Telling people to "just go to therapy" isnt going to solve anything.

[darkcirclesunder]

Its just going to make people more pissed off. Its like telling a homeless person "stop drinking and smoking crack, and enter therapy you fucking bum", not realizing that you need an i.d, address, just to be able to get a job, not to mention being able to keep a roof over your head.

The people who are excluded in our society are usually excluded and neglected because of two issues, wealth and looks. People who are lonely, have no friends, no family, are truly being excluded because of their social class and looks 99% of the time. Normal shitstains of humanity, aka middle upperclass home owners, need to get this through their subhuman, thick peanut fucking brains you subhuman chimp motherfuckers. Youre the equivalent of a nazi camp member telling a jew to get his shit together before shipping him into the trains to go to the camps.

 

[Life_and_Death]

some people (like myself) just cant go to therapy. if i got to therapy and start talking about past problems (which is where my current problems stem from) then the government could get involved and make my brothers lives difficult. for them i dropped out of therapy and cant go for 10yrs...

 

[makethepainstop]

Its just going to make people more pissed off. Its like telling a homeless person "stop drinking and smoking crack, and enter therapy you fucking bum", not realizing that you need an i.d, address, just to be able to get a job, not to mention being able to keep a roof over your head.

The people who are excluded in our society are usually excluded and neglected because of two issues, wealth and looks. People who are lonely, have no friends, no family, are truly being excluded because of their social class and looks 99% of the time. Normal shitstains of humanity, aka middle upperclass home owners, need to get this through their subhuman, thick peanut fucking brains you subhuman chimp motherfuckers. Youre the equivalent of a nazi camp member telling a jew to get his shit together before shipping him into the trains to go to the camps.

Bro you have to understand, those people are not being mean, they are bring IGNORANT. Those idiots think therapy will fix anything! They cannot and do not know what or how we feel and hurt. So you hear those choirs of those idiot's, saying"Well just go to therapy!" Or another favorite song of the idiot's choir is,"You just need therapy." Don't let this tards make you angry. They are not worth your energy!

 

[FuneralCry]

Therapy doesn't take away any of the real suffering that exists or solve any problems. I think that for someone to say 'just go to therapy', they must be really ignorant of the cruel reality of this existence. It's so invalidating when people think that therapy can fix all problems, in reality wanting suicide can be a rational response to seeing life for what it really is. Some people are just so annoying.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

I think for certain people therapy can be helpful, but it's not an across the board cure all. Not even close.

 

[CTB Dream]

People therapy think ok truth not many peope many problem how many solve not many , some therapy not help little help increase problem many possible, also risky pur ward lock other think subhuman all fake fell not real talk just Tru throw other because different. World only luck it zlso lucky therapy , most not work worse science not advance problem mzny not believe human

 

[DeadButDreaming]

I have had profound insights in therapy before, but they were rare.

If I had to guess I'd say 1 in 7 therapists are helpful. But depression, bipolar, schizophrenia, etc. are medical emergencies. Therapy isn't nearly enough.

 

[ever so lonely]

therapy is profoundly useless in my experience, like putting a sticking plaster on a gaping wound, i hate the fact trained professionals always spout the same shite too, one size fits all approach, system is abysmal, here in the uk they keep cutting funding too so the most vulnerable dont get the help required as/when they need it, typical, i stopped reaching out to them after my last suicide attempt and hospitalisation, there beyond shit, and dont even get me started on the crisis lines such as samaritans and breathing space, holy feck

 

[theboy]

true

 

[StolenLife]

That's a code for "I don't give a shit about you, vent your negativity out to someone else." Although it does help some, but unfortunately a lot of therapists are disinterested and usually have no idea what they are doing.

 

[JustBill104]

wow I just had a conversation with someone about this, My life is upside down, no Family anymore and anyone I had ever considered a friend has played me and just used me for the skills I have, (Which has been noted as a Handyman) but after they get what they want I'm put out in the pasture until they need my skills again, I'm currently almost 60 and divorced , have no one to talk to, and every once in a while I will try to open up to someone, Put all they ever say is go get therapy, or go see a doctor, But they don't understand , I always thought I just had white coat syndrome, But found out 11 years ago It's anxiety and have had it since a very young age, but never got treatment for it, so I ended up for the first time in a hospital for a spider bite and they keep be for 8 days due to my heart beating so fast, they told me what I had and that there's nothing they can do because of my age, I think about nothing but ending my life, the only thing keeping me from doing it is the not wanting anyone to ever find me until I'm nothing but bones, I also hate my body which might sound weird but it has kept me from even trying to be in a relationship with anyone, which is also a reason I have never been able to go see a doctor, just the thought of someone looking at me makes me want to puke, Sorry new here and just super depressed can't seem to stop looking at the pain killers and sleep aids I have been collecting .

