I'm also going to get a thought off of my mind that's only sort of related but not really worth a new thread. It's pretty stream-of-consciousness because I wrote it in a notepad file, but I suppose I just want my thoughts to be 'out there' in some way, even if in a wall of text.
Lately I've been struggling on whether I should commit suicide or if I should try and 'fix' my brain considering the amount of things that could be wrong with it that I've identified, as well as the fact that I keep doing 'progressive' things like going to the gym and thinking about the future consequences of things. But I don't even know the extent of my problem or what my problem is, let alone how to fix it, and there are so many uncertainties and potential diagnoses that simply describing my situation or asking someone to take a look at me doesn't make me any more sure.
After looking on r/brainfog it's a serious possibility that I have some sort of inflammatory problem or gut problem or some silly biological problem, I don't even really know, it feels like it could be anything and nothing at the same time. I have Crohn's disease which makes it all the more likely and my diet is full of things that can potentially cause problems like gluten, sugar, processed things. Plus I see a lot of symptoms of ADHD in myself so maybe there are even more avenues to go down there in regards to ways of fixing whatever the hell the state of my existence is, even I'm not sure how things are supposed to be. And that's the thing; what if this is how things are supposed to be already, or alternatively, what if fixing my brain fog doesn't even matter? Like, you see all these people going through years of therapy and 'finding themselves' and all these semi-spiritual, psychological things that aren't really a precise problem, but most people seem to understand 'self-growth' of this almost story-like thing where you change your mindset and way of life by realising things and changing behaviors over time. But then what about all this biological and chemical talk that could be the root of my brain fog like when I read stories about people fixing certain aspects of their body and suddenly their existence feels a lot better? Did all these other people simply take the 'hard way' when it came to solving their mental problems? Or were they separate problems altogether; some people have biological brain fog, whereas some people are how they are 'supposed' to be and yet need to change themselves by simply acting better?
Which brings me to my next question; how do you differentiate the two? Aren't behaviours ultimately chemical/biological anyway? And finally, does brain fog even matter if the 'standard' state of living is almost the same anyway? Like, I'm thinking that when my brain fog is gone I'm suddenly going to become more intelligent, more motivated, full of energy, like I've finally 'unlocked' myself and I can move through life unimpeded. But I know for a fact that a majority of people in life are nothing like this, and they should be how they're supposed to be if they're the majority, right? So is everyone else suffering from brain fog or is life just difficult anyway? So what's going to change if I get rid of brain fog or depression or whatever it even is that I have? I'm not going to start becoming interested in this and that if everyone else lives pretty standard basic lives with low points and sort of high points and all that. There will probably be a whole new host of problems that I constantly have to keep trying to overcome if I become 'normal'. I don't even know what the standard mode of existence is; I don't think there is a 'standard' but essentially I just want to know what to expect. I want to know if how I feel and think is a 'problem' or just a natural result of who I fundamentally am, because otherwise I don't even know if I have a problem at all.
Also, I've been thinking about going to the GP for a blood panel and to get my thyroid and hormones checked and all that (even though surely it's not that easy even if I've read success stories about people finally solving their brain fog). I can't even get myself to go to the GP in the first place, honestly. When I tried a month ago I called the wrong GP like a fool, somehow. Then I called the right one and after bumbling through the reason why I wanted a blood test by saying I have 'fatigue' (I don't want to say that I have depression) they said that they'd call me back; then they called me back on the house phone where me and my mother live instead of the mobile that I called them on. It's a good thing that I didn't say I have depression because it's my mother who picked up and was confused about why the doctor wanted me. I called them up since I missed their call and they said the 'nurse practitioner' (I didn't even know who that was, I sort of just assumed I could call them up and make some sort of appointment and just walk in when it came) I needed to talk to was busy and would call me back another time but it's been a month now so unless I call them up again (which I don't have much faith in) I should just go up there myself when I can actually get myself to do it.
But then all these thoughts collapse on themselves when I realise that suicide is the ultimate solution to all of this, and that running around in circles and trying to get myself to do the most basic stuff is a waste when solving brain fog might not even do anything. And if it does, then suicide also solves my problems by stopping my existence and removing the need for fulfillment. But then I realise I do stuff like exercise and go to the gym and wonder why I'm doing that and wonder how I'm doing that when I can't even go to the doctor's. I started exercising without the gym 10 months ago somehow and I did only come to the gym because my friend asked me to although I put up very little resistance; sometimes I think that if I had an outgoing and energetic person who dragged me around with them and included me then I'd be a lot more functional, although of course I think it's unreasonable for someone else to want to do that so I don't really dream about it, especially since 'doing more' doesn't necessarily translate to a better life like I've been talking about with my brain fog/depression.