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needthebus
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- Apr 29, 2024
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This could be triggering for some
I fell in love with someone and when I found out he was in another relationship, I told the other person.
We stopped talking after, but then he invited me out to a party, we did drugs, and he viciously sexually assaulted me, I still have injuries. I didn't report it right away because I was in denial and in love with him. I still sometimes have pain down there. I wish I were dead. I wish he killed me.
I haven't really fallen in love since then, haven't been in a real relationship since that happened, I've had multiple suicide attempts since then. I think the next suicide attempt will succeed. Third time's the charm, right? No one believes me and I am a joke to people.
I won't see anyone in the mental health industry after involuntary hospitalization. I have flashbacks from the night I was attacked and it's never been treated or diagnosed, since I felt my hospitalization was so coercive, involved so much religious proselytizing of me and ill-treatment of me, and felt like imprisonment so much that I regularly lied to my captors as much as possible, even about trivial things, because I hated them all.
I still think about when I went on dates with this person and when we first met, because there's been no one else since then because I am marred. I still think about us being together. These are passing fleeting thoughts, I hate this person for what was done to me and don't actually want to be with someone so mean. It's just that there's been no one else since then, my body and mind are so damaged after what he did that I don't want to have sex anymore with anyone.
I am just so fucking sad. And I have to work all the damn time. Disability isn't enough for me to live on easily. If disability were enough and mental health professionals were nicer, I would probably choose life, even with all my problems, because there's still stuff I'd like to do. But I can't live if I don't work, and I am so unhappy, and I don't want help from a shitty industry of assholes who will deem me non-compliant if I don't like their rules or lock me up without my consent. I've had my consent taken away enough and don't need more people doing that, so no thanks mental health industry, I'll deal with life alone, or death alone.
When I was involuntarily hospitalized, they treated me so badly and held me so long and if I told them the truth "you are treating me so badly and keeping me so long you are guaranteeing I eventually commit suicide" they would have just kept me longer. I had to pretend to be grateful for how they treated me and happy to have been held there so I could leave after it became clear they kept people longer who lacked "gratitude." I begged to leave and they still held me there so long. I hate them all so much. I hate my captors and in a fair world they would endure extreme suffering. It was so degrading and humiliating.
I hate that I on rare occasion I think about being with him. I just hadn't been in love with many people prior to meeting him. I don't have anyone else I've fallen in love with since then like that to think about like that, and I am thinking about this non-existent person, this nice version of him that never existed and wasn't so mean to me, because I have no one else to envision love with because I don't date at all. It's so fucking pathetic and stupid and everyone is so mean on top of it, these little mean things here and there all the damn time, I just can't function anymore.
With Social Security income, I would get less than 1000 a year. I have debts and some of that income could be taken. I don't have a car. Inflation has made everything so expensive. I also don't have a cheap place to live right now. I don't want to live in a home for mentally ill people with people who are religious and saying prejudiced things about LGBT people because they believe in jebus and unicorns and the bible or whatever. I just want to die. The cheapest places out there are 600 and they are mostly in rural homophobic areas. I don't want to struggle for money the rest of my life and then if I work end up getting kicked off.
I can't even go to anything like a sobriety support group without hearing about "higher power" and yes, you assholes, that is religion and I will not pretend it isn't, and yes, even an atheist higher power meeting is religion and bullshit and I'm not going to lie to myself and pretend there's an invisible higher power that permeates the universe, i'm not going to lie to myself to hope to feel better nor could i, I have enough bullshit in my life without stealth indoctrination and the slippery slope of an illogical brain saying idiotic pleasantries like "there's truth in all religions" when it's the opposite, they are all lies. There's just nothing, all the free support groups are filled with religion and their mendacious tentacles seem to grow like a vine of lies and rot into everything.
I was on Social Security disability before and then started working and the second I started I started working the government demanded so much money. "Oh we really encourage you to work!" and then when I did "You owe us this and that and give us money!" I work so much and am behind on bills and can barely afford to eat. I am stressed at work because bills are unpaid. Dealing with government agencies is a fucking nightmare, long hold times and no empathy at all. I can't deal with it, I already begged them to stop being so aggressive with collecting from me and these assholes do not give a fuck, everyone is just constantly mean to me, no one cares, no one cares I was sexually violated and my life ruined and everyone just wants to pile on the meanness, including the government and the mental health industry, one of which wants me to be a perpetual slave the other which wants me doped up so I twitch and an miserable and will write down I've said "I'm improving" even if I never fucking say that and instead say the meds make me feel sick.
I don't have any friends and don't like my parents who were physically abusive or my unsupportive family who didn't care when my parents were physically abusive and weren't there when I was more vulnerable. This forum is the most real connection I have in my life to anything authentic.
I really hope by next year I am dead. I am terrified of the mental health industry and try to be prepared to kill myself quickly if anyone should try to force me into "treatment." I am done with being a joke, being exploited by a bunch of avaricious charlatans, am done with having a pity party. This world and everyone in it wants me dead so badly, they'll get it probably within a year or two if not sooner. This world is fucking evil with spikes on the ground so homeless can't sleep, rules people can't even sleep in a fucking car, fuck these assholes, everyone always has some bullshit justification for being shitty, just the world is so full of shitty people and I can't fucking take it.
