As someone who's a huge attention whore, i'll give my perspective of this whole thing.
Personally, if i'm pushed to do it, for whatever reason (i don't want to get in too much detail about my life's circumstances) i kind of want my first attempt to fail.
Like, i can see myself deliberately sabotaging my first attempt, increasing the changes of me being saved and stuff.
If i mess up and die, wonderful, saves me a lot of trouble, if i don't, that's also wonderful, it's the plan to be honest.
I mean, i know it's terrible, but hear me out, i just can't stand the thought of people thinking i'm just an attention whore (ironic, i know) and that i'm not actually depressed in the first place.
I don't want to hear about how i'm just lazy, that i'm not trying, that i'm selfish, that i just want attention or that i'm just looking for an excuse.
I'm afraid of judgement, i can't stand it, i'm the kind of person that needs everyone to love him, i know it''s kind of narcisistic, but that's how i've always been tbh, and in my mind, if i have an attempt behind me, that no one knows was kind of sabotaged in the first place, maybe people will go easier on me.
Like, when i drop out of college, and put my family in lots of debt and become a failure in life cuz i don't know what to do with my life anymore, for example, i don't want people to talk shit about me, blame me, that kind of thing, i can't take it.
If i have a suicide attempt behind me however, it goes from "Fuck him" to "Poor him", and between the two, i prefer the latter.
I'm not gonna pretend that it isn't manipulative, it is, but those are just my honest thoughts, my plan.
If this cry for help succeeds somehow and life gets better, that's great.
If it backfires, or changes nothing at all, then i'll try a more certain, sabotage free approach.
I almost want my first attempt to fail as a way of giving life a chance, and if it doesn't work, then that's fine, i gave it a shot, but it didn't work, so i'll leave.
I don't know if i'm making any sense here, but it's just what is going through my head.