Venting There are people who get yelled at unjustifiably. But when I get yelled at it's because I did something stupid

[ultrasharpy123456]

You can when you've met someone who is incredibly mean and hostile to you for no reason. They don't deserve to yell at you and attack you then. I'm a little different, however. When I get yelled at it's usuall because I did something incredibly stupid or was an asshole and was a verbally abusive narcissist.

You know what's funny? I spent my life trying to find out who was the narcissist in my life and who I needed to cut out of my life... when the answer was simple. I am the narcissist.

 

[Inthewind]

Being self aware, helps you turn around the habit, I think I use to be a bully, scared my own friends in elementry school. We were too young to actually understand that just knew we hung out in a secluded and unmonitered way and reflecting on that we were all toxic to eachother and werent direct about how we felt about things. Its all about reflection and discovering how to be better