I fell in love with someone and when I found out he was in another relationship, I told the other person.
We stopped talking after, but then he invited me out to a party, we did drugs, and he viciously sexually assaulted me, I still have injuries. I didn't report it right away because I was in denial and in love with him. I still sometimes have pain down there. I wish I were dead. I wish he killed me.
I haven't really fallen in love since then, haven't been in a real relationship since that happened, I've had multiple suicide attempts since then. I think the next suicide attempt will succeed. Third time's the charm, right? No one believes me and I am a joke to people.
I won't see anyone in the mental health industry after involuntary hospitalization. I have flashbacks from the night I was attacked and it's never been treated or diagnosed, since I felt my hospitalization was so coercive, involved so much religious proselytizing of me and ill-treatment of me, and felt like imprisonment so much that I regularly lied to my captors as much as possible, even about trivial things, because I hated them all.
I still think about when I went on dates with this person and when we first met, because there's been no one else since then because I am marred. I still think about us being together. These are passing fleeting thoughts, I hate this person for what was done to me and don't actually want to be with someone so mean. It's just that there's been no one else since then, my body and mind are so damaged after what he did that I don't want to have sex anymore with anyone.
I am just so fucking sad. And I have to work all the damn time. Disability isn't enough for me to live on easily. If disability were enough and mental health professionals were nicer, I would probably choose life, even with all my problems, because there's still stuff I'd like to do. But I can't live if I don't work, and I am so unhappy, and I don't want help from a shitty industry of assholes who will deem me non-compliant if I don't like their rules or lock me up without my consent. I've had my consent taken away enough and don't need more people doing that, so no thanks mental health industry, I'll deal with life alone, or death alone.
When I was involuntarily hospitalized, they treated me so badly and held me so long and if I told them the truth "you are treating me so badly and keeping me so long you are guaranteeing I eventually commit suicide" they would have just kept me longer. I had to pretend to be grateful for how they treated me and happy to have been held there so I could leave after it became clear they kept people longer who lacked "gratitude." I begged to leave and they still held me there so long. I hate them all so much. I hate my captors and in a fair world they would endure extreme suffering. It was so degrading and humiliating.
I hate that I on rare occasion I think about being with him. I just hadn't been in love with many people prior to meeting him. I don't have anyone else I've fallen in love with since then like that to think about like that, and I am thinking about this non-existent person, this nice version of him that never existed and wasn't so mean to me, because I have no one else to envision love with because I don't date at all. It's so fucking pathetic and stupid and everyone is so mean on top of it, these little mean things here and there all the damn time, I just can't function anymore.
With Social Security income, I would get less than 1000 a year. I have debts and some of that income could be taken. I don't have a car. Inflation has made everything so expensive. I also don't have a cheap place to live right now. I don't want to live in a home for mentally ill people with people who are religious and saying prejudiced things about LGBT people because they believe in jebus and unicorns and the bible or whatever. I just want to die. The cheapest places out there are 600 and they are mostly in rural homophobic areas. I don't want to struggle for money the rest of my life and then if I work end up getting kicked off.
I can't even go to anything like a sobriety support group without hearing about "higher power" and yes, you assholes, that is religion and I will not pretend it isn't, and yes, even an atheist higher power meeting is religion and bullshit and I'm not going to lie to myself and pretend there's an invisible higher power that permeates the universe, i'm not going to lie to myself to hope to feel better nor could i, I have enough bullshit in my life without stealth indoctrination and the slippery slope of an illogical brain saying idiotic pleasantries like "there's truth in all religions" when it's the opposite, they are all lies. There's just nothing, all the free support groups are filled with religion and their mendacious tentacles seem to grow like a vine of lies and rot into everything.
I was on Social Security disability before and then started working and the second I started I started working the government demanded so much money. "Oh we really encourage you to work!" and then when I did "You owe us this and that and give us money!" I work so much and am behind on bills and can barely afford to eat. I am stressed at work because bills are unpaid. Dealing with government agencies is a fucking nightmare, long hold times and no empathy at all. I can't deal with it, I already begged them to stop being so aggressive with collecting from me and these assholes do not give a fuck, everyone is just constantly mean to me, no one cares, no one cares I was sexually violated and my life ruined and everyone just wants to pile on the meanness, including the government and the mental health industry, one of which wants me to be a perpetual slave the other which wants me doped up so I twitch and an miserable and will write down I've said "I'm improving" even if I never fucking say that and instead say the meds make me feel sick.
I don't have any friends and don't like my parents who were physically abusive or my unsupportive family who didn't care when my parents were physically abusive and weren't there when I was more vulnerable. This forum is the most real connection I have in my life to anything authentic.
I really hope by next year I am dead. I am terrified of the mental health industry and try to be prepared to kill myself quickly if anyone should try to force me into "treatment." I am done with being a joke, being exploited by a bunch of avaricious charlatans, am done with having a pity party. This world and everyone in it wants me dead so badly, they'll get it probably within a year or two if not sooner. This world is fucking evil with spikes on the ground so homeless can't sleep, rules people can't even sleep in a fucking car, fuck these assholes, everyone always has some bullshit justification for being shitty, just the world is so full of shitty people and I can't fucking take it.
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