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Ultracheese

Ultracheese

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Dec 1, 2022
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Does anyone else here have trauma due to bad experiences with psychologists/psychiatrists/mental health professionals? I am constantly being pressured to go to therapy, but I'm terrified of psychs because I was sexually abused by one when I was a kid for a little over three years. I simply don't trust people in that field at all.
 
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MellowAvenue

MellowAvenue

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Nov 5, 2020
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There's good ones out there, I was fortunate enough to have a good one when I was stuck in a medical wing for awhile, but there's undeniably a lot of bad ones too.

I think some of it just stems from how conveyer belt medical care is. Doctors tend to look for a one size fits all treatment for any problem they run into for physical ailments, maybe adjusting slightly for a patient's age or prior medical history.

The human psyche is just too complex to place on a conveyer belt. Usually there's a multitude of underlying problems causing the patient distress and just solving one of those things won't magically fix everyone. One hour therapy sessions and meds won't fix everyone. In an "ideal" world everyone would get a personalized, one on one treatment but there's only so many mental health doctors and a fairly high demand for them so the conveyer belt turns on.

I hope the person who abused you was found out and was forced out of the field… But I know scum like him get away with their sins all too often. I'm sorry you went through that and I don't think anyone here would blame you for never seeking professional help again. I've seen a lot of stories here and elsewhere that show how destructive one bad therapist can be to one's already fragile health and their ability to ever trust in the system again.
 
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Ultracheese

Ultracheese

Arcanist
Dec 1, 2022
489
I'm glad that you were able to have a positive experience. I definitely don't think all people in the field are bad, I suppose it's just my trust issues.

I really liked the conveyer belt comparison you used. I think it's an apt description. I think that mental health care needs to be adaptable to fit the person. A one size fits all system is more "efficient" though and probably more profitable too.

Thankfully, I believe I was the last of the kids he abused. But he never got caught. I was about 11/12 when I stopped seeing him and I never found out why until a few years later, when my mom (who knew what was going on and did nothing about it) told me that he got diagnosed with Alzheimer's and now lives in some cushy assisted living facility. Life is weird like that. Thank you for your kind words though. They truly mean a lot to me.
 
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Viranamari

Viranamari

A Future Corpse
Feb 22, 2023
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I cannot say all of them are bad. But your experience is terrifying I would have done a lot worse than you. I hope things are better now.
 
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