on said she might be free for Valentines Day but she has to do some labs for her class first. We both actually have that day off so that's neat too. This was also a subtle confirmation that she probably doesn't have a boyfriend because more likely than not she doesn't have one otherwise she would have just told me so there's that.

If she's not free on Valentines Day I guess that's not as big a deal as I thought. I think I will spend the day with myself. Not for self love though, I'm going to practice self hate by taking myself to see the new godawful Madame Web movie.

But yeah I usually hate this wretched holiday because it's ten days before my birthday and always reminds me of how alone I am and always will be. Hopefully this year might be a bit different though.

But it's progress!

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I want to die.

 

[DesperateOne]

I won't be doing anything special today as I'm single and disinterested in relationships. I can't even form friendships. My social skills suck. Well I'll watch some films and eat some chocolate I guess.

I relate to this heavily. Making friends is so god damn hard already and when you throw relationships into the mix I just crumble. After a long while I just accepted it and learned to live in isolation.

 

[Grav]

I like valentine's day, usually. Ya I know hallmark holiday, show love all year, blah, blah. I like giving gifts and valentines day is always for goof ones like the weirdo cards for adults and stupid gifts like chia pets. My daughter always got something, usually a stuffed animal and candy, she still does. Wife is low-key so flowers and candy, maybe dinner but our schedules are wack and after 25 years of marriage sometimes you're just tired of work and bs and want to chill. I'm pretty grumbly normally and I think she likes that I'm not trying to be that way on purpose. I always got my mom stuff, usually a wise ass card and flowers but I'd sneak in some chocolates that she would deny wanting but would nibble with her tea. My childhood was like living with wolves, constantly barking and biting each other and we gave her a ton of crap she didn't deserve. As I got older it was more fun b/c it seemed so corny but hey it's my mom. I've had years where a break up just happened where she cheated and was like "sucks for you" so I've been there contemplating a .38 dinner.

As a kid in grade school we did the whole "everyone gets a card" and would make mailboxes and find cards for boys and girls. I doubt anyone thought they were meeting their 3rd grade true love but I can recall the kid who was "different" and probably had a shittier home life and the cards were a good ice breaker to at least have a new school friend, I had a few of those in my circle of school chums. In the Marines we got cards for peoiple just to mess with people and it was a good laugh for the day. Loud mouth jarheads getting candy in heart boxes or those "cho-cho-choose you" valentine cards with heart candies. It got a laugh from top and even the XO had a chuckle. Stupid but fun.

I still plan to ctb and maybe this year, so far 2024 is shitty, but I don't want other people to be miserable because of me so I'm one of those "life of the party" guys who ends it. I know it sucks for a lot of people.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

I never cared about "Valentine's Day". It's just another day like all other days.

 

[FuneralCry]

I thought this was a suicide forum, not a dating site. I just want to permanently cease existing which is why I'm on here, I'd never want to be in a relationship and the thought of such is so repulsive, valentines day is a scam anyway.