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- Feb 14, 2023
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So, my boyfriend is ignoring me now, after i went to him crying because my parents were fighting and I'm caught in the middle again
For context, my parents are divorced, I don't live with either of them but they still like to drag me into their fights.
It sucks, my dad is trying to sue my mom and it sucks that i need to pick a side.
I don't love my mother, i hate her. She's done so much to hurt me and my dad. And she has definitely used me for money. But I can't help but get emotional whenever she's mentioned ect ect.
Because shes still my mom and i have some good memories with her.
Anyway, i was staying over at my dads for the night last weekend, i like to do so ever so often so he doesn't feel lonely, i don't have a bad relationship with me dad, he has always been super supportive with things and has helped me financially when i needed it.
I was just casually going to the washroom and stuff and I overheard him on the phone with his lawyer. I was absolutely heartbroken, i hate it when my family fights.
(My dad tends to vent by yelling at me every time something happens involving my mother)
I overall just hate drama and conflict, it's overwhelming for me.
After i was done in the bathroom I immediately went to my room and started crying, I wanted to SH so bad because i felt so useless. I called my boyfriend, thinking he could help me. He did calm me down. We called for maybe about 35 minutes, after i was done crying and ranting on the phone i was tired and went to sleep. When we got were saying our goodbye and i love you's like we always do he didn't say it back and just left the call. So i went to sleep, Not really thinking anything of it.
Ever since he hasn't texted me. He only leaves me on seen and its been a week.
I don't know what i did wrong, he did make a post saying he felt "unimportant" because he couldn't help me more or wtv, i told him that he did in fact help me and that he isn't unimportant. But he only dry texted me then started to ignore me.
I'm so upset.
For context, my parents are divorced, I don't live with either of them but they still like to drag me into their fights.
It sucks, my dad is trying to sue my mom and it sucks that i need to pick a side.
I don't love my mother, i hate her. She's done so much to hurt me and my dad. And she has definitely used me for money. But I can't help but get emotional whenever she's mentioned ect ect.
Because shes still my mom and i have some good memories with her.
Anyway, i was staying over at my dads for the night last weekend, i like to do so ever so often so he doesn't feel lonely, i don't have a bad relationship with me dad, he has always been super supportive with things and has helped me financially when i needed it.
I was just casually going to the washroom and stuff and I overheard him on the phone with his lawyer. I was absolutely heartbroken, i hate it when my family fights.
(My dad tends to vent by yelling at me every time something happens involving my mother)
I overall just hate drama and conflict, it's overwhelming for me.
After i was done in the bathroom I immediately went to my room and started crying, I wanted to SH so bad because i felt so useless. I called my boyfriend, thinking he could help me. He did calm me down. We called for maybe about 35 minutes, after i was done crying and ranting on the phone i was tired and went to sleep. When we got were saying our goodbye and i love you's like we always do he didn't say it back and just left the call. So i went to sleep, Not really thinking anything of it.
Ever since he hasn't texted me. He only leaves me on seen and its been a week.
I don't know what i did wrong, he did make a post saying he felt "unimportant" because he couldn't help me more or wtv, i told him that he did in fact help me and that he isn't unimportant. But he only dry texted me then started to ignore me.
I'm so upset.