to the virgin men here

[notFeras]

have u ever thought of losing ur virginity before ctb? Im virgin and i feel like i have to do something about it before i catch the bus, as a virgin i never thought about all of this untill now, your thoughts on this?

 

[Dingusguy]

Never thought much about it honestly. I used to chase love and try my best to get a relationship but I am done with that now. And if I ever felt the need to lose it before I CTB I would probably end up hiring a prostitute or something along those lines. But I have plenty of time before I CTB unfortunately as I am sort of stuck here for the time being due to circumstances.
But if it is because you feel like it is an "Experience" you'd like to try before passing then I get what you mean. So if it is something you want to experience before you go I say you should go after it.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Honestly no because what if losing virginity causes me to actually see all the good things in life and start planning to recover.

I go back and forth on this though. Ask me tomorrow and I might sing a different tune about how I'll have only less than a month until I turn 30 and I really really really don't want to be a 30 year old virgin. I heard Wizard powers had their age requirement raised up to 50 and ain't no way am I waiting that long to stay a virgin.

It's not like I can though. My life has such shitty luck that I'm almost completely certain that even if I tried to hire an escort or something then I'd likely end up scammed, with some kind of STD, or arrested from a sting operation since prostitution is illegal. Maybe all three at once.

 

[EyeWish...]

I'm never gonna lose my virginity and I'm quite ok with that. It's just too much damn effort for such little reward. I really don't think sex would fulfill much for me unless maybe if I really love the girl and I'm never falling in love. Imo you shouldn't really think about it much. Sex is just another experience to be forgotten once you die, so why bother?

 

[UserHussein]

I had sex with a Tinder hookup, which was how I lost my virginity. Sex is grossly overrated.

 

[Silo2938]

Try once, hire prostitute or something, and then you know sex is just like you masturbate or eat food. Me myself prefer masturbate, its such a nuisance to maintain relationship

 

[Nofuture1234]

If I could lose my virginity with an actual partner I wouldn't want to CTB at all. I'd just feel worse paying for something most other people get for free. Maybe back when I was younger it could've helped my confidence a little but I'm still ugly, autistic and short so I don't think there's any universe where I had any hope besides one where I was born and died before dating apps and social media permanently changed gender relations and society

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Man all these testimonies on how sex alone isn't worth it are really upsetting to hear… I'm about to start calling myself an intimacel now. It mean an incel that also wants the emotional and physical intimacy that you likely can't always get just from hiring someone to pretend to like you and yet so many normal people get to experience it on a daily basis: that pure unconditional love that many people are denied for whatever reason.

 

[EyeWish...]

Man all these testimonies on how sex alone isn't worth it are really upsetting to hear… I'm about to start calling myself an intimacel now. It mean an incel that also wants the emotional and physical intimacy that you likely can't always get just from hiring someone to pretend to like you and yet so many normal people get to experience it on a daily basis: that pure unconditional love that many people are denied for whatever reason.

Aw man, didn't mean to upset you. I like the term intimacel tho. It's fun to say and it made me chuckle

 

[ijustwishtodie]

No, I don't really care whether I get sex or not as I'll still wish to die regardless of whether I have sex or not. Life itself is undesirable to me and it will continue to be that way

 

[Leavesfromthevine]

I could probably do it if I actually cared. I have a few people I could talk to and experience something sexual or intimate with but I don't care to.
There's always something lacking for me usually on the emotional side. Sexual stuff is just a chore without any emotions for me personally.
As much as I want to experience something like that I'm just too far gone mentally and if I'm being honest I'm a little too slow for most people to find me attractive. Physically I'm enough for some just lacking mentally/personality.

I have had the chance to experience some of the intimate stuff and I did truly enjoy it. Having someone who actually desired me and wanted me around was surreal. Never got fully sexual but that's okay, it just wasn't meant to be. I wish her all the best and hope she can experience it again with someone better than me.

 

[divinemistress36]

Sex is overrated I don't get humans obsession with it

 

[TheSpookyNameGuy]

Am i the only one who is sick of hearing about sex?

Like okay i get it, love and nurturing and release ect, people make it seem like it's the holy grail or something.

Like I'm a complete virgin but fuck is it boring, i want more from this world and i know it's completely impossible to have what i want.

I guess i want a spiritual paradise of closeness, peace and none of this insanity, people then tell me ah just have a shag mate, ugh soo fucking boring. My dream is impossible so lets just get the fuck outta here.

It's all good though

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I have anhedonia so it wouldn't make a difference for me in any case, except I would feel special for one time. I can't feel anything except pain and suffering. It's just the way it is for some people. I wish the world was kinder to people in general.

 

[HouseofMortok]

Sex is overrated I don't get humans obsession with it

Monkey brained idiots.

 

[theRetroHawk]

have u ever thought of losing ur virginity before ctb? Im virgin and i feel like i have to do something about it before i catch the bus, as a virgin i never thought about all of this untill now, your thoughts on this?

I mean if the goal is to try to find a reason to live then go for it, in my opinion it's just another risk that you accidentally make more connections that might make you unable to escape your pain if that's what you are living with

 

[throneofdispair03]

Not at all. If you think about it, it's really just brain chemicals giving you pleasure for procreating for offspring and I don't wanna bring life into this world.

 

[mark404]

Lol after I masturbate to a certain point, I lose the desire to have sex. I also don't know if I would be able to trust anyone to do it with.