Help Telling Family?

[Aliali1992]

I'm 100% ready to go....i see my whole existince as wrong and the battle was already long time lost...i've just put my self throw painful years for no reason...so i don't think i can stick long. However my family is very attached to me especially my mum....Do you have ideas on how to deliver the message " i love you but i can't go on anymore" in the easiest ways? Anybody has done it?

 

[Mr. ‘K so?]

When you rip off a band aid, do you do it slow or fast? That's your answer for the same reasons.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

NOOOOOOOOO.

Put your title in the site search and see what comes up.

If you truly want to ctb, do not tell your family except in a goodbye letter to be found post-ctb. If you want to be watched 24/7 and/or end up in a psych ward, tell your family.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

Just don't. I have the same age as you btw.

 

[Walilamdzi]

I love my family very much and they love me but I just can't see a place for myself. I feel really sad to do this to them but don't feel like living is an option for me.

 

[Marriedwithsuicide]

I love my family very much and they love me but I just can't see a place for myself. I feel really sad to do this to them but don't feel like living is an option for me.

I'm so sorry to hear this. It truly is awful when you feel like this. But one thing I will say which I admit I sometimes forget to. Your family and loved ones may end up suffering the same way you are right now. When I think about that I would never wish it on my loved ones so that stops me. I'm not saying it will always work but it's just something to think about xx

 

[muffin222]

I would imagine that family would be alarmed and would try to have you committed to a psych ward if you intimated suicidal intent, so Idk

 

[AcornUnderground]

I called each one of my siblings and basically said if anything ever happened to me, I love them, there's nothing they could do, etc. etc. My sister had the police show up at my house. I am sure that if we lived in the same state, they would've had me committed.

 

[last_tour]

might not be a good idea for you because you say you're close with your parents, but for me, im trying to get my family to disown or hate me more, so its easier for me to leave. They were toxic hysterical people that did horrendous things to me anyway so I just tell them how awful they are, cause some trouble here and there, argue with them that our relationship is finished and that im never coming back. I think when im gone they'll be relieved, and if they find out i died they'll hopefully think i deserved it.

In the year 1519, Hernán Cortés arrived in the New World with six hundred men and, upon arrival, made history by destroying his ships. This sent a clear message to his men: There is no turning back.

 

[Walilamdzi]

I'm so sorry to hear this. It truly is awful when you feel like this. But one thing I will say which I admit I sometimes forget to. Your family and loved ones may end up suffering the same way you are right now. When I think about that I would never wish it on my loved ones so that stops me. I'm not saying it will always work but it's just something to think about xx

I truly hope that they would feel no guilt as this is just to do with my inability to cope with things. I am trying to just take each day at a time and try something for their sake but I experience so much existential dread constantly no matter what's going on that life is quite difficult for me now.

 

[Musketeer]

I'm 100% ready to go....i see my whole existince as wrong and the battle was already long time lost...i've just put my self throw painful years for no reason...so i don't think i can stick long. However my family is very attached to me especially my mum....Do you have ideas on how to deliver the message " i love you but i can't go on anymore" in the easiest ways? Anybody has done it?

You risk being put in a hospital if you tell anybody. I personally won't tell anyone however i ran away from home at a young age as the result of abuse so i have no family.