Beyond_Repair
Disheartened Ghost
- Oct 27, 2023
- 293
This may be an unpopular opinion, but a personal one that I have arrived at after years of personal experience and time working in the mental health field
There is a natural inclination to instill hope in survivors of childhood adverse experiences, and no doubt there are people do come out the other side and can appear to live fulfilling and productive lives. (What other choice do practitioners/social workers/therapists have if their job is to help and instill hope?) Despite this, I have come to the conclusion that adverse childhood experiences have such a profound impact in the formation of the individual's sense of self and one's perception of the world and their relationship to it, that any possible improvements are negligible (perhaps even self-delusion as a coping mechanism), and at the risk of coming across as nihilistic I genuinely believe that the long-term psychological damage and sense of self has been solidified in such a way that it's very unlikely it can be changed, and attempts to do so are ultimately futile (perhaps not regarded as such thanks to the placebo effect and human's natural inclination to survive).
Sorry if this is coming across as gibberish, I am fortunate to be in a state of disinhibition at the moment thanks to xanax. I feel that this forum is the only place I can express these feelings that I have been mulling over for longer than I care to admit
I'd love to hear any counter arguments or thoughts on this topic. Has anyone ever felt similarly?
There is a natural inclination to instill hope in survivors of childhood adverse experiences, and no doubt there are people do come out the other side and can appear to live fulfilling and productive lives. (What other choice do practitioners/social workers/therapists have if their job is to help and instill hope?) Despite this, I have come to the conclusion that adverse childhood experiences have such a profound impact in the formation of the individual's sense of self and one's perception of the world and their relationship to it, that any possible improvements are negligible (perhaps even self-delusion as a coping mechanism), and at the risk of coming across as nihilistic I genuinely believe that the long-term psychological damage and sense of self has been solidified in such a way that it's very unlikely it can be changed, and attempts to do so are ultimately futile (perhaps not regarded as such thanks to the placebo effect and human's natural inclination to survive).
Sorry if this is coming across as gibberish, I am fortunate to be in a state of disinhibition at the moment thanks to xanax. I feel that this forum is the only place I can express these feelings that I have been mulling over for longer than I care to admit
I'd love to hear any counter arguments or thoughts on this topic. Has anyone ever felt similarly?