 

[freedompass]

wow I just had a conversation with someone about this, My life is upside down, no Family anymore and anyone I had ever considered a friend has played me and just used me for the skills I have, (Which has been noted as a Handyman) but after they get what they want I'm put out in the pasture until they need my skills again, I'm currently almost 60 and divorced , have no one to talk to, and every once in a while I will try to open up to someone, Put all they ever say is go get therapy, or go see a doctor, But they don't understand , I always thought I just had white coat syndrome, But found out 11 years ago It's anxiety and have had it since a very young age, but never got treatment for it, so I ended up for the first time in a hospital for a spider bite and they keep be for 8 days due to my heart beating so fast, they told me what I had and that there's nothing they can do because of my age, I think about nothing but ending my life, the only thing keeping me from doing it is the not wanting anyone to ever find me until I'm nothing but bones, I also hate my body which might sound weird but it has kept me from even trying to be in a relationship with anyone, which is also a reason I have never been able to go see a doctor, just the thought of someone looking at me makes me want to puke, Sorry new here and just super depressed can't seem to stop looking at the pain killers and sleep aids I have been collecting .

I wouldn't bother collecting pills personally. They are known not to have a good rate of success. Be sure to research carefully what will work at least. There's plenty resources on this site. I'm puzzled by them keeping you in hospital for 8 days because of your high heart rate. Did they diagnose you with anxiety? That is unlikely to kill you tho it must be uncomfortable and distressing. Nothing they can do because of your age? You can ask a doctor for help with the anxiety at any age, it is immaterial how old you are. I'm sorry you feel so alone, it is a common problem on this site. Hopefully it may be comforting to know you are not the only one.

 

[chloramine]

I think it really highlights how little mental health help actually exists. Some people say it as a way to be dismissive. Others want to help or want things to be better for you and therapy is the solution society pushes. It helps some people and that's great, but it's not a one size fits all despite it being treated that way. That's ignoring how hard it can be for many people to even get into therapy and find a good therapist. There just. Aren't really other resources in the world.

 

[akirat9]

need disaiblity for disability but cant get no 'therapy' no work years counting

 

[JustBill104]

I wouldn't bother collecting pills personally. They are known not to have a good rate of success. Be sure to research carefully what will work at least. There's plenty resources on this site. I'm puzzled by them keeping you in hospital for 8 days because of your high heart rate. Did they diagnose you with anxiety? That is unlikely to kill you tho it must be uncomfortable and distressing. Nothing they can do because of your age? You can ask a doctor for help with the anxiety at any age, it is immaterial how old you are. I'm sorry you feel so alone, it is a common problem on this site. Hopefully it may be comforting to know you are not the only one.

I don't know much about medications, But read about the OD cases all the time in the news, I have frequent headaches which I tend to take Ibuprofen for usually 6 200 mg tabs, But I do have several dozen other types of pain pills, around 50 Norco, 60 acetaminophen/Cod #3, 13 oxycodone , and about 40 saraque, sleeping pills, figure if I crush them all up into a powder, then drink with a Pepsi for the caffeine kick, maybe eat a piece of bread or two to help with vomiting should allow enough time for my body to absorb enough to make it a one way trip, plus I plan on being alone somewhere in the high mountains so I won't be found for a long time.

I wouldn't bother collecting pills personally. They are known not to have a good rate of success. Be sure to research carefully what will work at least. There's plenty resources on this site. I'm puzzled by them keeping you in hospital for 8 days because of your high heart rate. Did they diagnose you with anxiety? That is unlikely to kill you tho it must be uncomfortable and distressing. Nothing they can do because of your age? You can ask a doctor for help with the anxiety at any age, it is immaterial how old you are. I'm sorry you feel so alone, it is a common problem on this site. Hopefully it may be comforting to know you are not the only one.

as for the hospital stay, I really don't know why I was in there so long, I went in for a spider bite on my knee, but when they checked my vitals, they took me back and hooked up some machine to monitor my heart and stuff, I told then My heart rate always goes sky high around doctors more so when it is myself dealing with things, they kept me on the machine for several hours then admitted me for observation, they kept taking blood samples which I finally blew up over, the needles was casing myself a lot of anxiety, (I can't even watch anyone getting shots) but after a week they finally sent in a person to drain my knee and took a good amount of dead skin away, they said it was a Black widow most likely, had some pysh person visit me for about 5 minutes due to my break down of the needles, but that was it, problem with asking for help is the asking part, I have been trying for the past 12 years to find help but all the county clinics will do is run me around forever, until I get tired of all the lies and bull they say. then it's back to square one.